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PraiseNinkasi

PraiseNinkasi

New York, NY
August 2009

AUG 25, 2009 01:30 PM

Anyone else find it intensely appealing? Doesn't always have to be the most attractive person, just something about it. The lower east side of Manhattan has been rough lately. Need blinders so that I don't fall off course. Whew.

ALSO -

From the female perspective - if you do this, even though you see that it is blatant, does it bother you when you realize a guy is looking?

flash1977

flash1977

Atlanta, GA
August 2009

AUG 25, 2009 01:43 PM

I think it's very hot and encourage my girlfriend to do it when we're out.

Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 25, 2009 01:45 PM

PraiseNinkasi said:
From the female perspective - if you do this, even though you see that it is blatant, does it bother you when you realize a guy is looking?



I do it because it is more comfortable. Not everything is about performing for someone else.

It doesn't bother me if people discreetly look at my tits.

_margot_

_margot_

Los Angeles, CA
December 2007

AUG 25, 2009 01:48 PM

Roethke said:

PraiseNinkasi said:
From the female perspective - if you do this, even though you see that it is blatant, does it bother you when you realize a guy is looking?



I do it because it is more comfortable. Not everything is about performing for someone else.

It doesn't bother me if people discreetly look at my tits.



This.

I have next to nothing up top. Sometimes it just feels better to not have wire and shit holding what little is there up against my chest.

If you are looking, chances are I'm not even noticing.

SnakePlissken

SnakePlissken

Corvallis, OR
December 2002

AUG 25, 2009 01:59 PM

_margot_ said:

Roethke said:

PraiseNinkasi said:
From the female perspective - if you do this, even though you see that it is blatant, does it bother you when you realize a guy is looking?



I do it because it is more comfortable. Not everything is about performing for someone else.

It doesn't bother me if people discreetly look at my tits.



This.

I have next to nothing up top. Sometimes it just feels better to not have wire and shit holding what little is there up against my chest.

If you are looking, chances are I'm not even noticing.



STARES

PraiseNinkasi

PraiseNinkasi

New York, NY
August 2009

AUG 25, 2009 02:01 PM

I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.

Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 25, 2009 02:03 PM

How dare a woman not constantly be aware of the male gaze!

_margot_

_margot_

Los Angeles, CA
December 2007

AUG 25, 2009 02:06 PM

PraiseNinkasi said:
I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.



Wow.

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

AUG 25, 2009 02:29 PM

PraiseNinkasi said:
I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.



Are you fucking serious?

Here's something you really need to know: women and their bodies are not there for your consumption. You don't get to act like a creep towards a woman just because she wears a shirt that YOU deem "revealing". You are saying she is asking for it and that's sick.

Maybe it was just a hot day out. Did you ever think about that?

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

AUG 25, 2009 02:33 PM

PraiseNinkasi said:
I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.



Chances are that if you've received dirty looks for "glancing" you aren't actually glancing. You're staring.

Uncognitive

Uncognitive

Brooklyn, NY
May 2003

AUG 25, 2009 02:36 PM

You know, I was so hoping this would turn into a picture-heavy thread.

Gringo

Gringo

Spokane, WA
May 2006

AUG 25, 2009 02:39 PM

Uncognitive said:
You know, I was so hoping this would turn into a picture-heavy thread.


Yeah, I "glanced."

MrCrisp

MrCrisp

I'm lost
August 2004

AUG 25, 2009 02:40 PM

Roethke said:
How dare a woman not constantly be aware of the male gaze!



Honestly, I blame the men for not being obvious enough with their ogling.

mingol

mingol

Singapore
July 2005

AUG 25, 2009 02:40 PM

Gringo said:

Uncognitive said:
You know, I was so hoping this would turn into a picture-heavy thread.


Yeah, I "glanced."


She's giving me a dirty look. Does that mean I'm staring?

r00kers

r00kers

Nederland, CO
February 2003

AUG 25, 2009 02:42 PM


It doesn't bother me if people discreetly look at my tits.



I would venture to guess not.

Wear one, or don't. I may look, I may not, though like the original poster, I do find it sexy. I will make every effort to address you and not just your breasts if we perchance speak to one another.
In the end, when we all get tossed into the recycling bin in something like the same instant in astronomic time, it won't really matter.

Gringo

Gringo

Spokane, WA
May 2006

AUG 25, 2009 02:45 PM

mingol said:

Gringo said:

Uncognitive said:
You know, I was so hoping this would turn into a picture-heavy thread.


Yeah, I "glanced."


She's giving me a dirty look. Does that mean I'm staring?


No, she is just giving you a dirty look so it's still "glancing." You aren't staring until she physically assaults you, apparently.

mingol

mingol

Singapore
July 2005

AUG 25, 2009 02:54 PM

Gringo said:

mingol said:

Gringo said:

Uncognitive said:
You know, I was so hoping this would turn into a picture-heavy thread.


Yeah, I "glanced."


She's giving me a dirty look. Does that mean I'm staring?


No, she is just giving you a dirty look so it's still "glancing." You aren't staring until she physically assaults you, apparently.


Oh good.

Kreatureofmagik

Kreatureofmagik

East Wenatchee, WA
March 2009

AUG 25, 2009 03:08 PM

I am usually self-conscious when not wearing a bra in public, because people see my nipples poking out, and of course, OMG! NIPPLES! I think it is so stupid that we have been trained to wear bra's JUST to make sure our nipples don't show through (and to hold those puppies up, god forbid if they sag in old age). They are just nipples. Society has trained us that it isn't normal to be comfortable with ourselves. I try to see it more like a compliment. What else are they there for? I don't have a baby to breast feed, so stare all you want. As long as it isn't a creepy date rape face kind of stare.
(edited for spelling!)

Almie

Almie

United Kingdom
August 2009

AUG 25, 2009 03:11 PM

Personally I wouldn't, not because I think its trashy or anything, cus believe me I''d love them to get some air sometime 0.o
But without wearing a bra in public they tend to bounce everywhere and is pretty much very uncomfortable for anyone in a 3 meter radius to see :|

Dryad

Dryad

Asheville, NC
July 2008

AUG 25, 2009 03:24 PM

People are going to stare at my tits no matter what.
Sometimes I don't wear a bra, and *I* am more conscious of my boobs moving around and such. Whether or not anyone else is more conscious of it is debatable.

Other people have no effect on me (in this respect). I do what I want.tongue

CoyoteMike

CoyoteMike

Iowa City, IA
May 2006

AUG 25, 2009 03:49 PM

PraiseNinkasi said:
I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.



You do know there is a difference between taking a quick glance and staring with drool dripping out of your mouth, right?

Gringo

Gringo

Spokane, WA
May 2006

AUG 25, 2009 03:59 PM

Coyotemike said:

PraiseNinkasi said:
I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.



You do know there is a difference between taking a quick glance and staring with drool dripping out of your mouth, right?

Not when:

The lower east side of Manhattan has been rough lately. Need blinders so that I don't fall off course. Whew.


I really think he has a different definition of the word "glance" than most of us do.

PointBlank

PointBlank

New York, NY
November 2004

AUG 25, 2009 04:37 PM

PraiseNinkasi said:
I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.


So: you don't like how they look at you...when they don't like how you look at them. Makes a lot of sense.


God, dudes are the best.

Ridley

Ridley

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 25, 2009 04:46 PM

PraiseNinkasi said:
I've definitely received some dirty looks when caught glancing. Honestly though, you walk out of the house looking that way and take offense when people notice you?? I don't get it.



The problem is people's need for girls to be in bras. If it were "normal" for girls to go braless would it be such a problem? I don't think it would. It's just that stigma of it being taboo.

It is not the girl's fault that a guy can't control his gaze.

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And if you're getting dirty looks for "glancing" then your glance is really much too long

MrCrisp

MrCrisp

I'm lost
August 2004

AUG 25, 2009 05:40 PM

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