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nightbrightener

nightbrightener

Lancaster, PA
October 2005

AUG 17, 2006 11:29 PM

what do you do to deal with the pain of a breakup or the loss of a friend/lover?

DhD_No_Pants

DhD_No_Pants

Katy, TX
May 2006

AUG 17, 2006 11:44 PM

I do everything wrong, sadly. No advice, but I can commiserate. When my world fell apart, I didn't know what to do.

nightbrightener

nightbrightener

Lancaster, PA
October 2005

AUG 17, 2006 11:55 PM

dancehall dreamer- i read the post you left under dear person i fucked... for what it's worth no person can live through or for another person and no damage can be done to someone in a relationship without their consent and participation even if it is subconcious on their part, barring force. even if it seems that your actions tarnished another person irrivocably, remember he did have every choice and even if it is never understandable to you, he did choose to be there. ( i speak from experience there, just not from the most recent relationship) besides we're all a little bloodthirsty when we feel hurt and alone. there is something ugly in all of us but that elevates the beauty and gentleness we can show to something almost sacred.

injuredcyclist

injuredcyclist

Portland, OR
March 2006

AUG 19, 2006 12:41 AM

after the last big breakup i had i drank anything in sight for a while. then i got my lip pierced. then i slept around a little bit. couple of months of that, and i started fucking less, working, going to class, and going to the gym more. bought a gecko. spent a lot of time alone, and really started being very selfish about my time and my money. helped seperate the person i was before the breakup and helped define how it had changed me. eventually shit just works out.

so fuck a lot, drink a lot, go to the gym, buy yourself something, and punch a hole in your body.

StarBelliedBoy

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA
December 2003

AUG 19, 2006 07:48 AM

I'm getting a tattoo.

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

AUG 19, 2006 08:52 AM

StarBelliedBoy said:
I'm getting a tattoo.



I did this.

I also fucked the pain away.

I also threw myself into my studies.

I recommend all three (and if you don't find studies, figure out something else).

baudot

baudot

Oakland, CA
February 2004

AUG 19, 2006 09:40 AM

Subrosa said:

StarBelliedBoy said:
I'm getting a tattoo.



I did this.

I also fucked the pain away.

I also threw myself into my studies.

I recommend all three (and if you don't find studies, figure out something else).



I did this, minus the tattoo, plus tacking a one year period of chastity in front of the fucking the pain away.

This also worked.

Kleio

Kleio

Winona, MN
January 2006

AUG 19, 2006 10:27 AM

The two losses that hit me the hardest drove me to getting married. Ah, to never be that young and stupid again...

nightbrightener

nightbrightener

Lancaster, PA
October 2005

AUG 22, 2006 06:50 PM

ah screw it, i think i'll just fuck till i'm happy wink sincerely though, thanks for the imput and advice. what else works for everyone?

joker_

joker_

Minneapolis, MN
October 2005

AUG 22, 2006 09:34 PM

Quickly find some other mess to get involved in. In fact, why even wait till the last one is over...

Affy

Affy

Chicago, IL
March 2006

AUG 22, 2006 09:48 PM

Alot of these ideas seem brash to me. Its all in your own head, not what you can occupy yourself doing. Or at least thats what I think. You wont get over someone unless you want to, no matter how many other people you fuck or what tattoo you get. Just have to get it in your head that its over. SImple.

Drake

Drake

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

AUG 23, 2006 01:47 AM

Affy said:
Alot of these ideas seem brash to me. Its all in your own head, not what you can occupy yourself doing. Or at least thats what I think. You wont get over someone unless you want to, no matter how many other people you fuck or what tattoo you get. Just have to get it in your head that its over. SImple.



Agreed, but those things can help put you in the right mindset. smile

Aia

Aia

Long Beach, CA
July 2006

AUG 25, 2006 12:00 AM

I tried to fuck the pain away, but I think I ended up just being a workaholic.