...on Mysapce.

Seriously-- how lame is that? I know someone. My asking him out in public (i.e. asking a friend for his number etc) might cause a bit of a stir-- a stir I'm not sure is worth it just yet. Thought I'd be sneaky and do it in a PM since I don't have his number. On a scale of 1 to 10, HOW DUMB IS THIS IDEA? I literally spent the last 49 minutes trying to compose the perfect email and couldn't. Should I abort this mission?? I've had a crush on him for a really long time and I now have an opportunity to make a move. Help please.

PaulNikon

Palm Bay, FL

February 2003

JUL 14, 2007 11:18 PM

Do it.

To make it less dumb, you might say "I don't have your number and so-and-so might get upset if I did it at the fudge factory. What do ya think?"

Its not dumb at all if you don't have homeboys number.

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 14, 2007 11:46 PM

Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

joker_

Minneapolis, MN

October 2005

JUL 15, 2007 12:02 AM

Yes do it. He will be thrilled.

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 12:06 AM

joker_c said:
Yes do it. He will be thrilled.

Ha! I'll do it tomorrow. I don't want to seem like a freak since it's like 3 am. Where would I be without the 24/7 advice of SG people? Luv yous

attn_ho

Brooklyn, NY

February 2004

JUL 15, 2007 12:08 AM

Saraphine said:
Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

id flirt with him on myspace for a bit, and try to get him to ask you out.
if it doesnt happen in 2 or 3 days, go do it!

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 12:22 AM

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:
Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

id flirt with him on myspace for a bit, and try to get him to ask you out.
if it doesnt happen in 2 or 3 days, go do it!

That's the hard part-- WHAT DO I SAY?? I was not joking when I said I spent 49 minutes trying to compose something. *dooooorrrrrk*

attn_ho

Brooklyn, NY

February 2004

JUL 15, 2007 12:28 AM

Saraphine said:

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:
Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

id flirt with him on myspace for a bit, and try to get him to ask you out.
if it doesnt happen in 2 or 3 days, go do it!

That's the hard part-- WHAT DO I SAY?? I was not joking when I said I spent 49 minutes trying to compose something. *dooooorrrrrk*

im a dumb boy. i dont know how to flirt. i think it goes something like, insult, compliment, insult, comliment, selfdepreciate, insult compliment.

at least, thats what i learned in third grade, and i havent learned much since.

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 12:33 AM

Oh my god that's hilarious. A peek inside the mind of man!! chilling!!

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA

January 2006

JUL 15, 2007 12:35 AM

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:
Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

id flirt with him on myspace for a bit, and try to get him to ask you out.
if it doesnt happen in 2 or 3 days, go do it!

That's the hard part-- WHAT DO I SAY?? I was not joking when I said I spent 49 minutes trying to compose something. *dooooorrrrrk*

Don't forget to pull her pigtails.

attn_ho

Brooklyn, NY

February 2004

JUL 15, 2007 12:36 AM

RudieCantFail said:

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:
Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

id flirt with him on myspace for a bit, and try to get him to ask you out.
if it doesnt happen in 2 or 3 days, go do it!

That's the hard part-- WHAT DO I SAY?? I was not joking when I said I spent 49 minutes trying to compose something. *dooooorrrrrk*

Don't forget to pull her pigtails.

only during sex.

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA

January 2006

JUL 15, 2007 12:38 AM

attn_ho said:

RudieCantFail said:

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:
Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

id flirt with him on myspace for a bit, and try to get him to ask you out.
if it doesnt happen in 2 or 3 days, go do it!

That's the hard part-- WHAT DO I SAY?? I was not joking when I said I spent 49 minutes trying to compose something. *dooooorrrrrk*

Don't forget to pull her pigtails.

only during sex.

ZOMG Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww That's where cooties come from!

attn_ho

Brooklyn, NY

February 2004

JUL 15, 2007 12:42 AM

RudieCantFail said:

attn_ho said:

RudieCantFail said:

attn_ho said:

Saraphine said:

attn_ho said:
Saraphine said:
Oh my god thanks!! In my old(er) age, I find myself being bold initially and then second guessing and wimping out. I'll do it!

id flirt with him on myspace for a bit, and try to get him to ask you out.
if it doesnt happen in 2 or 3 days, go do it!

That's the hard part-- WHAT DO I SAY?? I was not joking when I said I spent 49 minutes trying to compose something. *dooooorrrrrk*

Don't forget to pull her pigtails.

only during sex.

ZOMG Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww That's where cooties come from!
ill take the cooties.

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 12:42 AM

Get a room^^^

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA

January 2006

JUL 15, 2007 12:44 AM

Only if it has bunk beds, and I can build a fort out of the lower bunk.

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 12:48 AM

RudieCantFail said:
Only if it has bunk beds, and I can build a fort out of the lower bunk.

OK now I want in. I have flash lights

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA

January 2006

JUL 15, 2007 12:49 AM

Saraphine said:

RudieCantFail said:
Only if it has bunk beds, and I can build a fort out of the lower bunk.

OK now I want in. I have flash lights

What's the secret password?

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 12:53 AM

RudieCantFail said:

Saraphine said:

RudieCantFail said:
Only if it has bunk beds, and I can build a fort out of the lower bunk.

OK now I want in. I have flash lights

What's the secret password?

Flash lights? I have beer? Boogity??

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA

January 2006

JUL 15, 2007 12:55 AM

Saraphine said:

RudieCantFail said:

Saraphine said:

RudieCantFail said:
Only if it has bunk beds, and I can build a fort out of the lower bunk.

OK now I want in. I have flash lights

What's the secret password?

Flash lights? I have beer? Boogity??

Falshlights and beer?!! OK, come on in!

Quirky

Birmingham, AL

October 2005

JUL 15, 2007 04:42 AM

RudieCantFail said:

Saraphine said:

RudieCantFail said:

Saraphine said:

RudieCantFail said:
Only if it has bunk beds, and I can build a fort out of the lower bunk.

OK now I want in. I have flash lights

What's the secret password?

Flash lights? I have beer? Boogity??

Falshlights and beer?!! OK, come on in!

Falshlights. Best thing since Flah.

akamces

USA

October 2006

JUL 15, 2007 04:59 AM

I was asked/ made a date though myspace after talking for a month. Knew her through friends. Messaged, then exchanged numbers called and texted. I had an amazing weekend, a liitle dissapointed thats all it was.

Boys like to be flirted with, most like to engage in conversation..well perhaps the ones you seek?
Heres my myspace if you need the practice...I'd say yes seconds before you pressed the 'send' button

btw my cats snagged a mouse, I rescued him. He passed away a fews days later from complications, I suppose.

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 07:32 AM

I did it. I have known him awhile so we've had some flirting in the past already--- I just happen to be single now and thought it was worth a shot. Wish me luck!

*oh and the mouse reference above is in relation to my journal-- I would never kill it! My cats however, kill stuff all the time. We shall see that one unfold

johnatthebar

Fort Lauderdale, FL

June 2006

JUL 15, 2007 08:51 AM

you didnt have to myspace me, you could have just asked here silly.

hope it works out, though I am confident it will. I think its adoreable.

DCruz

Montreal-nord, QC

November 2006

JUL 15, 2007 09:26 AM

cool, I wanna know how this turns out... good luck !

Saraphine

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 15, 2007 09:45 AM

Anti-climactic. I got a return message pretty quick-- he gave me his number (I gave him mine first!) does this mean I have to make both first moves? Maybe I'll wait and see if he calls me. Oh god if he has a membership to this site I will kill myself!! Just thought of that

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