I here-by turn in my "V" card.

but you can steal so much more after you've blinded them with your juice of love.

bust. a. nut. in. her. eye.

then people will ask her what happened all day.

I didn't orgasm the first time I had sex (it lasted for almost 2 hours so that was pretty frustrating), although I did on the second time. I think it's just performance anxiety, because long after I was sexually active I went without sex for almost 2 years and when I finally did again I couldn't get off until the 3rd time or so. I had a lot of thoughts racing through my head in both situations and the overall thought was just fear and embarassment about not being able to get off which made it nearly impossible.
That coupled with years of only masturbating left me used to that sensation only. What ended up finally pushing me over the edge was a combination of her going down on me and me masturbating which kept the same sensation I was used to but added another sensation and person into the mix to help me feel more comfortable cumming with her and also got rid of my mental block by letting me know 100% that I could get off with someone else. After that I stopped having as much of a problem getting off during sex, although I still last a long time (which is good and bad).

Also, yes the answer to life, the universe and everything is 42.

I'm sure he wasn't complaining with his remark!

No, keep going. This is hilarious. Also, thank you Viks and Roethke for the good advice. I'm death grip guilty.


where did I come up with 27?

Sickies.

If you take a regular medication, particularly for stress or depression, it can result in trouble climaxing. Once I started taking meds for stress, it made it twice as hard to come, even on my own. It's virtually impossible for me to get there through oral anymore, not that I've stopped enjoying it...

Some guys can't take it. Some of us can.

i use the deathgrip like it's going out of style. good advice.

I just knew the gas-powered, kick-start vibrators were a bad idea.

or, you know, this.

I second Roethke's advice.

I've been with a few male virgins, and one had similar issues to you. I think it took about 2 weeks of fairly patient and exploratory secksing before he could come during penetrative PIV sex. (What can I say? I'm a giver.) Learning to be relaxed with a partner can take some time.

If you have a partner who's willing, masturbating in front of her can be one way to show her what you like, and also to overcome any shyness about coming in the presence of another person.

But what's the question?

"How many minutes must a death-grip masturbator fuck for before he finally comes?"

Sounds about right.