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ellis_v

ellis_v

Bellingham, WA
July 2004

DEC 04, 2007 12:13 AM

To my relatively inexperienced eye the signs of a female orgasm are significantly less obvious than mine (being a male). I've slept with someone who would get loud and thrash around, and another that I wasn't quite sure what was happening. Over time you can learn about each other, but what are some subtable indications that your new partner has either had or orgasm or is ready to move from foreplay/oral to penetration?

Lyingstones

Lyingstones

Albuquerque, NM
September 2003

DEC 04, 2007 12:36 AM

as you have already noticed, everyone is different. if you're not sure, ask your partner.

chances are very good that nobody here has slept with your current girl, so we don't know how she reacts in bed.

ElizaTheTroll

ElizaTheTroll

Australia
January 2006

DEC 04, 2007 01:15 AM

Female orgasm is a myth.

Lyingstones

Lyingstones

Albuquerque, NM
September 2003

DEC 04, 2007 11:06 AM

OlafTheTroll said:
Female orgasm is a myth.



no it isn't. my friend's friend's step-brother's cousin saw one walking through the woods once. unfortunately his video is very grainy, but you can tell what it is.

OntotheNext

OntotheNext

USA
April 2006

DEC 04, 2007 11:26 AM

Haha. A few times I didnt even know if I came.

_margot_

_margot_

Los Angeles, CA
December 2007

DEC 04, 2007 11:52 AM

Orgasms are like snowflakes.

Uncognitive

Uncognitive

Brooklyn, NY
May 2003

DEC 04, 2007 11:53 AM

_Margot_ said:
Orgasms are like snowflakes.



They fall out of the sky when it's cold outside?

_margot_

_margot_

Los Angeles, CA
December 2007

DEC 04, 2007 12:00 PM

Uncognitive said:

_Margot_ said:
Orgasms are like snowflakes.



They fall out of the sky when it's cold outside?



and they melt on your tongue

obd

obd

Venice, CA
June 2003

DEC 04, 2007 12:01 PM

Uncognitive said:

_Margot_ said:
Orgasms are like snowflakes.



They fall out of the sky when it's cold outside?



It's fun to try to catch them on your tongue.

Luz

Luz

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

DEC 04, 2007 12:03 PM

ok honest advice for homeboy:

rhythmic vaginal contractions. they can, however, be faked.

stosbetLP

stosbetLP

Leander, TX
October 2007

DEC 04, 2007 01:42 PM

Luz said:
ok honest advice for homeboy:

rhythmic vaginal contractions. they can, however, be faked.



Damn.. how do you fake that? shocked

KorbenDallas

KorbenDallas

Qatar
January 2005

DEC 04, 2007 01:45 PM

i fake it all the time.

stosbetLP

stosbetLP

Leander, TX
October 2007

DEC 04, 2007 01:47 PM

Not that i need to fake that... I'm just curious... because I find when I orgasm it's such an intense contraction... nothing I could voluntarily make my body do..

ScientistofSleep

ScientistofSleep

New Zealand
November 2007

DEC 04, 2007 03:31 PM

theres no way you could fake that!! meh, why bother faking, just come. i never see the point in faking it, you come you come, you dont? then do it yourself, boys dont seem to mind that, plus its like a fun lesson for them for next time wink

CodyW

CodyW

Lubbock, TX
December 2004

DEC 04, 2007 09:22 PM

Stassney1311 said:
Not that i need to fake that... I'm just curious... because I find when I orgasm it's such an intense contraction... nothing I could voluntarily make my body do..



Kegels, perhaps?

Rafi

Rafi

Santa Monica, CA
January 2003

DEC 04, 2007 10:06 PM

Stassney1311 said:

Luz said:
ok honest advice for homeboy:

rhythmic vaginal contractions. they can, however, be faked.



Damn.. how do you fake that? shocked



Am I crazy, or does faking rhythmic vaginal contractions seem like much more work than telling your partner that you're not reaching orgasm?

_margot_

_margot_

Los Angeles, CA
December 2007

DEC 04, 2007 10:15 PM

Rafi said:

Stassney1311 said:

Luz said:
ok honest advice for homeboy:

rhythmic vaginal contractions. they can, however, be faked.



Damn.. how do you fake that? shocked



Am I crazy, or does faking rhythmic vaginal contractions seem like much more work than telling your partner that you're not reaching orgasm?


I agree. There are more interesting and pleasing options for both partners.

Princelogos

Princelogos

USA
November 2005

DEC 04, 2007 11:49 PM

I'm pretty sure when i cum; if some silly chick wants to lie about it, for any reason, I guess it's her problem. i've known girls who swear they never have, when I ask them , do you get yourself off?
Usually they say no. My answer, well spend some time with your self, if you can't get yourself off, what chance does anyone else have ? Fake sex, jes Marie! frown

stosbetLP

stosbetLP

Leander, TX
October 2007

DEC 04, 2007 11:55 PM

CodyW said:

Stassney1311 said:
Not that i need to fake that... I'm just curious... because I find when I orgasm it's such an intense contraction... nothing I could voluntarily make my body do..



Kegels, perhaps?



I can do Kegels... and it's no where near the intensity of the contractions when I orgasm..

ElizaTheTroll

ElizaTheTroll

Australia
January 2006

DEC 05, 2007 01:02 AM

Luz said:
ok honest advice for homeboy:

rhythmic vaginal contractions. they can, however, be faked.



Not even that criterion is universal, as far as I can tell. But yeah, if the OP is any good at fingering[1], that's probably the best way to find out what her orgasm feels like... wink

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1. And if he isn't, that's totally not my fault and I can't be responsible for any physical or emotional damage.


Mara1

Mara1

Santa Barbara, CA
February 2003

DEC 08, 2007 11:16 PM

Lyingstones said:

OlafTheTroll said:
Female orgasm is a myth.



no it isn't. my friend's friend's step-brother's cousin saw one walking through the woods once. unfortunately his video is very grainy, but you can tell what it is.



That video was a fake! I read about it on snopes.com

fillenoir

fillenoir

Los Angeles, CA
December 2007

DEC 09, 2007 10:55 AM

It does make you look silly to ask a girl if she just had an orgasm, so my advice would be to, if you think she just had one, ask her if she wants you to continue... you can't lose with a question like that.

Also, ask her to masturbate for you sometime, so you can see what her orgasm looks like when she takes care of herself.

Kleio

Kleio

Winona, MN
January 2006

DEC 09, 2007 11:53 AM

Princelogos said:
I'm pretty sure when i cum; if some silly chick wants to lie about it, for any reason, I guess it's her problem. i've known girls who swear they never have, when I ask them , do you get yourself off?
Usually they say no. My answer, well spend some time with your self, if you can't get yourself off, what chance does anyone else have ? Fake sex, jes Marie! frown



Thank you for so completely and terribly simplifying the problems of female sexual dysfunction. And thanks for informing everyone that sex without orgasm is fake, and therefore worthless.

Postblank

Postblank

New Brunswick, NJ
June 2004

DEC 09, 2007 12:04 PM

Kleio said:

Princelogos said:
I'm pretty sure when i cum; if some silly chick wants to lie about it, for any reason, I guess it's her problem. i've known girls who swear they never have, when I ask them , do you get yourself off?
Usually they say no. My answer, well spend some time with your self, if you can't get yourself off, what chance does anyone else have ? Fake sex, jes Marie! frown



Thank you for so completely and terribly simplifying the problems of female sexual dysfunction. And thanks for informing everyone that sex without orgasm is fake, and therefore worthless.


He just wants, women to admit that they, are in fact capable of climax -and - the reason for her failure to get, off is shortcomings on his end.