When she doesn't want oral sex...

So lately my girl of quite a long time has not been into getting oral. I really like going down, but it seems like a chore for her. She wants to just skip to the sex. I used to enjoy getting her off with oral, but now she won't let me do it for more than a minute or 2. She says she is just impatient and wants to get off quickly. I have run out of ideas, any girls with some insight?

well...she's probably self-conscious.

at least that's why i usually decline receiving oral. i am MORE than happy to give such favors.

i blame 12 years of catholic school

The only time I don't want oral sex is when the person giving it isn't very good at it.

She probably just has vagina odor.

or maybe she has a vagina that will eat your face off. i've heard some girls do.

Maybe you aren't very good at cunnilingus. Try Anilingus.

It could be the "of quite a long time" part. I know a lot of times people who have been together for a while get lazy and it's less a "I don't want to get head" kind of thing and more a "lets just both get off as soon as possible and get to bed" kind of thing.

Of course, you could ASK her what the deal is. That might help.

Try to avoid saying "can I lick your pissflaps before I shag you?" prior to adopting the missionary position

Find out if the guy she is screwing behind your back is "allowed" to give her face.

If HE is allowed then its probably b/c you're bad at it..........or b/c she's screwing another guy behind your back

I'll let that go, since this guy already has to live in Canada. I feel bad enough for him.

pppfffttt nice try n00b..........

go make me a sammich- I'm gonna be hungry after I go down on your girl

my thoughts exactly

where's my sammich n00b? get me a toothpick too.... I have a hair in my teeth.



(btw...nice attempt at an attack /flame in my journal... write a journal so ppl can respond. oh yeah and get both a sense of humor AND a thicker skin- biatch)

Perhaps you should read this:
http://suicidegirls.com/boards/Sex+Talk/10561/

Going down on a woman... so much effort. Sod that.

meh.

Agreed. No oral is much better than really, really BAD oral. No offense, dude. But that's kind of a woman's silent form of protest intended not to hurt your feelings. God knows, I've done it before.

Some people just don't like it, believe it or not. Everyone's different. Be thankful that she lets you do it for a minute or two, because she knows you like it. What do you expect, for her to force herself to like it?
I mean, communicate, ask if there's anything you could do to make it better for her, but she might just not like it, and there's nothing wrong with that. A lot of guys don't like handjobs, and there's nothing wrong with that either.

Please kill me if that ever happens.

But... but... I thought you were already dead.

I know this may be heretical or call my own sexuality into question, but, err... I don't always feel like getting a blowjob.



And yes, my wife sucks a dick like no one's business. I'm just not always into it.

Sometimes I don't want oral, but I generally let my hub know, so that he knows it isn't him. And he is a fucking pro when it comes to giving the little man in the boat a tongue lashing, so that isn't the reason.