oral sex quickie

In my "wild years" I used to apply a little trick to slow down my orgasm, in whatever situation. Maybe your boyfriend could try it out during fellatio.

It's simple : Think of someone ugly, maybe one of your least favorite politicians, in underwear. This sounds like a joke but it works. (I remember that imagining Oliver Cromwell in pink lingerie worked like a bucket of ice water.)

"MARGARET THATCHER NAKED ON A COLD DAY! MARGARET THATCHER NAKED ON A COLD DAY!"

I do not think so. It seems to me that it is probably more of a fetish, and that the idea of being inside of your mouth supercedes any physical sensation, causing immediate ejaculation. But what do I know? You should just ask him. I personally have a difficult time having an orgasm during oral sex. It has only happened 5 or 6 times, much to the chagrin of an X who was more into oral than intercourse.


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if you dont give him head that often, then it can turn into a kind of fantasy that he loves but doesnt get often, and that can make him cum quicker. maybe if you did it more often so it wasnt anything out of the ordinary?? just a sugestion.

Amen, if he's got more than one bullet i nthe chamber... i dont know if its his case but i know when i am havign sex i last a LONG time becasue im going for second or third orgasm.. with oral its the same... but then again i could just a be abnormally horny

Hah, this thread made me sigh. I have NEVER had a problem making any man cum through oral. BUT... my latest boyfriend has yet to climax from my oral alone. I was actually extremely offended lol but finally he told me deep throating somehow dulls the sensation... Like... decreases blood flow because it's more constricting... or something... big penis... woo... what was I saying? Oh yeah, so anyway, I'm use to your same problem so this boy is turning my world upside down lol how DARE he make me question my skillz.

parisambrosia, please do not listen to this selfish girl !!!! LOL! Funny how if some guy goes down on her, or if he has to pound away until she orgasms, more than fifteen minutes is ideal, but lord forbid she has to go longer than fifteen minutes to please her man orally. Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe oral sex to be the most intimate of all sexual encounters and I'm sure you don't mind going for longer than 15 minutes because some of us guys need more than that! Pleasure is a two way street and selfishness is never desirable when it comes to sex.

As far as parisambrosia's question goes: Is he circumcised or not? Reason I ask is because in general men who are uncircumcised usually enjoy way more sensation. So if he is uncircumcised, maybe that's why he blows his load so quickly when it comes to oral. Or maybe you just really do a great job!

-Cthulhu

revel in it, it's the best head he's gotten.

my bf loves head... i cant put up with it for more then 2 minutes. youre lucky. we had to go buy flavored lube so i could get the job done.

Lock jaw sucks!

I pity any man or woman who isn't good at oral sex. It is one of the most enjoyable sexual acts you could ever wish to have with a partner. I'm glad I love eating pussy and I'm glad I've never been with a girl who had trouble doing it either. I think I would call it a night right away and just never talk to her romantically ever again. The "let's be friends" chat would definitely be on my to do list the next time I spoke to her.

-Cthulhu

well, at least you wouldn't have to worry about the "spit or swallow" dilemma.

Actually, I think she would. On a much larger scale.

well, see, if she can't get her mouth open again, spitting isn't really an option. talk about deep throating!

My ex used to think of one of my friend's that he found unattractive (she was a butch dyke)... and then he told me about it. It was super creepy. And everytime I saw her, I'd get skeeved out lol.

If it takes him 30 seconds to come when you're going down on him, the go down and stop every 10 seconds. Kiss your way back up, through his stomach, chest and neck, and kiss him on the face and lips (so he can taste what you've been tasting, and if he's not cool with that, dump him)

Then do a classic little make-out, and then work your way down again

Then repeat this. Only put tongue /mouth on cock for 10 seconds or so. If you're going to be with this guy for a while, you can experiment with how long he can get really excited without coming.

Hey, I hope he goes down on you, too!

I think you may have ruined me for a while....