reasons to abstain from giving and recieving head?

okay guys and gals, a female friend of mine is seeing a guy who refuses (tactfully) to go down on her or receive the same in return. i told her it might have to due with religious hangups, lack of self confidence, or past experiences but honestly i have no idea, becuase he has no reservations about just having sex with her... i know from past experiences that the girl in question is very clean and clean shaven, tastes and smells great and loves to return the favor. any ideas, similiar experiences? i was trying to help her but honestly, who the hell doesn't love giving and receiving head/oral sex. she and i can't figure it out and when she asks the guy he just evades the question. i can see how just receiving could seem selfish to the guy, but not doing either? any thoughts? male of female veiwpoints?

and rereading this i can see my public school education has done very little to develope my spelling or typing skills, or grammatical proficiency, come to think of it.

when has giving a guy head ever garuanteed that you would get anything in return? i tend to agree with the DTMFA comment if there are other problems but if everything else works, hey, men can be trained or taught

as far as the whole not liking pussy thing.... not to cross over to another topic but it's kind of like the ugly dick threads. just cuz the things never gonna be on the cover of vogue is no reason to ignore it

Maybe he's insecure, I have several female friends who are quite uncomfortable in themselves and refuse to give or receive oral sex.

you could be right CB, it just seems that if someone is comfortable initiating sex, they would also be comfortable giving or recieving oral sex. not to imply all or most women are passive when it comes to making the first move sexually, but i doubt your friends would make the first move if they are sexually insecure or lack the self confidence. or did you mean uncomfortable in another way?

Yep. Been there.

Heh, the first girl I ever slept with laid it on the line: "You either eat my pussy, or you get the fuck out!" Worked for me.

Have you ever had/made a blowjob while driving?

I don't like him going down on me. I'm fine with giving, but not receiving. I can't be the only one who feels like that!

Why?

Shyness, I'd assume.

You'd...assume? It's your body, you don't know?

That's hot.

what about giving helmet?

I think it's most probably due to the very high level of intimacy that is involved in performing or receiving oral that makes alot of insecure people feel very uncomfortable about it.

What he said, smart boy.

I dunno. Getting head is OK. Definitely not a deal-breaker though, one way or the other.

I was being snippy, sorry
Yes, shyness. Insecurity. Et cetera.

Maybe he has a geas?

Maybe it's one of those complicated kosher rules that I don't understand.

Perhaps Beetlejuice sealed your mouth shut with a metal plate.