Nice Guys Vs Bad Boys

Why is it that the nice guys get fucked over, yet the bad boys get all the glory and after that the girl who goes out with the bad boy complains about how he acts toward her? I dont get it

Maybe it's because the guys you think are nice aren't nice and the boys you think are bad aren't bad.

because women are irrational, selfish, stupid creatures.

but damn it, we love em anyways.

i can at least tell you that the last thing any woman wants is a guy who complains about this very thing.

You win a cookie.

exactly, she wants tthe guy who's gonna punch the whinner in the face when he starts crying.

No. She wants a guy who's not going to fucking whine in the first place.

This is probably the only often repeated thread topic that I am truly sick of. Nice guys don't whine about this fucking shit. The problem is usually one of the following.

The nice guy isn't really nice but rather a spineless passive aggressive ass who pretends to be a friend hoping it will become more but is too chicken shit to make his real intentions known

or

The nice guy keeps picking the wrong fucking girls. Either way it's the "nice guy" who has the real problem. Not the bad boys. Not the girls.

Wasn't there a very funny thread on this subject?

Where do I fax my resume'?

I think the fluxor nailed it. We can close this thread now.

LOL, it's all about the minions.....

Yea Fluxy put it about right. Be a good man and fuck all else..

The Meritarchia must have real trouble finding qualified minions if they wait for me to apply. In the meantime, I came to realize, anyway, that a career as lover and boy toy would probably fit my talents better. You don't happen to have a vacancy in that department, do you? I could still bring you your tea and Vampirate his coffee.

Girls like bad boys... women like good men. The only problem is alot of girls don't ever make the transition to real womanhood because they are so neurotically fucked up by the bad boys (oh and don't forget their fellow neurotic friends) they can't ever treat the Good men right.

Of course that has made me seriously think about finding them before they get fucked up by boys and their friends and showing them there is another way before they get all that fucking bagage. Of course being mindfull of statutory laws.

Well played.

So here's something for ya - where's the balance between guys who are too scared to get a date and guys who just realize that pretty girls are often sick of being "chatted up" instead of talked to?

I mean, obviously the women worth pursuing are largely immune to posturing and aggressive pursual and all that - but then how does one get dates without pursuing?

I guess this is a stupid question considering all my meaningful relationships have grown organically, but I figured I'd state that as (at least) one source of the "nice guys never get dates" legend.

wow, I think you may have just hit that nail all the way in!

Weeeeel... we do have a bantha in the Imperial Menagerie that's been looking rather lonely and randy (what a sad combination!) of late. That'd make running drinks kind of out of your way, though. I suppose we could find someone else to fetch the coffee.

:: heaves world-weary sigh ::

Now, where's that ad again?

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FTR: I'm looking for a job myself right now, and yeah, it's a shiitty as ever, so this whole little exchange is kind of an outlet for me. Thanks for being a good sport.

Re: nice guys:

Being nice does not preclude being a badass. You just need to do them both right. (Please note that this is not meant to make any implicit claims about myself. I'm just sayin'.)

the "bad boy" thing is a faze teenage girls go through, but unfortunatly an embarressing amount of girls carry this on out of their teens and beyond. the bad boys are just silly children who want to gett heir dick wet and will, if they dont change, become sad and alone. the "nice guys" who whine about this sort of thing get on my tits. if you are unhappy with your role in this life, grow some balls and do something about it!
Flux was right, there's nothing better (or sexier) than a Good Man.

you have to have a nice balance. If your too nice than you come off whiney and no self confidence. If you your a total asshole no one wants to deal with you.

You have to when to be nice and when to be bad.

A little obsessed with violence....compensating?

Thanks Flux.

is there some way that we can block thread titles including the phrase "nice guys" in them?