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Corvus_PDX

Corvus_PDX

Portland, OR
December 2002

MAR 11, 2003 05:54 PM

Just wonderin how many of ya'll out there go bare.

Personally I've never been able to cum with a condom.
I've tried quite a few, but they all cut off the circulation, and just leave my poor member numb.
frown

Have any of you ladies tried the female condom?

swingkitten

swingkitten

Portland, OR
OLD SKOOL

MAR 11, 2003 05:59 PM

I go bareback about half the time, all of the time with my boyfriend.
I require some kind of proof of being disease-free, and I'm given a lot of shit for my choices by people who aspire to be a lot more safety-conscious than I am.
I personally just like fucking a lot better without weird man-made materials getting in the way. I also like the sensation of being cummed upon/in, and condoms basically get rid of that.
Add to that the fact that many men I know don't do so well with condoms. Loss of sensation, loss of erection, inability to ejaculate.... dunno how common it is with the male gender at large, but I've seen those problems a lot.

I have tried female condoms, and I like them when I can get them. They take a bit of practice and stuff, but they work quite well.

hatefulerin

hatefulerin

Bellingham, WA
OLD SKOOL

MAR 11, 2003 06:23 PM

Laughsallot said:

Have any of you ladies tried the female condom?



they make great bracelets!

Corvus_PDX

Corvus_PDX

Portland, OR
December 2002

MAR 11, 2003 06:27 PM

Eve said:

they make great bracelets!



ROFL
smile

[Edited on Mar 11, 2003 by Laughsallot]

_Sarah_

_Sarah_

Kalamazoo, MI
January 2003

MAR 11, 2003 06:27 PM

Laughsallot said:
Personally I've never been able to cum with a condom.
I've tried quite a few, but they all cut off the circulation, and just leave my poor member numb.
frown



This might be moot, but have you tried the larger sizes?

Corvus_PDX

Corvus_PDX

Portland, OR
December 2002

MAR 11, 2003 06:30 PM

Sorcha said:

This might be moot, but have you tried the larger sizes?



Yup

DrZaius_

DrZaius_

Shallotte, NC
OLD SKOOL

MAR 11, 2003 06:33 PM

The only time i've bumped uglies I started with a rubber on but, for lack of a better cliche', it didnt feel good so I threw it off and went back to work. Mmmm that was a year ago. Rosie Palmer is getting tired, she needs someone to take over for her for a while.

TristanDante

TristanDante

Lunenburg, MA
March 2003

MAR 11, 2003 06:35 PM

I have trouble cumming or just staying erect with condoms on. They cut off circulation and I very often lose feeling in my penis.

Not pleasant at all.

hulasboy

hulasboy

Venice, CA
September 2002

MAR 11, 2003 07:11 PM

we are on the pill, but when i was a little more out and about, they were a must. the key (i found) was a larger size, like trojan large, unlubricated, and a little bottle of asroglide. get enough lube on your cock, then the rubber goes on, then wipe your lubey hand on the outside of the rubber and ready for business. any other way and they are no puto good.

gobuildinhell

gobuildinhell

Vallejo, CA
January 2003

MAR 11, 2003 07:38 PM

Yeah. I couldn't perform with condoms. I liked to call them "bonecrushers". However, do not fret or despair young lads with these problems. Chances are they are too fucking small. I went ahead and picked me up a package o' magnums and problem was solved immediately. You might just be on the endowed size. I couldn't feel shit or keep it up until I graduated up to my big boy accessories. But now, all is well in condom land. Normally, being married, I wouldn't use them, but birth control is not feasible because of baby. So yeah, go big guys! What have you got to lose?

Orchid1

Orchid1

Portland, OR
August 2002

MAR 11, 2003 07:42 PM

DrZaius said:
The only time i've bumped uglies I started with a rubber on but, for lack of a better cliche', it didnt feel good so I threw it off and went back to work. Mmmm that was a year ago. Rosie Palmer is getting tired, she needs someone to take over for her for a while.



I love you for using the phrase bumping uglies. Not so many people say it.

Prudence

prudence

I'm lost
October 2002

MAR 11, 2003 08:04 PM

i'm an old married lady, and i'm on the pill. i can't remember the last time we used a condom.

i do remember that, before i went on the pill, the main thing i liked about the condom was that it was a neat little receptacle for the semen, which you just throw out. no muss, no fuss. i hated the way it felt to be filled with cum afterwards, and have it drip down my leg or onto the sheets.

now it doesn't bother me as much.

lewboy

lewboy

Columbia, SC
OLD SKOOL

MAR 11, 2003 08:09 PM

Prudence said:
i hated the way it felt to be filled with cum afterwards, and have it drip down my leg or onto the sheets.


A gentleman should offer a towel if not personal assistance!

DrZaius_

DrZaius_

Shallotte, NC
OLD SKOOL

MAR 11, 2003 08:52 PM

Orchid said:

DrZaius said:
The only time i've bumped uglies I started with a rubber on but, for lack of a better cliche', it didnt feel good so I threw it off and went back to work. Mmmm that was a year ago. Rosie Palmer is getting tired, she needs someone to take over for her for a while.



I love you for using the phrase bumping uglies. Not so many people say it.




Heheh it comes from being slightly immature and a social recluse that I still use terms like that. But thankssmile

Prudence

prudence

I'm lost
October 2002

MAR 11, 2003 09:21 PM

lewboy said:

A gentleman should offer a towel if not personal assistance!



well, yes...he always gives me some tissue afterwards...but i never seem to get all of it...

anyway, it's not the same as having a little latex pouch to cum in that you can just toss out the car windowwink

superfly4343

superfly4343

Canada
December 2002

MAR 11, 2003 10:23 PM

Prudence said:

well, yes...he always gives me some tissue afterwards...but i never seem to get all of it...

anyway, it's not the same as having a little latex pouch to cum in that you can just toss out the car windowwink



That was you!!!! mad

Prudence

prudence

I'm lost
October 2002

MAR 11, 2003 10:44 PM

superfly said:


That was you!!!! mad



whoops! sorry! did i hit you in the eye?blackeyed

bigsissy

bigsissy

Portland, OR
February 2003

MAR 11, 2003 11:01 PM

me and my girlfriend just recently stopped using condoms every time....and i must admit i cant perform as well... much as i love it, i'm a two pump chump recently. Too much sensation for me. Not that i'm begging to go back. ever.

Amadio

amadio

Salt Lake City, UT
October 2002

MAR 12, 2003 12:04 AM

Laughsallot said:
Personally I've never been able to cum with a condom.
I've tried quite a few, but they all cut off the circulation, and just leave my poor member numb.
frown



It's a pretty common problem for men who masturbate too often. Doing blow or drink can have the same effect.

But your problem can be fixed!

You've been training your member to perform during direct stimulation only, so when you throw a condom into the mix you don't get the direct friction that you've come to expect (no pun intended).

So my advice... lay off the self-love for two or three weeks, as well as the bare sex.

PS: bareback is still a term pretty exclusive to unprotected gay male sex... and a bad word in most circles.



plonk

plonk

Campbell, CA
February 2003

MAR 12, 2003 12:29 AM

Laughsallot said:

Have any of you ladies tried the female condom?



I've been on the male end of one of these contraptions... and it felt like fucking a sandwhich bag. No thanks.

tofubot

tofubot

Las Vegas, NV
July 2002

MAR 12, 2003 12:59 AM

normally i don't go in unprotected... however with my fiance we haven't had protected sex unless aunt flo was around for a visit (that woman gave us no privacy)... but if i haven't had sex in a while and i'm gonna get down with someone out of the blue, a condom is a real lifesaver from performance embarrasment as well as a nifty way to keep you from unwanted mishaps

robot

Nala

Nala

SUICIDEGIRL

Egypt

MAR 12, 2003 01:19 AM

Eve said:

Laughsallot said:

Have any of you ladies tried the female condom?



they make great bracelets!



true true

Opahl

Opahl

SUICIDEGIRL

Iowa, USA

MAR 12, 2003 02:45 AM

I'm allergic to latex, and non-latex condoms tend to break easily, so I go bare about 99% of the time. I only have sex with people I know well, trust, and am absolutely positive are disease free. and I'm on depo-prevera, so I don't need to worry about pregnancy. It's good, it works for me, 'cause I don't like the way condoms feel anyway.

Corvus_PDX

Corvus_PDX

Portland, OR
December 2002

MAR 12, 2003 08:43 AM

amadio said:

So my advice... lay off the self-love for two or three weeks, as well as the bare sex.



I'm supposed to give up better stimulation, just to orgasm during protected sex?

No thank you.



PS: bareback is still a term pretty exclusive to unprotected gay male sex... and a bad word in most circles.



It seemed to get the point across.

**Damned punctuation**

[Edited on Mar 12, 2003 by Laughsallot]

** Edited to be less pissy **

[Edited on Mar 12, 2003 by Laughsallot]

Amadio

amadio

Salt Lake City, UT
October 2002

MAR 12, 2003 09:14 AM

Laughsallot said:



I'm supposed to give up better stimulation, just to orgasm during protected sex?

No thank you.




Suit yourself. I wish you the best of luck.

[Edited on Mar 12, 2003 by amadio]

[Edited on Mar 12, 2003 by amadio]

[Edited on Mar 12, 2003 by amadio]

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