Walking and talking in ones sleep has long been considered a relatively normal, if not somewhat unsettling behavior. From Shakespeare's famously sleepwalking Lady Macbeth, to 80s pop songs like The Romantics "Talking in Your Sleep", parasomnias such as these are pretty run-of-the-mill. But having sex in your sleep? Divorcing your wife while you slumber? These are two of the latest strange sleep behaviors to make headlines.
Today, a Muslim man in eastern India is in the news for less dangerous but much more absurd sleep behavior: Divorce.
Aftab Ansari uttered the Urdu word for divorce, "talaq," three times in his sleep, prompting his worried wife to discuss the matter with her friends, according to the Press Trust of India news agency.
Under Islamic law, a husband need only say "I divorce you" three times to secure a permanent end to his marriage.
Muslim leaders in the couple's village in West Bengal state found out and decreed that Ansari's unconscious utterances constituted a divorce, PTI reported.
But 30-year-old Ansari said he had no intention of leaving his wife of 11 years.
"I have not given talaq. When I uttered talaq three times I had taken medicines to help me sleep," he was quoted as saying in the report.
The religious leaders said that before remarrying, the couple would have to be apart for at least 100 days and that the wife, Sohela, would also have to spend a night with another man and then be divorced by him.
PTI reported that the couple has been ostracized because of their refusal to abide by the decision of the village leaders.
I once had a boyfriend who, in the middle of the night and in a deep state of slumber, collected me into his arms, kissed me tenderly on the cheek and said, "Thanks, mom!" Oedipusomnia?
As for the talaq thing. It has to be said three times in succession with WHILE BEING FULLY CONCIOUS.
Muslim leaders in the couple's village in West Bengal state found out and decreed that Ansari's unconscious utterances constituted a divorce, PTI reported.
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ICY
Ireland
March 2005
MAR 28, 2006 11:47 AM
I was sleeping with my girly recently, arms wrapped around her, one behind her neck and head, the other around her waist. Fell asleep.
Awoke still semi asleep and thought, for whatever reason, that I had captured a burgler in a headlock. I lept out of bed only to realise what had happened. She hardly noticed thank god
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Mineux
HOPEFUL
Torrance, CA
MAR 28, 2006 02:40 PM
My boyfriend has Refridgeratsomnia... he gets up, sleep walks to the fridge, and starts eating whatever he can get. One night, i found him naked, squating in front of the fridge eating all the roast beef, i told him i would make him a sandwich and he replied "stop talking you'll wake me up"..
Next time i bought roast beef, i hid it under 3 day leftovers in the BACK of the fridge... no avail, he can smell the blood, i swear. It was gone in the morning.
zoton said:
sexsominia is definitly real. There is a actually cognito-behavioural techniques used to treat it (can't remember them at the moment).
Yup. My wife complained that she's woken up to me molesting her and I had no memory of it. Hasn't happened in a few years, most likely due to the medications I'm on for other issues.
zoton said:
sexsominia is definitly real. There is a actually cognito-behavioural techniques used to treat it (can't remember them at the moment).
Yup. My wife complained that she's woken up to me molesting her and I had no memory of it. Hasn't happened in a few years, most likely due to the medications I'm on for other issues.
I used to do that all the time, before I went on anti-depressants.
Hasn't happened since I staretd with the medication though.
zoton said:
sexsominia is definitly real. There is a actually cognito-behavioural techniques used to treat it (can't remember them at the moment).
Yup. My wife complained that she's woken up to me molesting her and I had no memory of it. Hasn't happened in a few years, most likely due to the medications I'm on for other issues.
I used to do that all the time, before I went on anti-depressants.
Hasn't happened since I staretd with the medication though.
Might be linked to serotonin in some way.
I love it when that happens.
THankfully my boyfriend doesn't take antidepressants.
Rahodeb
Los Angeles, CA
March 2006
MAR 28, 2006 11:04 AM