Abstinence

i think i got you beat i have not had sex or polished the torpedo in 203 days and counting thats almost 7 months if my math is right. and i feel sorry for whoever is around when i unleash that demon

Malphas is gonna explode when all that finally backs up to critical mass.

*BOOM!*

with one 3 minute exception, i think it's been about a year since i've had sex. i got a vibrator like a month ago, it was hardcore the first time i used it, i could barely get it in. i can't even imagine what sex is going to be like. ouchie.

Wow... longest celibate period for me, ever (well, after that initial 17 year long one) has been three months.

Longest period without masturbation. I may have gone a week, once.

Should I ever find myself single again, I'll have to check out that whole celibacy thing. I've gone through drug and alcholol-free phases, and those clear your mind incredibly.

Vi

I'm lookin at 22 months...like I said before, it's partially cuz I'm a romantic type, I'm lookin for a relationship...and I'm bad at lookin for relationships...BUT I don't mean to make it out to be a subtle "relationship" problem; I don't discount that factor that I might be detestable to look at. I could be ugly. You never know...

...so I can't get laid, but I don't wanna get laid, I wanna "make love"...but I can't do that either. I have failed on both counts. As for jerking, well, one outta three ain't bad.

so it appears to me that i hold the title of longest period with out knuckle bumping the ol piss pump? if you need a reason for why i quit pulling the pud its cause i lost interest in self gratification. as for the sex at the time i quit it was causing alot of drama

no intercourse since may and it looks like its not going to happen anytime soon neither.

Maybe we all should get together and take care this?

I've got you all beat, 5 years. The reason is I am a social idiot.

good sex? not in many years.... does that count

imnotreallyamonkbutiplayoneontv/ sam

"When masturbation's lost its fun you're fucking lonely."

M

is it by choice or not? unintentional abstinence hardly counts...

I've got you beat when it comes to sex. I have avoided sex for 14 months and 5 days. [but who's counting...?] I am doing it to avoid drama as well as hurt feelings, etc.

I've had offers to break my intense more-than-a-year of no sex, but I'm not ready yet. Congrats on the no masturbation, however. The most I've gone without is probably 2-3 months.

I can't imagine the damage I will end up doing to the next poor boy I decide to sleep with.

I am writhing in agony for all of you. The longest for me has been, well, a couple of weeks, maybe. Here's to you unleashing soon...

I'm on that road right now. I'm just so tired of trying to deal with dating and girls, that I am trying to completely push it to the back of my mind. This site makes it hard to keep up the game but I am such a pscho magnet that i am afriad to even try anymore and trust me the frustration is so much better (all physical stress, no more emotional stress).

oh xiolah, you will always be opencore to me, I'd abstain for any amounts of months for you. I can't wait to add you to one of my favourite girl slots.

i am waiting for my spit to regenerate.....

Everyone's talking about abstinance and then they come to this site, thats a whole load of super masochists out there!

Haven't had sex in almost a year- since before last Easter, sometime in March. After me and my last gf broke up, I tried being the "single guy" again, but it just wasn't happening. After a few weeks of that, I decided that if women weren't gonna be interested in me, then I wasn't gonna be interested in them. I basically eliminated all lustful thought out of my head, or at least tried to. I still get them, but I don't act on them, simply because no one has shown any interest. I dunno, but it's definitely one less thing to worry about.

like stiles said, he'll explode. it's for the good of all humanity!

once we're all obliterated by WWIII, only malphas will be left--he'll provide the big bang to restart the universe

An old friend of mine is a 25 year old virgin (in fact he has only ever kissed one girl before). And it's not out of choice; he just can't seem to find anyone. He is overweight, and terribly shy. And I couldn't even begin to imagine how frustrating that must be.

[Edited on Jan 29, 2003 by plasticfangs]

Trust me on this one- it's really frustrating- you start to wonder what's so terrible about you as a person that no one wants to be with you.

just over a year for me,not through choice
it seems pretty hard out there and ones self esteem kinda gets shot
by the same token i'm prepared to wait and not just do it for the sake of doing it.I've done that before and it hardlly seems worth it and i'd rather it be with someone special.....and then we shall blow our minds

Ah, abstinence makes the heart grow fonder.....

Did a two year kick one time when my ex and I broke up. It was the best thing I ever did. Taking some time off is a great, great thing.