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ryman

ryman

United Kingdom
December 2002

FEB 24, 2003 02:19 AM

Just because I pretty much humiliated myself at the weekend in an effort to bed the object of my desire confused confused confused
a) What is the most shameless/shameful thing you have said or done in an effort to get a shag/ long-term mutually respectful and loving relationship? Did it work? (Okay, so I need advice here...)
b) what is the worst that has been done to you? Did you fall for it or allow yourself to be pushed?

Skryche

Skryche

New York, NY
January 2003

FEB 24, 2003 05:32 AM

I got drunk at a party and alternated between hitting on two of my friends. Oh, and my girlfriend was in the room at the time.

Though I met with no success, there strangely were no negative repercussions, either.

Anger

Anger

Columbia, MO
February 2003

FEB 24, 2003 06:57 AM

The most shameful thing I have done in the interest of getting laid would probably be the night I found myself totally naked and doing a handstand in my parents basement with a raging hard-on sproinging from my inverted loins. Yes, I got laid. No, my self-respect never recovered.

As for the most shameful thing ever done in the pursuit of me, well, I don't think its ever had to come to pursuit. The singular time I really remember having feelings of resistance to sex with any woman was at Toni Bottacelli's 22nd B-day party. I was sitting in the floor with my back against the wall and this shapeless tasteless mass of poorly-done female gothiness was rubbing my thigh as I passed out. I clearly remember thinking "Oh shit, please let me wake up alone. . . ."

Opahl

Opahl

SUICIDEGIRL

Iowa, USA

FEB 24, 2003 07:21 AM

The night after my boyfriend dumped me, I got my friends ex-boyfriend, whom she still Loved and wanted to work things out with, really really drunk, and then screwed the living hell out of him. He had a crush on me already, but he's painfully shy, so I'm sure he wouldn't have made a move without the alcohol. It also made him super-uninhibited so we did all kinds of things that I don't normally do the first time I have sex with someone. It was really good, what I remember anyway. 'Cause on the flip-side, I was really drunk too, and prolly wouldn't have done anything if I were sober, even though I really wanted to. And it makes me wonder... Was he trying to get me drunk so that he could screw me too?

So I'm really not sure who seduced who...

confused confused confused

dirtypigeon

dirtypigeon

United Kingdom
December 2002

FEB 24, 2003 07:29 AM

ive neverbeen particuarly sedictive, only the sort of things with a boyfriend if im horny ill take my clothes off and wait. and i always get what i want


the worst thing that was done to me, i got severly drunk and some guy i was hanging out with asked me if i wanted to get some fresh air, well i was feeling a little warm, and when he asked if id ever seen the darkend beer garden before and i replied i hadnt he was only too happy to tak me on the tour. needless to say, i was washing the mud out of my clothes for a while

crazydasaint

crazydasaint

Washington, DC
OLD SKOOL

FEB 24, 2003 03:22 PM

Coupla shameful attempts... all when I was drunk and stoned so I don't remember them that well, plus I'm ashamed of 'em so I won't recount.

The worst attempt was when I was a senior in college and was basically propositioned by a 30-year-old woman... not that there's anything wrong with that in and of itself, but she was a really annoying 30-year-old woman with a creepy thing for younger guys.

When she sobered up she tried to explain it away as just the alcohol and made me promise never to tell anyone (she was married at the time, but separated... I actually knew her because her ex-husband was a friend of a friend). Then the next time she was drunk around me she started in again! "Remember when I told you that I only told you that thing I told you because I was drunk? Well, I'm drunk again..."

GAH!

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Morocco

FEB 25, 2003 06:30 AM

well, the most shameful thing I've done is really not that shameful...when I was trying to hook up with my current boy for the first time, I said "I'm going to CRY if I don't get to kiss you right now". It was true, though.

I had one guy BEG me to give him a blowjob once. I mean it, too, he was actually saying "please? please? just for five minutes? two minutes?"

It was like a little kid trying to bargain to stay up later. I should have started and then bit him. robot

Skryche

Skryche

New York, NY
January 2003

FEB 25, 2003 06:42 AM

Morgan said:
I had one guy BEG me to give him a blowjob once. I mean it, too, he was actually saying "please? please? just for five minutes? two minutes?"



I think most guys have done that at one time or another.

BabyBeezer

BabyBeezer

Blue Lake, CA
November 2002

FEB 25, 2003 08:06 AM

Morgan said:


I had one guy BEG me to give him a blowjob once. I mean it, too, he was actually saying "please? please? just for five minutes? two minutes?"



Yeah, I definately had a beg while repeatedly pushing my head down. Jesus, I thought that only happened in the movies. He really didn't give up for like 15 mins. And when he finally realized I was serious about saying no, he was like "well, can I at least cum on your tits then?" *sigh...*

Scarlett

Scarlett

SUICIDEGIRL

New Hampshire, USA

FEB 25, 2003 08:36 AM

Hmm well.. when I was going out with this one boy.. I was really good to him and all, but he cheated on me on Halloween.. I didnt like that, so I tried to seduce like ANYONE i could after that happened, so he could feel how I felt.. I was so mad, I swear I went on a rampage! I seduced this kid I met at a concert, brought him back to my friends house... straddled him in the hot tub and he got really nervous and didnt want to do anything. turns out he just turned 15. SHIT. good thing nothing happened there. another kid in a hotel public bathroom.. no kissing or anything, just straight to the fuckin'.... The funniest one was his best friend!! Oops! We didnt sleep together but got drunk and kissed a few too many times.... Now the kid I went out with found out, and dumped me, and felt miserable. Too bad he had to cheat in the first place...

I havent cheated since, Im always a good girl until someone fucks with me confused

a548456

a548456

United Kingdom
OLD SKOOL

FEB 25, 2003 08:51 AM

Shamefull Seduction...
Hmm, never done that or had anything like it happen to me... Not sure if that's good or bad... confused
Kinda reminds me of when I was in school though (about 15) and these three brothers (about 20) would hang around outside the school with a suped up (but still crappy car) trying to score. That was pretty shameful, well, more pathetic really. The funniest thing about them was they all had identical haircuts. rather short fades, but without any 'fading' Funny thing is I now see one of them pushing a pram about and his boy has... You've guessed it, the Family Haircutwink
Spike

desidia

desidia

Reunion
September 2002

FEB 25, 2003 12:43 PM

I've been known to crumble with very little effort from time to time.

Al

Al

SUICIDEGIRL

Christmas Island

FEB 25, 2003 12:51 PM

desidia said:
I've been known to crumble with very little effort from time to time.



He's not kidding!

smile

desidia

desidia

Reunion
September 2002

FEB 25, 2003 07:01 PM

all it takes is persistance, not effort, but persistance.
simply grab my bitch handle and pull my lips to yours, that pretty much works every time. straddling will get me pretty well too, because then I can't push you away or get up and leave.

Just make sure to commit some time and don't take "I don't think so" or " This isn't a good idea" for a "no" showing you want subtly but over a steady period of time really shows you mean it.

I'm a terrible seducer, I only tried it once and it failed miserably. never again.

LilStoney

LilStoney

Northridge, CA
February 2008

JUN 21, 2008 04:58 PM

Pretty bad. I was doing a damn good job turning down a guy I was actually into. For a couple months my homie had been telling me how much he dug me and how he wanted me. I continually turned him down cuz he is married. Finally one weekend all the homies went camping, his wife stayed at home. I walked down to the camp bathrooms to brush my teeth. I was stoned beyond belief at this time. When I was done I turned to head back but he was standing there. He walked pat me and just said "follow me". We walked down to the beach together and ended up having sex. I dont regret it even though I feel bad for his wife. Our friendship is still solid and she still doesn't know