CassyLee said:

I let my b/f fuck my ass while I clean his balls. Every girl should do this for her man. Also let him titty fuck you while you iron. That's every guys fantasy right? B/c lets be honest here, sex and household chores go hand and hand right? Who wants to fuck a woman who can't scrub a floor so clean you can fuck on it?

How can you be jumping on the sarcasm train when this is such a tiny step from what you said?

Sex and cleaning have nothing to do with each other was what I was trying to say. In my opinion that would make it a big step. Why does me saying treat a cock like gold have to go to me saying clean his whole house naked while giving him a bj? And I've been in a happy relationship for over 6 years so I think I know a thing or two about keeping my man and keeping him satisfied sexually.

hawkorhandsaw

Chicago, IL

March 2009

JUN 28, 2009 10:40 PM

Personally, enthusiasm is pretty damn important. i dont mean fake the enthusiasm, that's not good. but do things you're excited or happy to do. i know that i at least dont want a blowjob my gf doesnt want to give me. that bored look is a giant turn off.

caryn

I'm lost

December 2008

JUN 29, 2009 12:49 AM

Cash said:
Well...here's something that I wish I could tell every woman. Worship the cock. Treat his dick like it's got the cure for cancer inside it. Treat it like the future of the world depends on it! You don't have to rave on and on about how big it is...because we know that most women say that to make us feel good. One of my former partners gave me, what I consider, the best sexual compliment I ever got. She said "You really have a beautiful cock. I like looking at it, I like playing with it...I like having it inside me"

It's not degrading or anything like that...and you don't need to be over the top about it...but trust me, you'll be surprised how appreciative he'll be. <snip>

^^^^Brilliant. If what you were looking for was some actual advice on how to translate your feelings into your sex, this is absolutely the way to go. Looking at your b/f cock, stroking it, actually playing with it, are all excellent ways to "up your game". If you are inclined to give head, then that's another area you can show some of your feelings for him---rub his cock on your face before just globbing on, and before you just get to work, spend some time kissing and licking him (once his cock is wet it's difficult to keep caressing it, but there's no reason you can't take your time).

Cash said:
Also...keep track of who initiates the sex. If you find that it's mostly him...up your effort a little. A lot of men get tired of always having to initiate sex. It makes us feel like we're being perverts...and that you don't really want to do it...you're just being polite.

I'm not sure about the pervert thing, but any partner who feels they are always initiating sex is going to start wondering why. Bear in mind you don't have to have a marathon intercourse run to have sex. A handjob from a partner is always welcome. On the reciprocation side of things, letting your partner watch you masturbate is a major turn-on for them, regardless of gender.

And as Cash wrote, if you enjoy his orgasm---"making" him come---tell him so, and tell him why (does it make you feel powerful, do you like to feel his orgasm thrum through his body, or whatever you like about it).

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