Did you just come?....advice please

To my relatively inexperienced eye the signs of a female orgasm are significantly less obvious than mine (being a male). I've slept with someone who would get loud and thrash around, and another that I wasn't quite sure what was happening. Over time you can learn about each other, but what are some subtable indications that your new partner has either had or orgasm or is ready to move from foreplay/oral to penetration?

as you have already noticed, everyone is different. if you're not sure, ask your partner.

chances are very good that nobody here has slept with your current girl, so we don't know how she reacts in bed.

Female orgasm is a myth.

no it isn't. my friend's friend's step-brother's cousin saw one walking through the woods once. unfortunately his video is very grainy, but you can tell what it is.

Haha. A few times I didnt even know if I came.

Orgasms are like snowflakes.

They fall out of the sky when it's cold outside?

and they melt on your tongue

It's fun to try to catch them on your tongue.

Damn.. how do you fake that?

i fake it all the time.

Not that i need to fake that... I'm just curious... because I find when I orgasm it's such an intense contraction... nothing I could voluntarily make my body do..

theres no way you could fake that!! meh, why bother faking, just come. i never see the point in faking it, you come you come, you dont? then do it yourself, boys dont seem to mind that, plus its like a fun lesson for them for next time

Kegels, perhaps?

Am I crazy, or does faking rhythmic vaginal contractions seem like much more work than telling your partner that you're not reaching orgasm?

I agree. There are more interesting and pleasing options for both partners.

I'm pretty sure when i cum; if some silly chick wants to lie about it, for any reason, I guess it's her problem. i've known girls who swear they never have, when I ask them , do you get yourself off?
Usually they say no. My answer, well spend some time with your self, if you can't get yourself off, what chance does anyone else have ? Fake sex, jes Marie!

I can do Kegels... and it's no where near the intensity of the contractions when I orgasm..

Not even that criterion is universal, as far as I can tell. But yeah, if the OP is any good at fingering[1], that's probably the best way to find out what her orgasm feels like...

That video was a fake! I read about it on snopes.com

It does make you look silly to ask a girl if she just had an orgasm, so my advice would be to, if you think she just had one, ask her if she wants you to continue... you can't lose with a question like that.

Also, ask her to masturbate for you sometime, so you can see what her orgasm looks like when she takes care of herself.

Thank you for so completely and terribly simplifying the problems of female sexual dysfunction. And thanks for informing everyone that sex without orgasm is fake, and therefore worthless.

He just wants, women to admit that they, are in fact capable of climax -and - the reason for her failure to get, off is shortcomings on his end.