Fuck Buddies

Does having a friend who occasionally gets it on with you possible. I mean sex is a great way to reduce stress. Where I live theres a definite taboo on that kinda stuff. Do complications eventually arise, like falling in love? What do you think...

complications always arise...eventually.

Word.

I've done it a few times. As long as both people agree that it's nothing more than sex it will work. My best friend and I always hooked up when we were both single and we're still great friends now. But i have had fuck buddies that develop feelings and all that crap and ruin everything.

I have had guilt-free sex. The trick is that we were so impressed that we actually *meant it* that we became good friends and then fell in love.

Darn, I guess.

I never fall in love. Its a blessing and a curse, but the sex is always refreshing.

I was able to do it once, for a few weeks. The fact that it ended the way that it did - him asking me how he should go about asking another girl out on a date immediately after he and I finished having sex - still makes me laugh.

There's another gent that it worked rather well with for a little while, but a whole lot of drama came in to play, and he and I went through a few years of what I will call Bad Times. We're very good friends now, and all the sexual tension is gone, but I won't say that being fuck buddies worked.

It's fine, unless your older than say 20. In that case it's kinda sad and weird.

Agreed.

Why?

I have a "FUCKBUDDY" right now that when we at first got together as fuckbuddies I would have loved to date. I now KNOW that this would be impossible. she just likes me as a friend and as a fuckbuddy. and I am ok with that.

There are a few others that I would LOVE to have as a fuckbuddy.. but we shall see how that pans out.

* on a side note.. how far would you be willing to travel to meet somone to just have real good sex with?

Me? I dont know. But I am Willing to find out.

Ive got a fuck buddy (or "fornication friend" as i call it) and weve banged since febuary. We only get together about once a month and thats helped keep either one of us from getting too attached to one another. That and shes about 10 years older than me so that helps too.

It is possible and I am currently accepting applications for a new one.

I firmly & truly believe that sex is overrated. That's all I have to add to this thread.

I'm not sure if this qualifies as a fuck buddy but I have a plush Care Bear that finds it's way to my groin when I wake up every morning.

It counts.

Ive attempted this a few times, and only once it went well.

Uuurgh. It worked once for me, in that we didn't fall in love...

... but then, the sex was crap too. Does that count?

I have one now. I'm quite happy with the situation as it is, and don't really think I'd want to date him. If it ain't broke....

I wouldn't mind one right now.

it works for me... well... for the most part... once a guy fell for me and was mad when i told him that i didnt like him like that... but the one now, the sex is amazing, im not gonna lie, i am totally attracted to him, but i know him too well and know that he has some issues that i just dont want to get into and have any sort of 'real' relationship with. the thing i love is that from day one we agreed to keep it a "fuckbuddy" only thing, and not to bring it up to anyone (since we hang out with all the same people) so when we see eachother around are friends, we act as if nothing ever happened. also we only do it about once or twice a month.

I am kinda in the middle of this right now.

It seems to be working so far........................








so far.

i'd say 99% of the time it doesn't work! i think that's why i live in toronto now!

I had one......it worked out great.........except for the bad sex on my part.

it ended well too..............I am so lucky