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FEB 12, 2003 10:55 AM
FEB 12, 2003 12:41 PM
It's usually my brain that gets in the way. I find that if I can't turn off my thoughts or if I'm concentrating too much on orgasm it won't happen. I think being relaxed and letting go is the key. Have fun and keep trying.
FEB 12, 2003 02:23 PM
This is rasbieGrrls roommate. .... wow i thought i was the only one with that problem....your not alone.... when you find the trick let me know...haha 
FEB 13, 2003 01:57 PM
FEB 13, 2003 04:28 PM
FEB 13, 2003 05:05 PM
brainsweep said:
I tried something new last night on a lady friend and I noticed/she said it worked wonders.
Yes, but you forgot to tell us what that was.
FEB 13, 2003 09:35 PM
FEB 14, 2003 10:56 PM
There are several over-the-counter creams you can buy (you can usually find them in the condom section) that may be helpful. You rub it on your clitoris. It increases the blood flow to the area and increases sensitivity. Also, many women say that Viagra helps them achieve orgasm (likely for the same reason...increased bloodflow) 
prudence
I'm lost
October 2002
FEB 14, 2003 11:30 PM
MisterSatan said:
Just dropping in to let you know that the gals aren't the only one with this problem- I couldn't do it today either. But, that was probably due to my stupid meds. 
my psychiatrist recently told me that taking 60mg of ginko biloba has helped some people who have trouble reaching orgasm due to antidepressants.
MAR 30, 2003 07:46 PM
MAR 30, 2003 07:50 PM
rockingmikehunt said:
I FINALLY DID IT!!!!
yeh, i'm convinced it was a mental issue...however, i cannot imagine that i could orgasm from sex; the sensations just don't match. or maybe they do...who knows? one day, when someone decent comes along, i'll return from my anti-sexual hiatus.
Hooray!!! Mikehunt had an orgasm!!
That as SO MUCH FUN to say!
But really. I'm glad for you
MAR 30, 2003 10:45 PM
MAR 30, 2003 11:10 PM
rockingmikeHunt said:
I FINALLY DID IT!!!!
yeh, i'm convinced it was a mental issue...however, i cannot imagine that i could orgasm from sex; the sensations just don't match. or maybe they do...who knows? one day, when someone decent comes along, i'll return from my anti-sexual hiatus.
Congrats sweetie! Isn't it the most wondrous sensation in the world? It's like losing control of your body for a few seconds, and there are times I want to bend in half the second my stomach does that pre-orgasmic contraction.
There ARE days I can't do it -- usually due to stress, not feeling well, not having a good enough fantasy -- but just hang in there. I've learned that it's better to go without than to try and try and piss yourself off. 
MAR 31, 2003 06:19 PM
rockingmikeHunt said:
sex or masterbation...i'm broken. i have 2 vibrators. they don't do it. any suggestions?
get one of those detachable shower heads that "massage"......... 
JUN 01, 2009 01:34 AM
I'm 22 and i have not ever cum either! 
it sucks cos i have an amazing and attentive bf and i would love to experience it with him but i cant even do it by myself. I'm sure its a mental thing because when i'm alone i can get to a certain point and then its like i get over sensitive and have to stop. Now i'm so used to stopping at that point that i cant seem to get past it. My bf thinks its a challenge but i know he feels like he's not doing his job because he cant make me cum. My next strategy is to drink enough that i'm very happy n hopefully forget my inhibitians and then maybe it'll happen by accident. We'll see.
JUN 01, 2009 09:59 AM
chelle87 said:
My next strategy is to drink enough that i'm very happy n hopefully forget my inhibitians and then maybe it'll happen by accident. We'll see.
Alcohol can make it harder for a lot of people to orgasm. Not to discourage trying things, but don't take it too hard if it doesn't work
wendy1
I'm lost
August 2002
FEB 11, 2003 10:41 PM