Nailing a friends Dreamgirl?

Ok I dont really know where to post this so becase there is sex involed I put it here. One of my best friends has a dreamgirl. He is really in love with this girl and geting nowhere with her and to me she is off limints, but another friend of mine and his got her in bed a few days ago and I am not really sure what to think. On one hand I whant to say congrast man, but on the other I whant to smack him and say how could you get with a friends dreamgirl. I just whanted to know what you all think about it. O and the first friend that really more or less is in love with the chick does not know yet any thoughts on that too.

Stand well clear and deny everything

Tell the friend with the crush to shit or get off the pot. Tell your other "friend" he's an asshole.

yup.

My friend that has the crush or what ever has had for about 4 or 5 years and he has tryed and been unable to get eneywhere with her. My other friend has been friends with the both of us going on one year and he has know the chick for a few months. The funny thing is that my 2 friends and others all hange out togather every wensday and my first friend started to bring her to try and get closer to her, but my other friend was the one to wind up geting in bed with her.(It would be alot better to use there names but I would rather not have sombody that knows them read this since the first friend still does not know about it)

+2

except since its been 4-5 years he's not an asshole, just slightly rude.

is it me or does this sound like recess talk?

not saying i think what the guy did was ok, but honestly i don't think that the girl should be off limits in any way just cause the guy has a crush on her. i mean it's been 4-5 years and the guy hasn't made any head way so really why should the friend just stand back if he might like her too? it just seems to me like you shouldn't make your friends have to stay away from a girl that you might like if they might have a chance with the girl.

Did he ever tell her or make signs that she was his dreamgirl..

He made it very clear that she was his dreamgirl and yes it does seem like recess talk, but really how would you guys feel if one of your best friends gets with a chick that means the world to you. I can't say I would be more then a little pissed.

if my intentions have been clear for 4 to 5 years and nada, i'd move on and consider her fair game.

Ya I'd be pissed...I believe in some loyalty among friends especially when it comes to women...

After a period of emotional agony and severe bitterness, he'll find a new dreamgirl. I promise.

oh.......ma...................GAWD!!!!!

You like TOTALLY stole the girl I couldn't get in 4 yrs, b/c I am too ugly/shy/awkward/incompetent!!!!

*gasp* BASTARD!!!!!

That is kinda harsh actually.

no its not.....

if you can't get a girl after 4YRS!!!! then it probably ain't gonna happen.

if guy #2 could get her in a few months or in an evening......he "deserves" it.

...............................I'm sorry MrMuller...............are you the "friend" who dropped the ball??




EDIT- if this guy #1 and the girl have been friends for 4-5 yrs as well, then she HAD to know damn well of his crush....so shitty on her too......
if she didn't, or boy#1 isn't actually her close friend then I read between the lines as "potential stalker"

Man, I drop the ball all the time, but that's got nothing to do with it.

But I don't think the point is that it isn't going to happen, the point is he wants it to happen and you're supposed to be his friend. Plenty of other girls, there's no reason to have sex with the one he wants. You might as well just call him up while you're doing her and be like, "Haha, guess who I'm doing! Listen." And then just set the phone on the table.

No she know how he felt about her. I never really looked at it from her point of view sleeping with one of his best friends like that. Man I though this hole high school bullshit would stop after fucking high school. Why can't people grow up. My first firend should have moved on and my second friend should maybe have passed on her. The more I think about it the more I think there both fuckups.

"Survival of the fittest."

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If it makes you feel any better, this type of dramatic shit, can and does go away for many people as they get older.

thorr74 said:

MrMuller said:
Man, I drop the ball all the time, but that's got nothing to do with it.

But I don't think the point is that it isn't going to happen, the point is he wants it to happen and you're supposed to be his friend. Plenty of other girls, there's no reason to have sex with the one he wants. You might as well just call him up while you're doing her and be like, "Haha, guess who I'm doing! Listen." And then just set the phone on the table.

"Survival of the fittest."

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And if she was the last girl on earth I would agree. But otherwise, na.

And I'll kick your dog dude. Because that's how I roll.

Usually after I realize it's not gonna happen with a girl I like I consider her fair game for my friends. Now if I'm thinking there still might be a chance with her that's a different story. After 4 years though I think I'd have an idea one way or another.

I admit I'd be a little irked upon first hearing the news but after about 30 seconds I'd shrug it off and say "bully for you". Either my friend was a better match or she's "that kind of girl" and I usually don't go for those.

Yea, let the guy get pissed, but if he bitches too long tell him to grow up. The idea of calling dibs on some poor girl is childish as fuck.

4-5 years wasted pining over a girl? That's sad. Tell him she slept with his friend so he realizes he has no chance with her and can move on with his life.

I'd be pissed if my friend got with a woman I wanted, but if after four years I couldn't get with her I think I would have given up by now. So yeah your friend that got laid is kind of an asshole, but your other friend should have either tried harder or moved on.

I don't know about telling him about it though. If you don't and he hears through the grapevine or walks in on them together then that'll be bad for him. On the other hand if you tell your other friend could be upset that you said something. I'd want to be told if I was in his shoes. So it might be best you drop the news on him, and then take it from there. Let him vent, and then take him out for a new dream girl.

MrMuller said:

thorr74 said:
"Survival of the fittest."

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And if she was the last girl on earth I would agree. But otherwise, na.

And I'll kick your dog dude. Because that's how I roll.

there will never be a "last girl on earth" cause us Alpha's will continue to push you wusses out of the way and keep on a-humpin'..... caveman style.

Go ahead and kick my dog.... don't let fear or common sense stop you