Porn and relationships

You got a V6 or a V8 in that baby?

I have a rickety vintage model T engine. It shakes like a fifty year old washing machine.

I don't like the 'operating table' porn genre that most of it falls into. I think it's mostly the lighting, but a friend of mine also said it was the music. If they could use natural lighting, you know, with shadows, and not make it feel like a half asleep disco hospital, it would offend me less...

That being said, I'm sick of dating women who dont like it. Even if it is poorly produced and makes people look like examination subjects, it's still what we have to live with, for the most part, at this point, and since I dig nudity and sex, it's like one of the main things I'd be looking for in a girl. Hopefully they'd have a sense of humour about it too, cause most of it is rediculous.

Ever see 'Fatliners'?

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Hehe, I have 4.2gigs at the moment.
And now that I can access all of SG that collection (art and porn) looks to be expanding.
I don't mind about my boyfriend having porn... as long as some of it's of me!

It seems to me that porn itself isn't a problem. It's the stigma of porn. Many people cop to trolling for it and watching it. That to me is healthy. It's the folk that have problems dealing with their attraction to porn. I had a girlfriend that ran up our digital cable bill watching porn-on-demand . She never told me about it and when confronted she nearly disavowed knowledge of it. Her edge of shame and secrecy were driven by a fear of not being accepted because of her pleasures.

Porn has always carried a stigma with it. If you can slough off the shame and enjoy it for what it is, then you are way ahead of middle-America.

Porn has changed a lot over the decades. What was once a business of seedy producers and runaways is now more legitimate than ever. All actors have to submit to physicals and testing. They have to have valid certificates to be on set. More female porn stars are turning to writing, directing and producing their own films. It's a different world.

Haha, I do that often!

Porn is alright...and since you are all alone you can feel however you want without having to perform to get there. I suspect performance isn't as much of a sometime-bugaboo in the community of women as it is in the community of men. I think the interest and use is different.

Nothing beats getting there with a real woman on a regular basis, though.

i love porn. dirty, nasty, rough sex porn. and what i like even more is when i can enjoy it with whomever i am currently humping. i can't see a way porn would hinder any sexual relationship. i am a big time voyeur and i get off to watching people fuck the way i like to fuck


i am also happy to hear about a guy i am with masterbating to porn. i don't expect a guy to completely stop looking at attractive women cause they are with me. that is a ridiculous expectation. if someone told me they didn't want me to be able to masterbate to porn i would feel stifled. i would never ask my guy to not look at porn.


anyway, everyone is entitled to their opinion, i just can't understand girls getting jealous of pictures or movies on a tv or computer screen. just seems like its insecurity.