I want you to want me

I have a friend that I am totally into. We've gotten to know each other pretty well over the last few months. There are tons of things that we have in common and we're very comfortable together. But damn, that boy is SO hot.

Is it wrong to wish that he would just pin me to the wall and rip my clothes off to have his way with me? I know that he hasn't had any girls that were very adventurous or .....talented.... in bed. I really want to just show him what amazing sex can be like.

Damn it, I want him to want me.

Anyone else?

I think everyone has that at some point.

How about you just pin him down and make him yours. I think he would get the point of what you mean to say at that point.

I prefer Dream Police.

this dang thread keeps getting that song stuck in my head.

I prefer If You Want My Love, or The Flame myself... but I am kind of a sissy. Oh yeah, happy birthday.

I like that song...

But I know what you mean.
It makes me incredibly hot when someone is just that attracted to me that they can't control themselves.
And that's fine with me.

ditto.

i used to be in love with my best friend of 6 years.

some things just aren't meant to be.

Go after him, tell him how you feel. Be in control, no regrets. It's how I roll.

What else are friends for but fucking?

Heh, "but fucking".

You can wish whatever you like; just be careful. I've seen too many friendships end where partnerships begin.

my thoughts exactly.

Tim and I are great friends and have been since we were 14 years old.
But when we tried to make it more, we just fucking hated each other. Didn't talk for a year, and when we rekindled our friendship, it turned out there is still resentment and we're not as close as we used to be.
I regret it a lot.

I am going to say the same thing to you that I would tell a guy if the situation was reversed: You need to be up front with your friend and tell them how you feel towards them. Otherwise, you don't really have a real friendship where you are being honest with one another.

If it turns out that he feels nothing for you, then he has the right to know that he is NOT in a platonic relationship. From there, at least he has the ability to decide whether or not he would like to keep the friendship, explore any sexual desire that may be there, or may decide that he doesn't want a one-way platonic relationship.

It's not me, is it?

Nope.

I've ben where you are but reversed. I wished someone I was good friends with would let me pin them to the wall and have my way with them but we never talked about it. I didn't do it because I didn't know it was going to be okay and since I'm not fond of jailtime or rape charges I kept my hands to myself. The only way you're going to know is to say something. Throw caution to the wind (sort of) and let him know how you feel. Maybe he really will rip your clothes off and have his way with you. Then again he may want a restraining order... j/k.

can't you quietly and smoothly initiate friendly cuddles?
friends can cuddle, right?
but usually they can only cuddle so long, before something happens...

*sigh*

having a crush can make me read into every little conversation and every nuance of our interactions. i dont mean to be paranoid but i find myself wishing that he would wake up, see the way i look at him, and it would change things.

maybe, with time, he will.

i know the feeling.
I fell hard for a girl who only liked girls. we were good friends and I think she was amused that I had a crush on her. It sucked. I would read into every look and gesture.

Hopefully it'll work out for you.

lol i love that video!!!!! and such a good way to show exactly how the situation is. except for the part at the end where she turns into the stunningly beautiful creature.... i can't manage that one

She should've just shown her tits in the first part of the video instead of writing signs.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75-BRgQLJUM&feature=related

Just chuck him against the wall and go for it.
You`ll proberly blow his mind and make his year