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somethingelegant

somethingelegant

I'm lost
August 2009

AUG 09, 2009 08:27 PM

I'm 19 and bicurious, I'd really like to find out what its like to kiss a girl, but how do I meet one? I don't really want to meet up in real life with anyone online. There's a girl in my math class that's so hot- tats and piercings, but I don't know if I just really appreciate the female body or if I could really be into her, how do I casually/subetly find out if she'd be into making out or whatever without blatently saying it? I don't know if shes bi/les/straight. Thanks for your help! smile

Oskar

Oskar

United Kingdom
February 2005

AUG 09, 2009 08:40 PM

so hot- tats and piercings plus math does not equal functioning relationships

aka

(SHT+P)+M=/=Fr

El_Bandito

El_Bandito

Hialeah, FL
April 2005

AUG 09, 2009 09:02 PM

get her drunk. Keep it classy

RudieCantFail

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA
January 2006

AUG 09, 2009 09:20 PM

El_Jorge said:
get her drunk. Keep it classy



Stay classy, San Diego.

El_Bandito

El_Bandito

Hialeah, FL
April 2005

AUG 09, 2009 09:30 PM

RudieCantFail said:

El_Jorge said:
get her drunk. Keep it classy



Stay classy, San Diego.



and use this
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Onie

Onie

SUICIDEGIRL

Georgia, USA

AUG 09, 2009 11:12 PM

Oskar said:
so hot- tats and piercings plus math does not equal functioning relationships

aka

(SHT+P)+M=/=Fr



I'm having romantic feelings.

RudieCantFail

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA
January 2006

AUG 09, 2009 11:20 PM

Onie said:

Oskar said:
so hot- tats and piercings plus math does not equal functioning relationships

aka

(SHT+P)+M=/=Fr



I'm having romantic feelings.



Most people have trouble differentiating functioning relationships.

Vivid

Vivid

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 09, 2009 11:52 PM

RudieCantFail said:

Onie said:

Oskar said:
so hot- tats and piercings plus math does not equal functioning relationships

aka

(SHT+P)+M=/=Fr



I'm having romantic feelings.



Most people have trouble differentiating functioning relationships.



stop being so obtuse.

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

AUG 09, 2009 11:54 PM

Offer to eat out her pi.

SnakePlissken

SnakePlissken

Corvallis, OR
December 2002

AUG 10, 2009 12:00 AM

Give her sum digits.

Lemonkid

Lemonkid

Canada
May 2003

AUG 10, 2009 11:30 AM

Ask her if 5318008 > 53504.

Lucifer69133

Lucifer69133

I'm lost
February 2009

AUG 10, 2009 11:33 AM

somethingelegant said:
I'd really like to find out what its like to kiss a girl



You're actually a guy, aren't you?

IDGAS

IDGAS

Jackson Heights, NY
March 2004

AUG 10, 2009 12:16 PM

Flunitrazepam

Cash

Cash

USA
OLD SKOOL

AUG 10, 2009 12:42 PM

somethingelegant said:
I'm 19 and bicurious, I'd really like to find out what its like to kiss a girl, but how do I meet one? I don't really want to meet up in real life with anyone online. There's a girl in my math class that's so hot- tats and piercings, but I don't know if I just really appreciate the female body or if I could really be into her, how do I casually/subetly find out if she'd be into making out or whatever without blatently saying it? I don't know if shes bi/les/straight. Thanks for your help! smile



You're going to get a LOT of sarcastic replies......and really.......I don't blame them. However...I'm going to break with my usual trend...and attempt to be helpful here.

If you like her....ask her out. Invite her to a party......ask her if she'd like to get something to eat.....cash in on the advantage you have of being a woman asking out another woman.

If she accepts...pay attention to any signals she may be giving out...positive or negative. drop a few subtle (SUBTLE) hints and see where it goes.

I don't care if you're man, woman, bi, straight, gay....whatever....if someone is attracted to you....they're going to let you know. Your job is to attempt to interpret the signals.


El_Bandito

El_Bandito

Hialeah, FL
April 2005

AUG 10, 2009 12:58 PM

And come on now...most girls nowadays seem pretty open. Making out with another girl really shouldnt be too difficult to accomplish.

sitar

sitar

Philadelphia, PA
June 2004

AUG 10, 2009 02:01 PM

ask her if she wants to go to gay karaoke night.
i got invited to that once. it was a pretty clear 'invitation'.
not being bi-curious, i suggested we just fuck instead.

El_Bandito

El_Bandito

Hialeah, FL
April 2005

AUG 10, 2009 02:08 PM

sitar said:
ask her if she wants to go to gay karaoke night.
i got invited to that once. it was a pretty clear 'invitation'.
not being bi-curious, i suggested we just fuck instead.



ah the subtle art of seduction ♥

herbancowboy

herbancowboy

Houston, TX
June 2004

AUG 10, 2009 02:37 PM

somethingelegant said:
I'd really like to find out what its like to kiss a girl, but how do I meet one?



I think every bisexual person I've ever talked to has said that s/he is not attracted to a gender but to an individual. In other words, I think they would be more inclined to say, "That girl is hot...and that guy is hot..." than "I like girls...and I like boys..."

So I'd focus more on kissing that girl than kissing a girl.

Mmm, girls...

Setsuka

Setsuka

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

AUG 11, 2009 11:10 AM

herbancowboy said:

somethingelegant said:
I'd really like to find out what its like to kiss a girl, but how do I meet one?



I think every bisexual person I've ever talked to has said that s/he is not attracted to a gender but to an individual. In other words, I think they would be more inclined to say, "That girl is hot...and that guy is hot..." than "I like girls...and I like boys..."

So I'd focus more on kissing that girl than kissing a girl.

Mmm, girls...



Exactly.
Good luck lady. smile

violentpatriot

violentpatriot

Brandenburg, KY
July 2008

AUG 13, 2009 12:20 PM

same way a guy hits on a girl...

strike a conversation with her in class, be friendly and flirtatious and touchy feely, take your time cause you guys are in the same class so she isnt going anywhere and there is no reason to have to rush it, invite her over for a dinner date/study date. Pull out a bottle of wine or a joint, up the physical contact or flirtation... and eventually one of the two of you will have to make the first move.

If this is all a little complicated or you want more info you should come over Friday night to my place. I am making lasagna and just bought an awesome new dvd. We can talk strategy over dinner and a movie....
wink wink wink

smile see how that works (says the spider to the fly)

Invisible_Man

Invisible_Man

I'm lost
May 2009

AUG 13, 2009 01:05 PM

or, offer to make her some bracelets! wink

KekiFace

KekiFace

Fort Riley, KS
April 2010

MAY 22, 2010 10:27 AM

RudieCantFail said:

El_Jorge said:
get her drunk. Keep it classy



Stay classy, San Diego.



LMAO!!

Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAY 22, 2010 10:51 AM

If you are a bisexual girl who has hitherto only had experience with straight interactions, it can actually be really strange and intimidating to jump into the gay dating scene. I sympathize.

Since straight girl friendships are so often very difficult to interpret (there is often a lot of flirty-seeming contact such as hugging, snuggling, etc in straight female friendships), I would recommend asking the girl to an event such as gay karaoke night as Sitar suggested, or joining groups that are full of known gays. Like, go to gay karaoke night yourself, and then flirt with the hot girls there as you would a dude.

However, if all you are curious about is kissing girls, and you don't actually want to have sex or relationships with other girls, then just get drunk with one of your chick friends and try making out.

caryn

caryn

I'm lost
December 2008

MAY 31, 2010 09:49 PM

What does "bi-curious" actually mean, outside of role-playing sex?

ElizaTheTroll

ElizaTheTroll

Australia
January 2006

MAY 31, 2010 11:12 PM

caryn said:
What does "bi-curious" actually mean, outside of role-playing sex?


Someone who's only had erotic encounters with one gender and would like to try it with another?

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