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JAN 27, 2013 02:35 PM
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JAN 28, 2013 01:17 AM
MissyMalice said:
indeed
JAN 28, 2013 03:28 AM
FEB 18, 2013 02:16 PM
FEB 18, 2013 02:48 PM
FEB 18, 2013 03:41 PM
MissyMalice said:
I'm going to call your cat to wake it up.
CATCALL!
FEB 18, 2013 05:12 PM
Temper said:
^^ shared
There are actually five threads if you do a search on the site
That was just my favorite.
FEB 18, 2013 05:24 PM
FEB 19, 2013 01:23 AM
MissyMalice said:
Thanks for the link. The first one is really interesting to me. I've listened to guys make comments about being terrified when gay men have hit on them, but I never thought about it from that particular angle before... Although I'm sure if you pointed out the similarity between that situation and what women deal with every day, a lot of men would just roll their eyes at you. That's "different" because being gay is "gross," and if a girl rejects their advances, she's just being a prudish bitch.
Luckily, when I've pointed this out to guys (the earliest I remember was at 16, so I've been doing it a while 
) it was worked EVERY TIME. They're all kind of quiet for a second and then go: "Oh yeah...."
FEB 19, 2013 02:15 AM
Temper said:
MissyMalice said:
Thanks for the link. The first one is really interesting to me. I've listened to guys make comments about being terrified when gay men have hit on them, but I never thought about it from that particular angle before... Although I'm sure if you pointed out the similarity between that situation and what women deal with every day, a lot of men would just roll their eyes at you. That's "different" because being gay is "gross," and if a girl rejects their advances, she's just being a prudish bitch.
Luckily, when I've pointed this out to guys (the earliest I remember was at 16, so I've been doing it a while ) it was worked EVERY TIME. They're all kind of quiet for a second and then go: "Oh yeah...."
I was crew of a stage play at USC about 12 years ago and one of the cast was a handsome gay man. When he approached me as I sat in the stands after a rehearsal, he put his hands on my legs and started to flirt with me. I did feel uncomfortable and quickly stood up. I continued to talk to him and be polite however and he understood, throughout the production even. He was a cool dude, too bad I'm not gay because he would have been a catch, and to be honest I was rather flattered by his approach. At that point in my life a woman had never done that.
FEB 19, 2013 08:49 PM
AlienHeep said:
Temper said:
MissyMalice said:
Thanks for the link. The first one is really interesting to me. I've listened to guys make comments about being terrified when gay men have hit on them, but I never thought about it from that particular angle before... Although I'm sure if you pointed out the similarity between that situation and what women deal with every day, a lot of men would just roll their eyes at you. That's "different" because being gay is "gross," and if a girl rejects their advances, she's just being a prudish bitch.
Luckily, when I've pointed this out to guys (the earliest I remember was at 16, so I've been doing it a while ) it was worked EVERY TIME. They're all kind of quiet for a second and then go: "Oh yeah...."
I was crew of a stage play at USC about 12 years ago and one of the cast was a handsome gay man. When he approached me as I sat in the stands after a rehearsal, he put his hands on my legs and started to flirt with me. I did feel uncomfortable and quickly stood up. I continued to talk to him and be polite however and he understood, throughout the production even. He was a cool dude, too bad I'm not gay because he would have been a catch, and to be honest I was rather flattered by his approach. At that point in my life a woman had never done that.
Never done what, politely declined your advances or come on to you?
MisterSatan
Portland, OR
August 2002
JAN 27, 2013 02:32 PM