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_DictionaryGirl_

_DictionaryGirl_

NEWSWIRE

San Diego, CA

AUG 08, 2006 08:39 PM

Keith said:

rollerdisco said:
I'm a virgin and haven't masturbated much (yet), but part of the thing that's kept me scared of sex and sexuality is the whole stereotype of uncontrollable moaning and screaming. Reading this thread, it sounds like more than just a stereotype, but I wonder just how much of the moaning and screaming people do is motivated by society's expectations of it. Society's expectations have really hindered me a lot.



surreal

There is a time for comfort, advice, and support.

But I also believe there is a time to tell your friends "get. the fuck. over it."

You've waited so long and obsessed about sex for so long that it's become this huge THING for you. You're going to be amazed and disappointed by what a totally not big deal at all the real thing is. Then you'll wonder why you spent so many years developing neurosis about it.



You can't go putting the moaning and/or screaming on a pedestal.

DJrunj1

DJrunj1

Washington, DC
July 2005

AUG 08, 2006 08:44 PM

KELLY CLARKSON!!!!

amazongrrl

amazongrrl

Winnipeg, MB
February 2006

AUG 08, 2006 08:50 PM

the louder the better... thinking about being quiet distracts me from the fun!! as for male partners, i find they are quieter usually as has been said here, but i had a lover who would growl when he was trying not to come and it was the sexiest thing e v e r.

Kleio

Kleio

Winona, MN
January 2006

AUG 09, 2006 10:42 AM

amazongrrl said:
but i had a lover who would growl when he was trying not to come and it was the sexiest thing e v e r.



Sweet zombie jesus... just thinking about that kind of turns me on... Yow wow

Phoenixgirl

Phoenixgirl

I'm lost
May 2006

AUG 09, 2006 10:46 AM

Kleio said:

amazongrrl said:
but i had a lover who would growl when he was trying not to come and it was the sexiest thing e v e r.



Sweet zombie jesus... just thinking about that kind of turns me on... Yow wow



damn, that does sound good.i have a tendancy to purr on occasion myself...

demonesskage

demonesskage

Oakland, CA
July 2004

AUG 09, 2006 10:52 AM

I think you can tell alot about a person from the kind of noises they make during sex. And now that I think about that, I'm seeing a common link between the men I've slept with recently...

joker_

joker_

Minneapolis, MN
October 2005

AUG 09, 2006 04:35 PM

So, what does silence and heavy breathing mean?

DJrunj1

DJrunj1

Washington, DC
July 2005

AUG 09, 2006 04:44 PM

Silence and Heavy Breathing can be very good. My girl does both when she is in extacy. I also tend to growl a bit when going at it. I think it is the whole primal urge thing that makes us love that animalistic type of sex.

Without it, sex is kind of vanilla....




with chocolate syrup on top...mmmmmmm

joker_

joker_

Minneapolis, MN
October 2005

AUG 09, 2006 05:00 PM

I meant, I only do silence and heavy breathing (with some whispering of erotic thoughts)..

Anyway, great to be validated through your girlfriend.

Penultimate

Penultimate

USA
October 2005

AUG 20, 2006 04:30 AM

i'm noisy, i scream, i squeal. and i've never had to fake it. biggrin

Lya

Lya

Toronto, ON
February 2006

AUG 21, 2006 10:49 PM

i have a serious porngasm...no matter how hard i try to keep quiet...and i'm definitely not faking it! most men are too quiet...i like to hear you bust a nut!

maquiladora

maquiladora

United Kingdom
June 2006

AUG 22, 2006 04:34 AM

I don't make *much* noise... I'm very shy! I'm getting over it, though. Gasps, whimpers, growls mainly. If I'm a bit tipsy and we're the only people in his house I'll make a lot of noise. wink
It's one of my missions in life to get him to make as much noise as possible! He growls if we're being rough, groans when he comes... it's easier to make him cry out if I'm going down on him, because then he's not worrying about getting me off! Otherwise he keeps pretty quiet and concentrates.
On a side note, I hate when the bed creaks or the headboard hits the wall. It totally puts me off. I need my concentration, damnit!
*frustration* my medication makes it bloody hard to come. whatever

/essay

Devil_Woman

Devil_Woman

I'm lost
August 2005

AUG 22, 2006 10:58 AM

Im loud, Im not shy about what noises need to come out, If I feel i need to moan I will sometimes holding my tongue is a turn on.... and other times I sqeal like a little girl, I like my man to growl a bit.... and get loud when hes right there wink

nightbrightener

nightbrightener

Lancaster, PA
October 2005

AUG 22, 2006 12:16 PM

just a heads up to all the women who like loud men. most guys probably do have the urge to scream but especially when you are trying to last as long as possible and your incredibly turned on, screaming and growling tend to speed up the process. not that sweaty anamalistic fucking isn't great, the kind of sex that is hard fast and rough but if a guy is trying to draw it out and isn't whiskey dicked he'll probably try to focus on controlling himself and that tends to make us quieter. think about the last time you had to concentrate really hard on something, and you probably weren't making alot of noise. when we can't hold back anymore, then we tend to be loud, but the buildup keeps us quieter than we'd probably like. now when we are going down on you, then we don't have a single good excuse not to be vocal and let you know how turned on we are. just a thought wink

trishee314

trishee314

Murfreesboro, TN
June 2006

AUG 22, 2006 12:25 PM

I absolutely loooove being loud, and it's not something I plan to do...it just comes out. Ha, I think I need to go touch myself now.

MrGinger

MrGinger

San Rafael, CA
November 2003

AUG 23, 2006 04:52 AM

I say enough in my sleep, but I've never known a woman to stay quiet throughout her orgasm.

Shimano092

Shimano092

New Britain, CT
January 2005

AUG 23, 2006 05:13 AM

Has anyone ever seen that site beautiful agony? Its a site where people send in videos of themselves having orgasms but its shot from the shoulders up. Just their face. Its pretty hot and its amazing to see the range of epressions and noises. Some people do it themselve and others have a little help smile Maybe we should post some stuff like that in here? I'll leave it at that wink

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Dv9rzp3sKgo

http://youtube.com/watch?v=SDZXZNhg2SQ

http://youtube.com/watch?v=XNeGpPq_a0o

Ngila

Ngila

Portland, OR
June 2006

AUG 23, 2006 11:28 AM

Growly boys are very sexy biggrin

Faye

Faye

Toronto, ON
October 2004

AUG 23, 2006 03:52 PM

I heart noise - and if you're not turning me on then I wont make it so quiet sex with me is bad sex. I'm a moaner, talker screamer....and I love it when the guy gets in on it too.

MissHavok

MissHavok

Chicago, IL
February 2005

AUG 23, 2006 04:08 PM

I am pretty vocal. I think I make every noise possible. I love when men are noisy too. Listening to a man get off is hot.

Dot

Dot

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 23, 2006 05:20 PM

it is a seriously turn off if the guy is quiet. i like them loud!

DannyDMc

DannyDMc

Fargo, ND
July 2003

AUG 23, 2006 06:42 PM


The first girl I was ever with(and so far only frown ) had a tendency of groaning/moaning which I thought was one of the hottest things at the time. I have a tendency of grunting/growling as well; although a bit quietly. No primal screams here...at least for the time being smile

MrGinger

MrGinger

San Rafael, CA
November 2003

AUG 24, 2006 01:23 PM

Ngila said:
Growly boys are very sexy biggrin



rrrrrrrraaAAAAARRRRRGGGgh

Perdita

Perdita

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

AUG 24, 2006 03:38 PM

I love to make noise.

The louder the better. It's fun, and I think it adds to the experience.

Gives me one hell of a sore throat (well that and the heavy breathing). *sigh*

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