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dumbfun33

dumbfun33

Oakland, CA
March 2006

MAR 12, 2006 12:43 PM

PointBlank said:
You fucking people are nuts for not mentioning The Wire--easily the best of the non-Soprano HBO shows.



I'm with you. "The Wire" is easily the best show on television (including "The Sopranos", IMO).

Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAR 12, 2006 01:05 PM

Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.

Cigarette

Cigarette

Cleveland, OH
April 2004

MAR 12, 2006 01:34 PM

Roethke said:
Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.


I know, right?

I feel the same way about Buffy, the Vampire Slayer.

Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAR 12, 2006 01:41 PM

CarnalsaurusRex said:

Roethke said:
Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.




...and here I was thinking a comedic series could be used as non-fictional, educational, programs. I feel so...so...GYPPED!


THey say it's not about Mormons, yet everyone insists on discussing it as though it were. Polygamy is a huge social problem in this part of America. Clans routinely abandon their "excess" male offspring around the time they reach mid teens. These kids have no training, no where to live, and little education. In addition to the whole marrying women when that are still children. I just don't think it's that hilarious.

And "gypped" is considered a racial slur.

[Edited on Mar 12, 2006 by Roethke]

Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAR 12, 2006 01:48 PM

CarnalsaurusRex said:

Roethke said:

CarnalsaurusRex said:

Roethke said:
Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.




...and here I was thinking a comedic series could be used as non-fictional, educational, programs. I feel so...so...GYPPED!


THey say it's not about Mormons, yet everyone insists on discussing it as though it were. Polygamy is a huge social problem in this part of America. Clans routinely abandon their "excess" male offspring around the time they reach mid teens. These kids have no training, no where to live, and little education. In addition to the whole marrying women when that are still children. I just don't think it's that hilarious.

And "gypped" is considered a racial slur.



I didn't realize gypsies were regarded as a race.

I also didn't know HBO was using their series as a recruitment tool to further oppress women and destroy children. I learn something new everyday.

[Edited on Mar 12, 2006 by CarnalsaurusRex]


No, but they are being all cutesy about sometihng that is damaging and dangerous.

Hooraydiation

Hooraydiation

Boston, MA
October 2005

MAR 12, 2006 02:15 PM

CarnalsaurusRex said:

Roethke said:
No, but they are being all cutesy about sometihng that is damaging and dangerous.



Doesn't every comedy do that at some point?

The Simpsons makes fun of deadbeat dad's, deliquent children, enabler wives/moms, disfunctional families, and alcoholism...AND it is all packaged in a nice cartoon format to better target children.

Child neglect and spousel abuse doesn't just happen in polygimist/Mormon families and I don't think anyone who watches TV will consider the HBO series, Big Love, an in depth look into that lifestyle.



Big Love is portraying a family structure that most people aren't familiar with, so it could possibly affect opinions and perceptions regarding polygamy. Most people won't encounter other, more reliable sources unless they actually make an effort to look them up.

Something like the Simpsons is less likely to affect perceptions regarding the standard middle class or lower middle class nuclear family because so many people have grown up in them, and know what they're really like. And the Simpsons is a cartoon, so the viewer immediately knows not to take it seriously.

It's okay to make light of serious issues, but the entire point of humor is to provide a funny contrast to what we see in the real world. When there's no realistic counterpart to the joke (your real family to the Simpsons), things become problematic.


And is this show even a comedy? I've only seen commercials and I got the impression that it was supposed to be a drama with a unique premise and a light-hearted tone.

[Edited on Mar 12, 2006 by Hooraydiation]

SomethingStupid

SomethingStupid

North Hollywood, CA
March 2004

MAR 13, 2006 02:05 AM

Roethke said:

CarnalsaurusRex said:

Roethke said:
Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.




...and here I was thinking a comedic series could be used as non-fictional, educational, programs. I feel so...so...GYPPED!


THey say it's not about Mormons, yet everyone insists on discussing it as though it were. Polygamy is a huge social problem in this part of America. Clans routinely abandon their "excess" male offspring around the time they reach mid teens. These kids have no training, no where to live, and little education. In addition to the whole marrying women when that are still children. I just don't think it's that hilarious.

And "gypped" is considered a racial slur.

[Edited on Mar 12, 2006 by Roethke]


I dunno, I do think you can be funny about things that are not funny in the slightest. But it still seems like a stupid idea for a show to me and I have no desire to watch it.

By the way, the official tally:

Best show on television: The Wire

Really fucking good: Carnivale, Deadwood, Rome

Okay: Sopranos, Oz (come on, it all starts to blur together)

Worst show in the history of mankind: Arli$$

Jeff_Fries

Jeff_Fries

Humptulips, WA
September 2003

MAR 13, 2006 02:35 AM

Roethke said:
And "gypped" is considered a racial slur.


You taking inventory?

malkav11

malkav11

Saint Paul, MN
July 2003

MAR 13, 2006 02:33 PM

I watch pretty much any original series HBO cares to commit to DVD. Carnivale has been my standout favorite so far. The subdued supernatural background, the way everything seems to have subtle hidden meanings and portents, the mysteries...it feels like a (superior, imho) spiritual successor to Twin Peaks. I was very, very unhappy to hear about it being cancelled. But virtually everything else I've seen from them has been at least above average. The Wire is addicting me right now. Oz was amazing for the first three seasons and then veered off into plots that were too often ridiculous. I hope sixth season changes the trend, but I don't count on it. The Sopranos...well, the early seasons were (imho) the best, as I've been unhappy with some of the directions characters have been going, and it's been less about mob conflicts and more about Tony's family issues, but I'm still in for the long haul. And it sounds like sixth season got off to quite the start. Deadwood is the only Western I've ever liked. Entourage is surprisingly addictive given the shallow subject matter. Sex and the City eventually wound up being too aimed at women for me, but was pretty funny, all the same. Six Feet Under..I flinch at some of the things the characters put each other through, but, again, I keep watching. I might be forgetting some.

The ONLY HBO show I've seen and disliked was Curb Your Enthusiasm. I think a better name would be "Larry David Complains". Not even remotely funny to me. But then, I'm one of the few who doesn't like Seinfeld. (The man's a fine standup comedian, but the show, nah.)

So I figure I'll at least rent the first couple of DVDs of Big Love. I admit the concept doesn't immediately grab me, but neither did some of the other shows.

ASSH0LE

ASSH0LE

Las Vegas, NV
June 2003

MAR 18, 2006 08:37 PM

Roethke said:
Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.



Have you actually watched it?

It makes it pretty plain that they aren't part of the LDS/Mormon church. A concern that their neighbor's house was sold to "some Mormon bishop" was expressed. It's highlighted that their situation isn't "normal" for Utah. There's a caption right before the end credits explaining that it's estimated that there's X thousand polygamists in the U.S., and that polygamy was banned by the Mormon church in (I think) 1905.

I think those points will get nailed down a bit better in future episodes. In the previews a girls voice is heard saying "It's illegal and it's against the Church." I'm going to guess that it was the oldest daughter's new friend/coworker who is pretty obviously a Mormon.

As the show's protagonists, they need to be shown in a way that highlights the differences between them and us, as well as gives us something to keep interested in. All of the polygamist women at the compound wore dresses. Nikki (wife #2) makes it a point to button up the top button on her shirt the moment they leave to visit Bill's parents at the compound. Margene, the third wife, never wants to go back to the compound, and Nicki seems to criticize Barb for her attitude regarding the people there.

So basically, they are polygamists. They express many of the critiques of the lifestyle you've expressed (old men chasing off the younger men so that they can have the young girls to themselves). They're part of it, but not quite in the thick of it. They aren't mainstream Utahans or Mormons, though to some degree (short of breaking up two of their marriages) they'd like to be. Particularly their youngest daughter.

Did they get everything dead exactly right? No, and I don't expect any show ever could. I think they got it closer to the mark than anyone else would have bothered to try. There's lots of little details in the show that clicked with me as an occasional visitor to Utah. The new store being in "Pioneer Plaza." Mentioning "Family Night," "Jello and white bread," and their tendency to let go with streams of not-quite-profanity.

That last part I don't really see Mormons doing, but one time a coworker who's a Bishop up in the SLC area was filling in for someone at my office. I suppose to try to fit in with us "gentiles," he tossed the occasional "hell," "damn" and "shit" into conversation. He sounded almost like Capt. Kirk did in Star Trek 4.


[Edited on Mar 19, 2006 by Timer]

mamet

mamet

Charleston, SC
March 2005

MAR 18, 2006 08:43 PM

TedKoppel said:
Worst show in the history of mankind: Arli$$



Bite your tongue, sir!

Chitin

Chitin

New York, NY
December 2004

MAR 18, 2006 08:46 PM

hadees said:

As HBO would be the first to tell you, this is a show you could only find on HBO. Unfortunately, it seems that doing shows no one else would do has become HBO's only ambition, so it keeps doing shows no one else would want, including its subscribers.



They have had some misses but Deadwood, Rome, and Curb your Enthusiasm are all current shows that I think are excellent.


And Six Feet Under was fantastic in its heydey.

Josearcadio

Josearcadio

Toa Baja, PR
July 2004

APR 01, 2006 06:31 PM

I like the show!!! smile

Aaron

Aaron

Shakopee, MN
July 2004

APR 01, 2006 06:42 PM

Timer said:

Roethke said:
Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.



Have you actually watched it?

It makes it pretty plain that they aren't part of the LDS/Mormon church. A concern that their neighbor's house was sold to "some Mormon bishop" was expressed. It's highlighted that their situation isn't "normal" for Utah. There's a caption right before the end credits explaining that it's estimated that there's X thousand polygamists in the U.S., and that polygamy was banned by the Mormon church in (I think) 1905.

I think those points will get nailed down a bit better in future episodes. In the previews a girls voice is heard saying "It's illegal and it's against the Church." I'm going to guess that it was the oldest daughter's new friend/coworker who is pretty obviously a Mormon.

As the show's protagonists, they need to be shown in a way that highlights the differences between them and us, as well as gives us something to keep interested in. All of the polygamist women at the compound wore dresses. Nikki (wife #2) makes it a point to button up the top button on her shirt the moment they leave to visit Bill's parents at the compound. Margene, the third wife, never wants to go back to the compound, and Nicki seems to criticize Barb for her attitude regarding the people there.

So basically, they are polygamists. They express many of the critiques of the lifestyle you've expressed (old men chasing off the younger men so that they can have the young girls to themselves). They're part of it, but not quite in the thick of it. They aren't mainstream Utahans or Mormons, though to some degree (short of breaking up two of their marriages) they'd like to be. Particularly their youngest daughter.

Did they get everything dead exactly right? No, and I don't expect any show ever could. I think they got it closer to the mark than anyone else would have bothered to try. There's lots of little details in the show that clicked with me as an occasional visitor to Utah. The new store being in "Pioneer Plaza." Mentioning "Family Night," "Jello and white bread," and their tendency to let go with streams of not-quite-profanity.

That last part I don't really see Mormons doing, but one time a coworker who's a Bishop up in the SLC area was filling in for someone at my office. I suppose to try to fit in with us "gentiles," he tossed the occasional "hell," "damn" and "shit" into conversation. He sounded almost like Capt. Kirk did in Star Trek 4.


[Edited on Mar 19, 2006 by Timer]



Um, Dude, the discussion she's talking about is this thread I think.

PRockGirlScout

PRockGirlScout

Portland, OR
October 2005

APR 01, 2006 06:48 PM

This show is a trip. I'm not sure if I'm hooked on it just yet. Certainly nothing like that first episode of the Sopranos but I'll be watching again when it comes on.

tafferdogg

tafferdogg

Madison, WI
February 2004

APR 01, 2006 07:31 PM

I watched the first two episodes and was not impressed. It's boring and I don't really like the characters at all.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

And of course there's a man of God that is an evil bastard(The old prophet guy). It's just a tired situation.

BoxOfficePoison

BoxOfficePoison

Portland, OR
June 2003

APR 01, 2006 08:10 PM

Roethke said:

CarnalsaurusRex said:

Roethke said:

CarnalsaurusRex said:

Roethke said:
Yay! More misinformed discussion of my background, family, and upbringing!

I've known urban polygs, and they are nothing like what is portrayed in the show. The men certainly can't be that open, and the women wear dresses at all times, etc. This show just looks assinine.




...and here I was thinking a comedic series could be used as non-fictional, educational, programs. I feel so...so...GYPPED!


THey say it's not about Mormons, yet everyone insists on discussing it as though it were. Polygamy is a huge social problem in this part of America. Clans routinely abandon their "excess" male offspring around the time they reach mid teens. These kids have no training, no where to live, and little education. In addition to the whole marrying women when that are still children. I just don't think it's that hilarious.

And "gypped" is considered a racial slur.



I didn't realize gypsies were regarded as a race.

I also didn't know HBO was using their series as a recruitment tool to further oppress women and destroy children. I learn something new everyday.

[Edited on Mar 12, 2006 by CarnalsaurusRex]


No, but they are being all cutesy about sometihng that is damaging and dangerous.



According to the writers of the show upcoming episodes will look at the dark side of both males being abandoned by the commune and child brides being forced into marriage.

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