So a Lesbian Finally likes me back.....

But typically I am never gay enough for anyone I meet.
So I really like this girl, we've only had sex twice. I'm doing anything I would normally do and she seems to like it but its not getting her off. She also has to stop me and tells me "not so hard" I try to be gentle as I can but it still isn't getting her off. i can see she is getting frustrated. I've gotten girls off before no problem, i think it may jst be that Jessica is so tiny.
Anyone one with some tiny girl gettin off advice?

This isn't ehr but maybe it can be some incentive for you to help

Get her to show you exactly what she likes with her own hands/fingers/vibrator etc. Take photos of that too if you like.


*drools*

+1

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On the photo taking, I mean . . . The advice sounds good too, though.

Yup, gotta talk to her, not us. At least she has a chance of knowing what she likes.

+2 on the pictures.

Definately talk to her. Both of you work on getting her off.

Oh, I can't wait until another lesbian likes me back. They are so good in the sack.

You should all love me for restraining the horrible dirty remark I wanted to make.

Be that as it may, the advice you've already gotten is good. I reffer equally to the talking, the demonstrations, and the pictures. Some people are tricky. If you haven't figured it out yet, get her to help. In my own experience "not so hard" means that you should act like a hummingbird drinking nectar from a delicate flower (read as being both vigorouse and artful, without ever using too much pressure). Some women are so sensitive they really can't handle much pressure as it becomes painful. If you can get a handle on the technique, the extra sensitivity actually makes things easyer.

I wish I had a good answer for you....Far too often, when I approach a girl I'm attracted to in a bar...I get introduced to her "friend".

All the advice given I think is excellent. Especially from you "dkmfc"-nice job! Bet you sure know how to please a woman. Good luck to you Cindarr, I'm happy for you and hope things work out. I'm desperately hoping to find a woman interested in me (I mean I love men-LOVE COCK), but have always wanted a relationship with another woman ::sigh:: has not happened yet. Maybe someday. If not, I'll just live with what I always do-that everything happens for a reason. I'll be thinkin about ya babe and sending lots of good Karma your way.

i know with other girls i have been with, they are extra sensitive down there right before or right after their monthly..also if she's on birth control( i understand she's a lesbian, but they take the pill too..)she could be sensitive..
as far as not being able to make her cum, honey you HAVE to ask her what makes her cum..it will worry you, and make you less of a lover, and she can sense that tension..best of luck..

Its all about the communication.

and the pictures. I love pics, and I love lesbians (being half of one myself)

She did start her period today, maybe shes extra sensitive because of it, not sure. I will talk to her. I don't want to be self concious.
I can't ruin the first one I get!

Vampire lady- I love cock too, but everything else attached has not been doing well for me as of late and I love ladies. And having a real intimate relationship with a cute ladie who treats me right might be just what I need.
I t sure is fun.

all of the advice has been awesome.

I guess my first question would be what are you doing now? I just ask because sex is a general term (oral, manual, anal,vibrator) The comment about her saying "not so hard" sounds just like my girlfriend. Sometimes you are with people who like it harder, not necessarily rough, but just relatively speaking, some like it harder. Sounds like she is the opposite. My first words of advice would be to , like with any sex act, do lots of foreplay. And I know for a lot of straight people that means, oral/manual before insertion but I'm talking about all the subtle things. Start with the kissing, lots of it. People tend to rush, and its important, especially if you are having trouble getting her off, to go extra slowly through the steps. There is a lot you can do to get her going with out even taking her clothes off. I know that my girlfriend loves when I kiss all around the gaps in her clothes (i.e. belt line, neck, etc) Spending time on all this will save you time later. Without being vulgar, the idea is to get her dripping before you even touch the main zones. Then if you're up for it, I find that oral is the best way to go. Gentle oral, lots of teasing and communication. Listen to her and her body and don't be afraid to ask whats working for her. I also second the idea of watching her get herself off and participating in that as well. OH and I second the idea of post pictures

I don't know if we're at a place where I can just whip out the camera but I'll try.

I can't speak for everybody else, but I was just kidding about the pictures. I know how frustrating it must be to be not getting her off. Work on that first. There will be plenty of time for pictures when you have her screaming your name and waking up the neighbors. Until then, good luck!.

I wish a lesbian would like me back

*looks around hopefully*

No?

*sigh*

Tuffy suddenly morphed into a 5 year old?

It's better than "diddles your peeny".

Whatever you do dont stop trying. It will work out at least I hope so from the image in my head now

Not by a whole lot.

Whatever. I'm totally turned on right now.

"There she was just a-walkin' down the street" has a whole new meaning to me now.