The_Alchemist said:
Once again the headlines touch my life. One of the victims of this crime is my friend Bob. He's a paramedic and ALS Coordinator for a private ambulance service, a friend and a mentor. He's recovering well. He was very lucky. He got the hatchet to the face and shot in the back. In typical Bob fashion he signed out of the hospital AMA the next day and will be at work on Monday morning. He's battered and bruised with a HUGE scar on the right side of his face and a bullet hole in the back, but otherwise fine. The bullet hit his left scapula and ricocheted around the outside of his ribcage out the right side of his chest not striking any vital organs.
The only thing I feel bad about is that he just "came out" a couple of years ago after hiding who he really was for nearly 50 years (he has an ex-wife and 4 kids, but ALWAYS knew he was gay). He was just getting comfortable enough with himself to where he could go out and have fun and he runs into this little psycho. Bob holds no ill-will towards his attacker and his concerns are for the kids family.
My thoughts and prayers are with the police officer and woman's family that were killed in Arkansas and with the other two victims from the Fall River incident and wishing them a speedy recovery.
On a positive note...please tell Bob that I admire the gargantuan, brass spheres swinging from his legs. From coming out...to taking a hit like he took only to sign out AMA and go back to work...not to mention the fact that he can overcome the temptation to hate...only to feel bad for his attacker's family. Big...brass...balls. Rock on, Bob.
On a positive note...please tell Bob that I admire the gargantuan, brass spheres swinging from his legs. From coming out...to taking a hit like he took only to sign out AMA and go back to work...not to mention the fact that he can overcome the temptation to hate...only to feel bad for his attacker's family. Big...brass...balls. Rock on, Bob.
i was just looking at his myspace page, and there is a girl on it (ScArial) with a picture of a hatchet (with a swastika on the end) and the caption "hatchet to the face," with people commenting on how cool it is.
www.myspace.com/jakejekyll
it's not gonna end. i feel sick. and i don't think posting how that makes me feel is a bad thing.
The_Alchemist said:
Once again the headlines touch my life. One of the victims of this crime is my friend Bob. He's a paramedic and ALS Coordinator for a private ambulance service, a friend and a mentor. He's recovering well. He was very lucky. He got the hatchet to the face and shot in the back. In typical Bob fashion he signed out of the hospital AMA the next day and will be at work on Monday morning. He's battered and bruised with a HUGE scar on the right side of his face and a bullet hole in the back, but otherwise fine. The bullet hit his left scapula and ricocheted around the outside of his ribcage out the right side of his chest not striking any vital organs.
The only thing I feel bad about is that he just "came out" a couple of years ago after hiding who he really was for nearly 50 years (he has an ex-wife and 4 kids, but ALWAYS knew he was gay). He was just getting comfortable enough with himself to where he could go out and have fun and he runs into this little psycho. Bob holds no ill-will towards his attacker and his concerns are for the kids family.
My thoughts and prayers are with the police officer and woman's family that were killed in Arkansas and with the other two victims from the Fall River incident and wishing them a speedy recovery.
Your friend is a better man than I. I wish him well.
And folks, people react to horror like this differently. Anger's really, really damn natural, but so's making uncomfortable attempts at humor. Hell, so's Bob's response here - God knows, Bob's probably seen some horrible shit in his time, and I'm amazed that he's capable of that kind of compassion despite this terror show.
This is a shitty damn thing going on, and one of the guys in the center of it is quietly being an example of how we can spread pain around, or do our parts to end it.
Cash
USA
OLD SKOOL
FEB 05, 2006 12:20 PM