Here is a fun little guide I've put together for those who might be a little curious as to how to perform a lap dance for your special some one. Feel free to add your own tips!
A guide to the ultimate lap dance:
If you’re looking to heat up your relationship, or to try something new for your guy or girl, a steamy lap dance is a great way to get both of you geared up for some fun between the sheets!
Step 1:
Confidence is pivotal when performing a lap dance. To help you gain confidence, choose an outfit that is flattering to your shape. If you have a butt like Amber Rose, wear a thong so your lover can appreciate those cheeks! A curvy gal like Christina Hendricks? Then flaunt it darling! If your special someone has a crush, don’t be afraid to role play either (Princess Leia, always a winner!).
Step 2:
Music. You want to move slowly and seductively. The more of a playful tease you are, the better. Choose music to reflect that. Stick to songs you know and love. Marilyn Manson, Prince, Massive Attack, Nine Inch Nails, Lil Wayne. They all have some beats that are pure sex.
Step 3:
Eye contact. Don’t underestimate the power of eye contact when it comes to seduction. Looking deep into his/her eyes shows they have all of your attention. Dull eyes aren’t sexy. Be sure to not only look at them, but look at yourself too. Touch yourself where they would like to.
Step 4:
Slow, sensual hip movements. This isn’t a race, there is no million dollar prize, so take your time. Your reward is making your partner want you.
Step 5:
Breath. Gentle panting in his/her ear along with a bit of gentle hair pulling goes a long way. As does a little bit of nibbling on the ear.
Step 6:
Floor movement. Make use of your space. This allows you to show off. Do some poses so your partner can see just how gorgeous you are! And if you can, twerk. Get that booty clapping!
Take an item of clothing off whenever you feel comfortable. All these steps add up to the ultimate lap dance that is guaranteed to get your partner hot and begging for more.
PeggySue
SUICIDEGIRL
Australia
JAN 17, 2013 05:49 PM