The correct way to go about anal sex

Blood makes the best lubricant

No. it's universal. all women are the same and like the same thing. [/sarcasm]

rather than talking to us, why don't you have a long conversation with the person and or people, you want to have anal sex with?

Actually, careful viewing will reveal that she's just explaining how to avoid hitting the scar tissue in her own particular ass.

(Quicktime required)



(not for anal sex, just to watch the movie)



(in fact, you're probably better off starting kinda slow)



(with your pinky)




(and tell her to exhale)

Just because that's the standard reply around here, doesn't mean it applies in every case.

Getting as many tips and as much info from as many sources as possible is pretty important when it comes to something that can be tricky and even painful if done incorrectly.

The OP is only 20. Chances are, asking a girl "how can I successfully fuck your ass" isn't going to be very helpful as the girls he's looking to sodomize are likely anal novices themselves.

That said, obviously the most important thing is for sexual partners to listen to each other and be receptive to signals their partner gives them- both verbal and non-verbal.

I never knew this one. I'll have to try it.

I usually sit on my knees and let my wife "back unto me" that way she has total control of much goes in! I usully rub the small of her back to help "relax" her patience i think is the virtue here..when she is ready she gives me the go ahead to start!

Agai, I thought this was gonna die a long time ago, which adds to the comedy of it.

Okay. So he is talking to us about sodomizing the one he is with. What's the point of the discussion if he says to her "How do you feel about me fucking you in the ass?" and she says "Eww that's nasty i hate anal and will never do it!"

There are women that don't like it, and won't try it. period.

I don't blame him for getting as many tips as he can, a good lover is usually one that is willing to listen, but the discussion needs to start with her.

Buy her a strap on and bend over.

Also, push as if you're taking a shit. Will make taking the cock easier.

You forgot the part where you numb your ass with tons of coke.

ha ha!!! I love you!

You beat me to it. Six months ago, even!

Any of the various pseudo-clever ways folks tend to refer to the activity in question is unlikely to turn on the activity partner. There might exist such a person, but I myself don't know anyone who wants to be fucked anywhere that's currently being referred to as "the pooper."

(Also, that's not what "begging the question" means, but I suppose that's for another thread, in another area of these great world wide intarwebz. )

I finally got around to trying it. I wasn't impressed, in fact, I'll just pass on it.

don't be such a party pooper.

tequila usually works for me.

i have a funny story bout my roomate she decided to do it with her bf after drinking all night at a party stopped at a store to buy lubrication. Was too drunk and instead of getting baby oil like she wanted to she got baby shampoo, which didnt work at all for her and was unable to complete the act. She didnt know why it was so uncomfortable till the next day when she saw the bottle...

What what (in the butt)

How come you having this does not surprise me in the least?

This totally made me laugh. I've never heard of someone so crestfallen over a new sexual experience.

you gotta do it a few times to get used to it. Like anything, a little knowledge in the hands of a novice is only the beginning.

My first time was mindblowing. But I imagine that's atypical.

If you're in that 20-25% who prefer anal stimulation, not at all.