So im going through something similar and i've been thinking the same thing. I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 or 3 weeks ago even though I was deeply in love with him because it seemed like he just wasnt as in love with me as he was before. He treated me differently, and could not get over his X.
So now hes all I want you back... Im at the end.. and all that stuff.
Soo seriously I want a Romeo & Juliet love but I can see that it doesn't exist. It may start out that way but it seems to fade away.
Ugh, I hate guys like that... primarily because I am guys like that, and too stupid to quit repeating the same mistakes. On the other hand, I just don't consider a girlfriend to be a "real" girlfriend these days until I've dated them twice....
See, mostly, once you break up but still see each other, two things happen:
1. You only see them in social situations, or at work or whatever - when they've got thier game face on, and thier issues seem to have disappeared.
2 You miss the sex.
But trust me, the issues will still be there when you go back. And the sex will liven up for the first few months of round 2, then go back to what it was like before. After all, isn't new sex always more fun? Go out, enjoy, have some.
I suck at relationships, so my advice is suspect, but think very carefully about going back for round 2.
Lemonkid
Canada
May 2003
SEP 05, 2007 11:13 PM