Condom are hell

Ok...

I'm really tight (i've had guys tell me i was tighter then the virgins they've been with) and the condom always gets pulled off while we're fucking.

Anyone else have/had this problem? If so what can i do so it doesn't do that?

Sounds like you need more lubrication.

ah!
Why the hell didn't i think of that!
Thanks

I've had that happen too, but I'm not sure our reasons are the same.

Is there a chance you two are rushing things when this happens? Not to get too personal, or clinical, but is it possible that you're not ready yet at that moment, physically, from foreplay, etc.?

I ask because in the past I couldn't always tell which situation I was in with someone, whether it was just normal for her or if she and I had rushed things.

Have a baby.

Ever lose one inside and have to fish it out? That's pretty bad.

haha yes! it was soo bad.

Sometimes the tightness can be due to accumulated tension and stress held in the net of muscles in your groin. Yoga, stretching, meditation, and relaxation practices can sometimes help, and also make the sex act more enjoyable on an emotional level as well.

Sometimes...

So are plural.



(just kidding, i'm in a goofy mood today! )

BAHAHHAHAHA OMG

I'm rather glad I wasn't drinking tea (in front of my laptop) whilst reading that one.

haha yeah, but it was hangin partly out so it wasn't too bad

lol yeah i noticed that after i posted it. The title was originally "condom problems" but i didn't think any one would read it with that title =P

LMFAO! no thanks

haha worst conversation ever:

wtf...i wore a condom right?
yeah i saw you put it on....what?
wtf.....it's gone
what?
um...well....see how it's not there anymore?
fuck...
fuck...

You forgot the running around going "Shit! Shit! Shit!"
Oh memories!

LMAO

Oh god, yes. That used to happen ALL the time with an ex-girlfriend of mine. Seriously, like 7 out of 10 times, I'd have to go fishing for it afterwards. Thank god for The Pill.

We finally figured out that we needed to use more lube - problem solved.

yup lube is the answer.

Lube: always a good choice.

I have the exact same problem, it's horrific! To quote a former lover, "It's like trying to fit it in a grouted brick wall" - and I'm super allergenic so pretty much every lube burns like hell. I'd say if you're not as ridiculously sensitive as me go for lube, but if you have a similar problem, I hate to say it but saliva works the best.

Someone found the search function!