The Bullshit Question

When guys say "you're the most beautiful girl in the world"....is it toal bullshit or the truth?

there are approximately 3.5 billion girls in the world.

you do the math

Almost exclusively total bullshit. Almost.


Unless you are, in fact, the most beautiful girl in the world. Or at least arguably close so that you might be the most beautiful girl the particular gentleman has ever seen himself.

hmm.

I'm sufficiently disgruntled now.

I mean it every time I say it........

Beauty is subjective. To the guy that says that to you, you may indeed be the most beautiful woman in the world to him.

When I'm not saying it to Monica Bellucci, it's total bullshit. Though there are so many runner ups.

aww, that's cute.

but...are YOU full of bullshit?

hence the bs question.

Does it bother most girls when their significant other says "your the most beautiful girl in the world" and promptly whacks off to nudie pics (when there are PLENTY of nudie pics of yourself on the comp) as soon as you're out of eyeshot?

Or am I just crazy?

I've never said this to any girls I've dated. To me, when I hear it, it just sounds campy and made up. I try to be more creative when I want to make a girl feel special.

hah...campy. the official word-of-the-day.

or they're just trying to get laid.... call me cynical if you want

If I called you cynical..I'd be a pot calling the kettle black.

But how does this work in a serious, committed relationship? Is it just to get brownie (read: lay me) points?

Me personally? No. I've only ever said that phrase to one woman. And, while I do enjoy the photos of all the very beautiful women on this site, 98% of my fantasies still revolve around my late fiancé.

So is it a question of variety?

Well, there is an addendum to that which is never said out loud. The full line goes something like this:

"You're the most beautiful girl in the world [which happens to be the world that only extends 3 feet from my center at the moment. I am saying this because I am either drunk, horny, or both, or because I can't think of anything to compliment you on because I lack any creativity or originality. I use this line on almost every girl I date or want to date because I've seen it work in movies. I'd tell you what a complete douche bag I really am but hoping that you'll be impressed with the most beautiful girl line to where we can skip the part about me and focus on getting laid.]"

I hope this clarifies things.

In all seriousness, he may possibly feel that at the moment. That's not to say that he hasn't said that to many other girls...but then again, maybe he felt that "in love" feeling and it applied to the others at the time he said it.

Some people are able to define beauty in ways that aren't just physical. I hope that's the case with the guy who said it to you.

I was being facetious.

"You are the most beautiful girl in the world" is obviously not supposed to be taken literally. The motive behind the words strictly depends on the individual uttering them. Their sincerity is for you to determine.

Honestly though, it is quite cheesy. Anyone with an ounce of creativity could come up with something more personal and genuine than that.

More or less. Just because a steak and a baked potato is my favorite meal, it doesn't mean that I don't enjoy lasagna or chicken Kiev now and again. Sometimes I even crave something other than a steak and potato, even though it remains my favorite.

For all we know, your guy could be incorporating the women in the other pictures into fantasies involving you. Perhaps he doesn't feel the need to look at your picture, because he already has a well-defined mental image of you, from being around you all the time, and seeing you naked in person.

In the end, is it really that important? It's just masturbation.

This is what I would have said, had Rudie not stolen my words. Thanks Rudie.


P.S. I have never and would never say that to anyone.

Honestly..I guess the question that runs through the head is ...well how come I'm not enough for him?

Perhaps thats deluded.

I think I would laugh if someone said that to me....
Jaded?
Just a bit.

There's a great number of other threads on this subject. You'll find a great deal more responses and conversation in those. Just so you know.

Sorry. Board killed.

i used to say it to one girl, and i meant it with all my heart.

To him she maybe the most beautiful girl in the world. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I couldnt care less what people magazine or whoever tells who is hot or not.

It's a romantic statement, you're the most beautiful girl in the world to the man who loves you, unless the statement is offered while drunk and looking for a blowjob, in which case it's bullshit.