am I the only one like this ?

I've come to the conclusion that I know why I always wind up having relationship problems . I have always either gone for a) someone I find attractive but don't necessarily have a lot in common with , or b) go after someone I have a lot in common with but am not terribly attracted to . This last relationship I've been in has been a b type for me . Now , I know I do this . I knew I was doing it when I started this one , but the last one I was in was a a type & I thought if I could just find someone who I got along with well enough , the rest would fall into place .
Is there anyone else here who does or has done this ? If so , have you been able to stop doing it & how ? Or , would any of you like to try to figure out just what the hell is wrong with me that I keep doing this ? I'm open to any suggestions , but honestly don't need smart assedness this time . And when I say I've always done this , I mean right from my first girlfriend on down the pike . Every damn one of them .

Yeah...see, we don't really do that around here.

I think I need Dr Howard , Dr Fine & Dr Howard more then this buffoon . Thanks for the laugh though .

In other words, you are really shallow. Congratulations.