rape...

this may sound a bit odd...but i find rape absolutely arousing. we were talking the other evening, hell even the thought of ted bundy turned me on. is there something wrong with me? who knows. but i suppose if your totally for the guy holding you down its not entirely rape...but when my guy just sneaks in the room after work while im sleeping, puts his hand over my mouth, and goes at it....holy god...im in heaven.

just gag me and tie my ass down! anyone else?

[Edited on Feb 20, 2003 by cailin]

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[Edited on Feb 20, 2003 by TOR]

[Edited on Feb 20, 2003 by TOR]

um..yeah... i get my girlfriend to stage a prison rapes when i am in the shower... she is like ... you dropped the soap bitch!!!! ok not really..

There is a certain appeal to relinquishing control that we all feel as long as it is consentual i see nothing wrong with it but i must stress consent is the key

Ummm...yeah...as long as you are only role-playing there is no problem. As long as you have the complete agreement of the women, there is no problem. As long as your kinkiness is not unilateral, you're cool.

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[Edited on Feb 20, 2003 by DemiGauge]

That is more S & M - not rape.

I personally love being physically overwhelmed in sex. I like having no control over what is happening. Being tied to the four corners is my favorite.

Consentual S&M is NOTHING like rape.

Thank you. Good day.

Ooooo! Me too! Me too!

Nothing weird about liking the rough stuff.

i think that's so disrespectful.
edit-i'm talking about this little rape fetish...i agree, s&m is totally different than rape.

[Edited on Feb 20, 2003 by yallovemikehunt]

I love play rape.. i love choking.. forced sex..

BUT all safe and agreed upon

i don't know if this is a rape fantasy or what? But one g/f i had, used to like riding me on top very roughly whilst using both her hands to pull my hair, forcing my head hard into the pillow. I was totally pinned down and it rocked !

Nothing weird about it at all. I remember one time I was talking on the phone to this girl I was seeing and she asked me to come over and rape her. At first I was like what the fuck and she was like sneak in and jump me trust me it will be. So I figured what the hell if she wants to do it, and well the whole thing was rather fun. *s* Long story short nothing wrong with some bizarre fetishes.

The big difference here is that such scenarios, however "forced" the sex, all occur within an overall context of desire and consent.

You're an actor in a staged event - and YOU wrote your lines.

It's not really "rape" in the same way that two boxers agreeing to fight in a ring, under rules, is not the same thing as some drunk sucker-punching you in a barfight.

This is why I've always thought that "S&M" is a misnomer.

True sadists don't use "safe words;" they enjoy hurting people FOR REAL.

As for the so-called Masochists, they externalize their own desires in another person who "forces" things upon them, but nobody is truly being coerced into anything, because they want it to happen.

For those of you who enjoy rape fantasy type stuff...
Don't you think that just the fact that you let yourself enjoy "play rape" trivializes the real thing? I'm sure that if you talk to any woman who really has been raped that she'd find your morbid facinations a little more than disturbing.

What?? How can you make a joke out of this?

I've heard of plenty of girls who have rape fantasy's.



My friend yvette tells me she always has dreams about a couple dirty old men fucking her, not raping her, just dirty smelly old men fucking the shit out of her. and she get's all turned on by it...........


Like i say, whatever floats your boat.

can we remind everyone that this is rape fantasy (ok then, 'forced sex' fantasy) and has NOTHING to do with the seriousness of actual rape

djd can make a joke about anything she wants. seriously . . . get used to it.

and, i think you might find former victims who like being restrained and stuff too . . . the human psyhe is what's fucked . . . not the play.

[Edited on Feb 20, 2003 by Strawbettie]

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