Though this might be an awkward topic, I'm curious to hear other people's stories, maybe
it will, you know, help the healing process ;-).
A few nights ago I was a at a party with a few beautiful German girls that were attending an exchange program at my college and lucky enough I managed to win the attention of one of them. All went well until we decided to play some beer pong together. We were both pretty drunk and lost round after round after round. Thus by the time we headed back to my appartment for the night (don't worry, it was across the parking lot no driving was involved)...we were both pretty wasted. It didn't take her long after settling into my bed to make her intentions known. In all the vicious clothes removing and general groping...I was pretty excited except...there was one problem, it just wasn't getting up. No matter what I tried I could not get an errection. It was the first time it had ever happened to me.....call it brewers droop or whiskey dick...my genitals had been defeated. Eventually we fell asleep with the idea that we'd get back to it the next morning. However, I don't think either one of us realized the amount of hang over waiting to greet us when we woke up.
So first off, does anyone know a way around this great misfortune? Second...if not...at least share your story...I'm sure someone out there must have one
Ummm...pretty much every time I've tried to have sex with a girl when we were both drinking excessively, I am too tired to really put forth the effort to have a good time fucking and I usually can't come. And the girl is extra dry. I don't get how so many people can pull that off.
I don't have trouble getting it up when I am drunk, but I might as well be using someone else's dick for all the feeling I have in mine when I am drunk.
With me there is a fine line....too much and I am afflicted with the brewers droop...Bu if I have just enough...
The story goes like this....I am seeing this gal in but she lives like 5 hours away, we meet at the halfway point at her friends house. The three of us go to the bar to meet friends boyfriend...yatta yatta yatta drinking enssues.. We are having a pretty goood time, the suggestion is to go back to the boyfriends house to go hottubbing...Cool.
White russians are the hot tub drink of choice, the girls disrobe, an cover up with towels...What ever..I get naked and throw mine over my shoulder...Whitch way to the pool....
mild fooling aound leads to me an mine taking one side of the hot tub, while the friends go to theiir side.
And it's on like Donkey Kong!!!! Somewhere during this the friends decided to go back into the house ...I have no Idea when....My personal time clock stopped working so i have no Idea how long it lasted.
But in the morning the girlfriend made the statement to us " we tried to keep up, but after the third time, we were just too tired"""
to me whiskey dick and brewers droop are two entirely different side effects of drinking.
The only way to actually get around this is to not go drink for drink with people you are out with, particulary if you are aiming to land in bed with someone later in the evening.
The last time it happened to me, I had not planned to be going home with anyone. A girl at this bar who I had known for some time had other plans it seems, and before I knew it we were both stumbing back to my place.
How did I get around it? I was just straight up honest - "This isn't going to work very well until I've had rest as I am pretty boozey", "That's OK - we are still going to play around until we fall asleep" she replied. So we did, and when we both woke naked the next morning (or afternoon) it was on.
There is no point pretending you can do something you physically aren't capable of at the time. That is just embarrasing.
StarBelliedBoy said:
Ummm...pretty much every time I've tried to have sex with a girl when we were both drinking excessively, I am too tired to really put forth the effort to have a good time fucking and I usually can't come. And the girl is extra dry. I don't get how so many people can pull that off.
Basically significant loss of sensitivity and most times I cannot cum unless she is extra talented or I'm super turned on. I try not to drink too much if I'm getting laid later. It's just less enjoyable for everyone. I'll fuck her until it hurts and never nut. I end up with blue balls and she ends up feeling unattractive or inadequate because I didn't cum.
My first sexual experience belongs in this thread. We were both enthusiastic enough, but after several hours of alcohol abuse were simply not up to the challenge. She later referred to that night's events as "a farce," a description that I would not contest.
In the years since I've always had sense enough to know when I was too far gone to perform, but I've also been able to hold my own when pretty drunk, though lack of sensitivity tends to make me more energetic, more long-lasting, and more self-absorbed. That works fairly well for me, but not so much for her, unless she yearns for a tireless battering ram.
As for drunken cunnilingus, I once had a woman get up and lock herself in my bathroom in the middle of it. That was unnerving.
I've had my fair share of problems. I've also found that there is a 'Perfect Storm' zone of drinking (it's about a beer and half window) where I can go as long as I want, and just finish when I feel like it. This happened recently, and it was awesome.
GentlemanGhost
Brooklyn, NY
October 2007
DEC 26, 2007 09:35 AM