Boring sex life Advice

I am in a similar problem i guess to Hellacious..
My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year, and our sex life has started to.. fizzle..
we both gained weight through our relationship and have become unfit..
I have tried talking to him about this, but he's not really interested, and while i am only 20 and into experimenting, he is 26 and has grown out of the 'experimenting' (and i'm not saying all 26yr olds are the same, but he's definitely stopped experimenting). I really wanna have wild sex, like roleplaying, in public places and such, but NOOOO he doesn't wanna do it..

Someone, help me.. tell me what to do... i think he will open up, i just have to push him a little....

Hey shlee get your own thread!!!! (joking)

If i can offer you some advice dont push him it only ads more tension and pressure to the situation, my best advice would be to try and have a few conversations about the issues and as for the fitness thing, in my experience level of fitness is usually linked to your sex drive im not sure if that is part of the problem or not but im sure that if you both get out there and get a little fitter then your...HIS sex drive might increase, but again im not sure if thats part of the problem.

I think in most relationships the sex seems to be best when the relationship is new and fresh but as you move along it gets good for other reasons. my best advice is try to talk to him about,if he wont talk and is being a child at 26 then you should maybe consider compatiblity but dont go sour quietly make sure he knows of your frustrations and try to figure it out mutually its the only way!

There's something about having you hair washed or brushed by someone who cares that i love. i would suggest if not everythings how you like within the relationship then stop trying because it will drive you apart eventually. life's too short. maybe you'd be better as friends, even though that could take some time. good luck. xx