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Why are we so scared?

tmas84

USA

August 2007

AUG 22, 2007 03:21 PM

Why is it that even some of the most promiscuous people I have ever met will talk about what they like under the covers or in the mall bathroom for that matter when they are in public but put them in the moment and it doesnt matter what you do they say they like it? What the hell is that anything that you read about sex states that the more the involved parties communicate the better the experience will be. So heres my question: When in bed do yo tell your partner(s) what you want them to do? why or why not.

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

AUG 22, 2007 04:28 PM

OK I'll go:

Um yes! Why? Because I want it to feel good instead of bad. Sometimes a person has no sense for what feels good to another person. They need to be told and sometimes threatened I mean how is a person to know if you don't like something if they don't tell you? There's no way. I know I would like to be told if I'm not doing something that feels good

Autumnrain

Spruce Pine, NC

August 2007

AUG 22, 2007 04:51 PM

Yes, because if you don't tell someone what you do and do not like then how the hell are they supposed to know. I mean ya they can tell while the 2 of you are having intercourse or when they are giving you oral, that somethings feels good by the way your body reacts. but if you tell them which specific thing you liked the most then the they are going to remember that and be better in bed the next time. and vice versa of course, if they do something you don't like you have to speak up or it's just going to turn you off to them later on down the road.

joker_

Minneapolis, MN

October 2005

AUG 22, 2007 06:30 PM

No, of course I don't tell anyone what I like, I expect my partners to be psychic.

tmas84

USA

August 2007

AUG 22, 2007 07:35 PM

see this is my point most girls ive been with just seem to agree with anything i do. and lets face i may have an ego but a girl getting off on everything i do is preposterous. so on behalf of guys everywhere we'd like feedback whether it be good or bad.

thanks for the comments

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

AUG 22, 2007 07:42 PM

My advice would be to do it with chicks that have more of a spine then. But also be careful what you wish for. I dated a guy who I threatened to break his arm if he didn't stop doing this 'thing' he was doing-- I mean why bother telling someone if they're just going to keep doing the same thing?? People = stupid. We kind of stopped going there after that.

tmas84

USA

August 2007

AUG 22, 2007 08:29 PM

That seems irrational if you are actively trying to please someone and they ask you to stop doing something it would seem logical to stop. but i dont take hints well so i have to be flat out told do this dont do that otherwise im completely flying blind.

apesamongus

Atlanta, GA

July 2002

AUG 22, 2007 08:38 PM

I like the number of people who answered a question beginning with "when" with "yes".

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

AUG 22, 2007 08:49 PM

apesamongus said:
I like the number of people who answered a question beginning with "when" with "yes".

When in bed do yo tell your partner(s) what you want them to do?

Sounds like a yes or no question to me

Drake

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

AUG 22, 2007 09:52 PM

apesamongus said:
I like the number of people who answered a question beginning with "when" with "yes".

There's an imaginary comma!

And yes, I try to communicate what I want... a lot of the time though, it is difficult to articulate for various reasons and I can't quite phrase it in a useful way.

attn_ho

Brooklyn, NY

February 2004

AUG 22, 2007 10:05 PM

Drake said:

apesamongus said:
I like the number of people who answered a question beginning with "when" with "yes".

There's an imaginary comma!

And yes, I try to communicate what I want... a lot of the time though, it is difficult to articulate for various reasons and I can't quite phrase it in a useful way.

maybe a game should be made of it... like marco polo for sexual response.

Lucy

SUICIDEGIRL

Yemen

AUG 23, 2007 10:23 AM

I think that from now on, before I jump in the sheets, I'll hand my lover a detailed map of my body with all the zones mapped out.

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA

January 2006

AUG 23, 2007 10:26 AM

Lucy said:
I think that from now on, before I jump in the sheets, I'll hand my lover a detailed map of my body with all the zones mapped out.

Are these maps AAA approved?

TAFKASP

Oakland, CA

June 2003

AUG 23, 2007 10:36 AM

Lucy said:
I think that from now on, before I jump in the sheets, I'll hand my lover a detailed map of my body with all the zones mapped out.

I hear the weather in Gräfenberg City is lovely this time of year.

Lucy

SUICIDEGIRL

Yemen

AUG 23, 2007 10:49 AM

RudieCantFail said:

Lucy said:
I think that from now on, before I jump in the sheets, I'll hand my lover a detailed map of my body with all the zones mapped out.

Are these maps AAA approved?

CAA, darling, it's CAA.
And I can't believe I used the word 'map' twice in a sentence. Maybe I need to spend less time with the sexing and more time with a thesaurus.

tmas84

USA

August 2007

AUG 23, 2007 01:16 PM

Lucy said:

RudieCantFail said:

Lucy said:
I think that from now on, before I jump in the sheets, I'll hand my lover a detailed map of my body with all the zones mapped out.

Are these maps AAA approved?

CAA, darling, it's CAA.
And I can't believe I used the word 'map' twice in a sentence. Maybe I need to spend less time with the sexing and more time with a thesaurus.

Any map you gave me i would gladly follow

mydogfarted

Oakland, NJ

June 2003

AUG 23, 2007 01:24 PM

Saraphine said:
sometimes threatened

I think I love you.

punk

Phoenix, AZ

January 2004

AUG 23, 2007 01:30 PM

Lucy said:
I think that from now on, before I jump in the sheets, I'll hand my lover a detailed map of my body with all the zones mapped out.

Better include GPS in there; some people can't follow a map or directions for shit.

IDGAS

Boston, MA

March 2004

AUG 23, 2007 04:14 PM

Lucy said:

RudieCantFail said:

Lucy said:
I think that from now on, before I jump in the sheets, I'll hand my lover a detailed map of my body with all the zones mapped out.

Are these maps AAA approved?

CAA, darling, it's CAA.
And I can't believe I used the word 'map' twice in a sentence. Maybe I need to spend less time with the sexing and more time with a thesaurus.

Do you need a cartographer? <--me when the wife finds out i have been flirting (poorly) on the internet

BlastProcessing

USA

OLD SKOOL

AUG 23, 2007 08:55 PM

Saraphine said:
My advice would be to do it with chicks that have more of a spine then.

But I likes 'em floppy.

Louis_XIV

France

August 2007

AUG 26, 2007 06:58 PM

tmas84 said:
When in bed do yo tell your partner(s) what you want them to do?

Always (except when she already knows it or when I wish to be surprised)

why or why not.

Why? Because I'm the king!