Having sex with someone you find repulsive

Its hard to admit, but not only did I find my last mate physically repulsive, I stayed with him for 10 years and suffered through it. I must have been insane to do it....I loved him emotionally, but physically, God, he was.....odd looking. I had to pretend he was a woman every time we had sex and I made sure the lights were out so I could keep that thought. I finally let go of the fantasy, and found myself a real woman to make love to, and thank God I dont have to look at his odd, feminine, bizarre body. Any of you have any repulsive sex??

Why in the hell would you put yourself through something like that for 10 years?

Didnt I say I was insane....lol...

when i crush on someone or love someone or whatever they just seem the finest thing ever to me, and everything about them is cute pretty much, and then sometimes when it wears off I'm repulsed, like wtf was I thinking? But what your talking about, no I haven't expirienced that. You kept that up for 10 years for the sake of love? Hats off to ya...and...I'm sorry

what we wont do for love....But I wish I had loved his body too. We had babies and it didnt seem right to let him go because he looked odd when he was seemingly decent to me in other ways. So, fantasy took over, and he was the hottest bitch in the world in the dark!

Seriously. Not to mention subjecting the other person to it, as well.

You never know what you will do when you feel like you have to

He wasted ten years of his life with someone who finds him repulsive.

yeah....wow...that is truly fucking psychotic though.

A guy spent ten years of his life with someone who found him repulsive. It's needlessly cruel and unfair to that person.

what if the love of your life got mouth cancer and had to have part of his or her jaw removed leaving them deformed. would you end it? or would you screw them with the lights off? I knew a couple like that, and I don't know what I would do if i was in that position. Its the same issue in a different situation.

You guys are stupid...LOL...I said he didnt know and actually we split up because he was a cheater, not because we didnt have good sex. Dont even sit for one second and preach to me that any of you have been with someone that gained or lost weight, whatever, and they were no longer attractive to you, but emotionally you cared very deeply about them. So while all you sensitive bitches are putting me down, he did not waste his time with someone that found him repulsive...HE DID NOT KNOW IT AND HAD NO CLUE...So there was no cruelty to someone that was loved. The cruelty came in cheating on his partner that had his two children.

Youre right, it was like that. You still love them, but you have a hard time dealing with the physicality of it all. Thanks for getting it.

No, I like femine things in WOMEN. Thanks for asking. You look very feminine, and I dont find you repulsive.

Psychotic? YOu dont get it. Move on...

Ok, how about this...I spent ten years of my life trying to make someone happy that was not faithful to me and I didnt know that either. Is that psychotic? I was NOT cruel, he DID NOT KNOW. and I DID LOVE HIM. What dont you grasp here?

oh man please start, like, eight more threads tonight.

Lucy......you have some 'splaining to do!

If my dude looked like you, then that would have been different. LOL...he ACTED feminine, and had an odd body.

No, YOU do it, please?

there's no way they'd be as good as yours