My first booty call!

I hve a booty call in about three weeks. it's my first one...

I'm to call her when I know what days off I'll have, and then I'm to go to her hotel in Chicago and pick her up (she's flying in for a job interview with American Airlines. I met her in Sioux Falls, SD, and she's from either Georgia or Maryland. I can't remember), and then take her to my home in Rockford. Now, I've never done this before. What is the proper etiquitte for a situation like this. What do I say when I meet her? What is typically "off limits" during a booty call?

I know about the "Booty Call Contract", by the way...

Oh, and here's another question somewhat relating to this topic... How does one initiate a booty call? I've never initiated one before.

you dial the phone with your hard on.

Yep, that's what I always do.

Yeah, right!

I don't have a lot of experience with situations like this, but I'd always assume that the first rule is not to assume anything. Just talk about it and find an arrangement. Or follow your instincts, expect some "no go"s and not to get pissed about them.

My 2 cents.

I find this kind of thing works out better in places that are neutral to both parties. Example: one of my booty calls is a janitor. We hook up in one of the bars he's supposed to clean, after it's closed. On the bar. And on the pool table. And then I go home, and we don't talk for a month. Works for me.

We can't hook up in neutral territory, because she's flying into O'Hare. She's on my turf the minute she steps off of that plane. About the best we could do is fuck in her hotel room (which I'm planning on happening anyway), but she wants to fuck in the outdoor hot tub we've got here.

Ever thought about fucking at O'Hare?

can it actually be called a booty call if you are planning it weeks or days in advance?

this just sounds like a sex jaunt.

Yeah. This is a few steps above booty call. Booty call is "I have to be at work in forty five minutes. Which means you have... Forty minutes and fifteen seconds to give me a mind blowing Orgasm... Thirty nine minutes 34 seconds... Are you there? All I can hear is someone running, and a door slamming".

I don't think you need to worry about neutral territory if she doesn't live there anyway. I think what you do is pick her up, take her home, and have crazy crazy sex all weekend. I think that's how this works.

But wait! You said she's flying in for a job interview? Is this a flight attendant position or something, or would it be a permanent Chicago-based position? That might be something to think about.

But hell--you live in Rockford anyway, so even if she were in Chicago, you could avoid her if you wanted to (or not, if you didn't want to). That's two hours away, isn't it?

I say you bring another dude with you and find out how far she's willing to go...

She said that it was for a flight attendant position, but, even if it wasn't, I doubt that it would matter. She is the one who initiated this encounter, and she doesn't see sex as needing to have any meaning.

I have an ex that lives in Chicago, and I avoid her on a daily basis without even trying to. Even when I go to Chicago, I never see her, because she doesn't like Lakeview East or Boystown.

Rockford is about an hour and fifteen minutes away, but I take the train from Harvard when I want to go to Chicago.

I already know how far she's willing to go...