How old is too old?

I'm almost 20 and I have a 70'ish friend. We've had sex twice already, but I'm wondering what your opinion is about the age difference.

Just say "No" to the silver fox.

I think that despite best intentions, generational difference and an age gap will often be problematic. This is especially true if you're considering a relationship. If it's purely sexual, then it often only depends upon your attitude towards them and their attitude towards you.

Still, the both of you will lack a frame of common reference that is often helpful. I used to be pursued by women old enough to be my mother and these were all the things I discovered for myself if I engaged in a sexual relationship with them.

No.

Just no.

This coming from a woman who loves older men.

I'm going to go ahead and say that judging by this, your other comments, your blog, and your profile, there is no way you're almost twenty or female.

As long as he's not dead. I think that might be illegal.

It's hard to think this is true.

You go girl.

I tend to rely on the rule:

x = (n/2) + 7

where n = your age and x = the youngest you can go. Therefore, the reverse would be

y = (m - 7)*2

where m = your age and y = the oldest you can go.

It breaks down for ages younger than about 19, but for 20 that gives you a reasonable span from 17 to 26, inclusive.

That said, if it tickles your fancy, I say go for it. These rules are more for what is socially acceptable than for what works every time in real life. Personally, though, I think a 70-year-old having sex with a 20-year-old is pretty weird.

Fixed.

somewhere, Hugh Hefner is crying inconsolably. i hope you're happy!

Everyone, before posting, check out Jay_Gurl's profile and decide for yourself if she is real or not.


My vote is for fake.

I was thinking the same thing. Looked after I posted.

LOL.
But then again there was a movie called Harold and Maude.

Umm..yeah. Either that or a weirdo.

I love you.

Wow, I'm shocked! So, I'm a guy, a weirdo and fake. Thanks for not being judgmental... I'm heartbroken.

I was bored in calculus once, and I found a logarithmic expression that computed this very well, but I'm not very smart so I forgot to write it down.



Anyway, serious answer: I would totally have sex with Kylie Minogue, so whatever her age, it is not too old.

Ok, let's say you are for real

Why are you asking people on the internet if you can fuck a dude fifty years older than you? It seems as that is what you are doing.

I mean, my age limit for a relationship is bigger than most people's. Some people may tell me that I shouldn't be interested in X, but I am.

So this is my take on this you feel weird about it and want someone to confirm that it is creepy and gross

orrrr.... you somehow thought that this would get you attention (which it did)

I would go into reasons why someone may think you are fake, but if you are real I would feel bad that I hurt your feelings..

Whatever works for you and your partner is good.

does he have money?

As long as it's legal and consensual: if it feels good do it. Though it does seem like the question was posed more to shock people than to receive considered answers.