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ChimbleySweep

ChimbleySweep

New York, NY
April 2006

AUG 17, 2006 06:06 AM

So lately my girl of quite a long time has not been into getting oral. I really like going down, but it seems like a chore for her. She wants to just skip to the sex. I used to enjoy getting her off with oral, but now she won't let me do it for more than a minute or 2. She says she is just impatient and wants to get off quickly. I have run out of ideas, any girls with some insight?

VioletRed

VioletRed

Ferndale, MI
October 2004

AUG 17, 2006 06:30 AM

well...she's probably self-conscious.

at least that's why i usually decline receiving oral. i am MORE than happy to give such favors.

i blame 12 years of catholic school whatever

unravled

unravled

Portland, OR
August 2003

AUG 17, 2006 07:18 AM

The only time I don't want oral sex is when the person giving it isn't very good at it.

MisterSatan

MisterSatan

Portland, OR
August 2002

AUG 17, 2006 07:21 AM

She probably just has vagina odor.

MC_Dove

MC_Dove

Cincinnati, OH
November 2004

AUG 17, 2006 07:29 AM

or maybe she has a vagina that will eat your face off. i've heard some girls do.

Quirky

Quirky

Birmingham, AL
October 2005

AUG 17, 2006 07:30 AM

Maybe you aren't very good at cunnilingus. Try Anilingus.

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

AUG 17, 2006 07:47 AM

It could be the "of quite a long time" part. I know a lot of times people who have been together for a while get lazy and it's less a "I don't want to get head" kind of thing and more a "lets just both get off as soon as possible and get to bed" kind of thing.

Of course, you could ASK her what the deal is. That might help.

GoldToMe

GoldToMe

I'm lost
September 2004

AUG 17, 2006 07:51 AM

Try to avoid saying "can I lick your pissflaps before I shag you?" prior to adopting the missionary position smile

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 17, 2006 08:31 AM

Find out if the guy she is screwing behind your back is "allowed" to give her face.

If HE is allowed then its probably b/c you're bad at it..........or b/c she's screwing another guy behind your back surreal

ChimbleySweep

ChimbleySweep

New York, NY
April 2006

AUG 17, 2006 08:34 AM

I'll let that go, since this guy already has to live in Canada. I feel bad enough for him.

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 17, 2006 08:40 AM

pppfffttt nice try n00b..........

go make me a sammich- I'm gonna be hungry after I go down on your girl

saffa

saffa

I'm lost
April 2005

AUG 17, 2006 09:02 AM

Subrosa said:
It could be the "of quite a long time" part. I know a lot of times people who have been together for a while get lazy and it's less a "I don't want to get head" kind of thing and more a "lets just both get off as soon as possible and get to bed" kind of thing.

Of course, you could ASK her what the deal is. That might help.



my thoughts exactly whatever whatever

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 17, 2006 10:12 AM

where's my sammich n00b? get me a toothpick too.... I have a hair in my teeth.



(btw...nice attempt at an attack /flame in my journal... write a journal so ppl can respond. oh yeah and get both a sense of humor AND a thicker skin- biatch) kiss

joker_

joker_

Minneapolis, MN
October 2005

AUG 17, 2006 10:13 AM

jason

jason

USA
August 2002

AUG 17, 2006 10:33 AM

thorr74 said:
Find out if the guy she is screwing behind your back is "allowed" to give her face.


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GoldToMe

GoldToMe

I'm lost
September 2004

AUG 17, 2006 10:46 AM

Going down on a woman... so much effort. Sod that.

MC_Dove

MC_Dove

Cincinnati, OH
November 2004

AUG 17, 2006 10:51 AM

meh.

Riva

Riva

Apopka, FL
May 2005

AUG 17, 2006 10:56 AM

unravled said:
The only time I don't want oral sex is when the person giving it isn't very good at it.



Agreed. No oral is much better than really, really BAD oral. No offense, dude. But that's kind of a woman's silent form of protest intended not to hurt your feelings. God knows, I've done it before.

pygmy

pygmy

Portland, OR
July 2004

AUG 17, 2006 10:57 AM

Some people just don't like it, believe it or not. Everyone's different. Be thankful that she lets you do it for a minute or two, because she knows you like it. What do you expect, for her to force herself to like it?
I mean, communicate, ask if there's anything you could do to make it better for her, but she might just not like it, and there's nothing wrong with that. A lot of guys don't like handjobs, and there's nothing wrong with that either.

VoodooSugar

VoodooSugar

Long Beach, CA
September 2005

AUG 17, 2006 12:15 PM

Subrosa said:
It could be the "of quite a long time" part. I know a lot of times people who have been together for a while get lazy and it's less a "I don't want to get head" kind of thing and more a "lets just both get off as soon as possible and get to bed" kind of thing.

Of course, you could ASK her what the deal is. That might help.



Please kill me if that ever happens.

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

AUG 17, 2006 01:28 PM

tastyzombiesnack said:

Subrosa said:
It could be the "of quite a long time" part. I know a lot of times people who have been together for a while get lazy and it's less a "I don't want to get head" kind of thing and more a "lets just both get off as soon as possible and get to bed" kind of thing.

Of course, you could ASK her what the deal is. That might help.



Please kill me if that ever happens.



But... but... I thought you were already dead. confused

Idjit

Idjit

HOPEFUL

I'm lost

AUG 17, 2006 01:32 PM

I know this may be heretical or call my own sexuality into question, but, err... I don't always feel like getting a blowjob.



And yes, my wife sucks a dick like no one's business. I'm just not always into it.

DhD_No_Pants

DhD_No_Pants

Katy, TX
May 2006

AUG 17, 2006 01:50 PM

Sometimes I don't want oral, but I generally let my hub know, so that he knows it isn't him. And he is a fucking pro when it comes to giving the little man in the boat a tongue lashing, so that isn't the reason.

AstralTraveller

AstralTraveller

United Kingdom
January 2003

AUG 17, 2006 05:08 PM

AARGGGHHGHGHH said:
Try to avoid saying "can I lick your pissflaps before I shag you?" prior to adopting the missionary position smile



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