swingers

I would be interested in a swingers party, but since I dont have anyone one to bring I guess that if I came I would just be polite and watch, at least untill I had something to share............

Not saying that applies to you of course, but that's the thing about "swingers"... while not being a body fascist, I can say that most of the people who actively involve themselves in most "swinger" / sex club scenes are people you really don't want to see naked.

I know that seems a crass generalization, and I am sure there are exceptions to the rule, but that has been my experience in the limited times I have come across people into the organized "group thing" like the Ace of Hearts, which is a local swingers club here in Portland.

The people were actually nice and all, but on the purely sexual side of things, most were decidedly unappealing to me.

I'd love to watch...of course my fantasy would be to get invited to join...my girl wouldn't go near it with a (my?) 10 foot pole though...so I guess I'm not able to

*sniff*

sure, when, where

The one we went to all we did was watch (yes, 90% were not pretty). We've been invited to others by friends and, if it was just a looks issue, we'd have gone ... *much* more attractive people.

The biggest problem with the Swinging Lifestyle is men. So many of them can't behave themselves no matter what the consequences.

I discussed a lot of these issues in a question about Las Vegas swing clubs in the SGLV Group. At 35, my wife and I are pretty old. But with all the piercings, tattoos, my mohawk, etc, we tend to hang with younger people (amazingly, few people our age are into the same things as us). Anyway, after 17 years together, we've had a handful of group experiences -- and have been to a few swing clubs. One thing I've realized is that group sex and swinging are different. "Swingers" do it all the time. It's their primary goal in leaving the house. They tend to be older, and have the look of typical middle-aged suburbanites. Then there are the newer, more selective swing groups. Here's an article .
my friend wrote on their type things


They are snobby, but the people are beautiful. Amazingly, my less-than perfect body usually gets me invites because they're intrigued by my "punk" look. However, we never really want to get it on with any of the snobs.

What I'd love to see is a low-pressure swing group with a SG sensibility. As I mentioned elsewhere, a good friend of mine started a gay punk club in NYC in the early '90s called Squeezebox. The idea was all the freaks would get along regardless of sexual preference -- and it worked well. I'd love to see a swing night with that idea. The thought would be that the types of people at SG may be of different body types, etc, but they are all of the same "type" and would be a better group of people to be mingling with and looking for sex.

My last party ended up being that type of thing: punks and strippers who stayed up until noon doing Ecstasy playing strip poker. Suddenly, a 5-person orgy breaks out -- imagine that.

But if anyone ever wants to promote a SG style swing night in vegas, let me know. I know half the swing club promoters, and as I said, I've been wanting to that for a long time.

That would be fab. Maybe sometime down the road such event(s) can be organized by some like-minded folk around here at SG. I know I and my partner would be intrigued by such events. Though we would be the old-farts" in the room (though most assume we are a good decade younger than we are like it sounds like is your case as well). Love Vegas but have not been in 7 years, and me and the SO are in Portland OR.

I wouldn't call myself a swinger, but I would love to help put together a group sex party. How can I help?

Lestadtelc and Amadio-

Not sure how serious the interest in this shit will go on this board. I'm new to SG, and for the time being do you guys mind if I just add you to my (now vacant) friends list and we keep this topic open. I fugre we see who responds to this thread -- maybe post again in a little while, and if the time is right we float the idea for a yearly/monthly/whatever SG Mansion sex party in Vegas (my friends who run swing clubs to promote of course). If no one is interested, -- oh well.

SinCity: You could start your journal so we could post there as well *taps foot*

And I added you so I could lay in wait for this very idea to pop up.

Mei-

WOuld love to host one of those. As suggested by others in this group, I'm starting a thread for that purrpose. ANyone interested, check out my recent journal entry.

A & S

PS Mei- Very weird responding to you after I picked you as my favorite SG LOL

I want a party!!!!

No thanks, I mean I would, but that involves like moving and stuff, and sex is cool, but moving is all difficult so ill pass on this one.

i'd like to. have had a couple or two that i'd considered "doable" for me & my husband..... good people, attractive, basically friends that i found hot... but hubby isn't one for it. he might say "yes" and go through with it, but it'd seriously cause us problems.

i wouldn't wanna do a swingers party though... i'd only want to do it with people i knew & liked as friends already.

now, when single, i'll fuck at the drop of a hat (or even the lack of one to drop)... but now that it's within a relationship, i'd only want to switch off w/people me & my husband could afterwards still hang out with & laugh about it with...

i'd prefer a free-loving easy friendship of couples as opposed to just random swinging, basically.

I can't figure out how to quote, but the whole "free-lovin'" blah blah is what we and my frinends have always been into. It's why we get kicked ou of swinger parties. It's why we aren't into the swing thing. But we all love free and open sex.

Works for me.

I've tried in vain for a while now to get into the swinging scene. Probably sounds sad...but single guys aren't all too successful to begin with, then add to that the fact that I'm a parapalegic, overweight and my body looks like shit.

I mean, sure, I'd love going to a swinger's party. I'd probably end up just watching but hey...better than nothing.

I'ld be happy to be on your friends list.

As for promoting a party, I put together sex oriented parties in seattle about four times a year called Ascension.




[Edited on May 21, 2003 by amadio]

Will there be snacks? I'll go anywhere that has snacks.

i would be very interested ina swingers party! to watch and participate! woohoo!!

I love to watch... ah, the voyeur in me!!

Things like this don't happen in the midwest. People talk about naughtythings, but it's rare that anyone does anything about it. (Sigh.) oh well, have a good time, I'll just be out picking corn out of my boots.