Inconsiderate lovers

I don't think most men will complain about it, but of course there are. I dated a girl who over the course of our relationship would chew the fuck out of my nipples all through intercourse, and it wasn't arousing at all, it just hurt (and I LIKE a bit of pain, just not black and blue fucking nipples, they aren't an errogenous zone for me). I told her over and over again to cut it out, but every time it was back to the nipple grinder. It fucking sucked.

The most common complaint Ive heard in regards to females being bad in bed is being a 'dead fish'. But I dont know if that would be considered as inconsiderate or what.

There are definitely females that lie there and count the dots on the ceiling, women who try their best to emasculate men by incessantly complaining about his technique, women who won't give oral sex because it's gross, etc. I had a female friend of mine act completely disgusted that I had performed oral sex on my then-boyfriend. I did it because I knew he would enjoy it, period. He was willing to return the favor. Where is the wrong there?

However, I started this thread because the vast majority of the inconsiderate lovers I've ever heard about were guys, and have frequently encountered a "you are here to serve me" attitude among certain guys.

Do I detect a thread hijacking here?

I will agree there are inconsiderate lovers of both sexes, so feel free to complain away about both.

My ex didn't believe in foreplay. Not that I didn't give her any, she just didn't reciprocate.

On the rare occasion when I didn't already have an erection by the time I got my pants off, she did nothing about it. I'd ask her to, I don't know,
touch me a bit? Maybe? She'd say "Isn't it already supposed to be up?"

I never had the balls to just try and fuck her without getting her turned on first and say "Aren't you supposed to be dripping wet already?"

Also, I practically had to beg her to get on top, and when she got tired of having to do the thrusting, she'd climb off and bend over. Which, although really, really hot, was always kind of insulting.

I've been with a few of them, so I can tell you without a doubt that they DO exist.