hooking up

i think ive got a good shot at hooking up with a chick i had a crush on in hs but should i proceed when she has kids??deflicted

If you are down with being cool with the kids then why not? Just remember that they are probably the most important thing in her life.

A wise man once said, "I feel for you, man. But a real man wouldn't shoplift the pootie from a single mom."

I agree with Cosmiccorndog... suss the kids out first too to see whether they'd get on your nerves!

don't think there will be a "probably" about it ...when I met my wife of 13 years she had a one year old baby .....never think about the little one (who is now a 5ft10 blond ) being anything other than my kid but its not easy ...you WILL NOT be the most important thing in her life

I dated a girl with a 2 year old son, it was cool the kid was great. Just don't get too close to the kid(s) too fast. It makes it really hard for them if things don't work out between you and the girl, trust.

I just had a date with a woman yesterday who has two kids but I also have a kid so we both knew the score right off the bat. From the point of view of a sngle parent I have to agree that you won't be the most important thing to her but definately go for it.

depends on what you're looking for.......................if you're wanting something serious, and you don't mind taking on the role of having children with someone..........then go for it. Also remember that your feelings are about her specifically.............if you like her, you like her. kids or no.

and if you don't want something serious...........hit it anyways! that's what I always say!