Cherry said:
You know I've been with several boys that have 1 asked to stick it in my arse. and 2. actually put it in there without asking ( ). BUT everytime I turn it around, get out my strap on and go "come on then". They run. Fast.
What fucking hypocrites and pussies we have in this backwards world.
I blame porn and homophobia.
Cherry xox
lol i would run to get the lub an condoms iv never done it but im very intersted i found a girl that wants to do it with me we just have to go buy it
Morgan said:
yeah, I think that's the difference. In a respectful relationship, yeah, it shouldn't be about "I did this to you, now you do it to me". But then there are people who EXPECT you to perform acts for them and think you have no right to have any expectations. And that's when there's a problem.
I told a boy once "If I can tell that you expect me to do something, I won't do it". Even if it's something I like. Knowing it's expected makes it very unsexy for me.
I can totally agree, people take sex for granted and expect to get what they want, but you need to show appreciation for every bit of it and be thankful that you have someone to share the experience with. IMO it would come down to trust - if I trusted her enough and she was gentile, I could see it happening at some point.
I have given it to him. I had a really great time doing it, and I know he did too. I had a second guy ask me if I would be open to it (at which point I kinda thought "How many women get asked to do this by two different guys? Maybe people just feel comfortable with me?...") but have still only done it once...
JustAShadow
USA
July 2005
JUL 30, 2009 08:09 AM