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thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 07:43 PM

ok, so right now I am watching TLC, there is a program on called "Born Without a Face"...
It seems this little girl was born with SEVERE birth defects....she in fact did not have a face.
No mouth, no nose, eyes covered with skin. She had a hole in the base of her skull, where Cerebral Spinal Fliud was leaking out (the fliud that bathes the brain and spinal cord), she's just 1 yr old and she has had 3 surgeries I think.
They admit she is in constant pain, she can't breath thru her mouth (has a trachyotomy) she can't eat/swallow (fed thru a tube directly into her stomach), she has no nasal cavity (needed to create one)....
With 3 surgeries she is still severely, severely deformed and undergoing more surgeries.

The show isn't over, but my question is,
At what point should medicine/science NOT intervene?
She should have died, that was natures way....
Perhaps she will be able to function after all these surgeries, perhaps she will be able to speak, eat and look somewhat normal...but should this have even been attempted?
I kinda don't think so...medicine shouldn't intervene to this extent. What for? so the parents don't have to grieve?


thoughts?

EDITED to add- see Gwendolyn's post on this page to see a pic of the girl

[Edited on Aug 29, 2005 by thorr74]

FridgeMagnet

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL
November 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:19 PM

I think Billy Idol should put together a benefit concert for the poor little tyke.

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:24 PM

thanks for not letting this die without at least ONE comment blackeyed

Hexe

Hexe

HOPEFUL

I'm lost

AUG 29, 2005 08:24 PM

I think they should really end her suffering. At this point, the parents are doing it for selfish reasons: they just want their daughter. I can understand that, I don't fault them. However, what kind of life could she possibly have? The humane, loving thing to do would be to let her go. Let her have peace. It's a sad situation.

AnnaLee

AnnaLee

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

AUG 29, 2005 08:30 PM

Similarly but not as severe, I watched a programme recently about severely premature babies. If it wasnt for medical advances these babies would never have been born and most of them had to have many operations and due to brain damage and other problems were mostly not going to be able to live very happy lifes. People find it too hard to let things go when it would be the best thing to do for the patient. It must be an extremely hard decision to make, that story is so painful, what a sad thing to hear.

[Edited on Aug 29, 2005 by AnnaLee]

PrimaFacia

PrimaFacia

Edmond, OK
December 2003

AUG 29, 2005 08:31 PM

I'm not sure if I can ever have an answer for this kind of question. However I thank you for posting it, I’m going to print it out and bring it to my 'Contemporary moral problems' class, we'll have fun talking about it wink

Another case that we just got finished looking over, involved a father who killed his 12-year-old daughter w/ an extreme case of cerebral palsy (sp?) she only weighed 40 lbs and had the mental capacity of a 3-month-old baby. She was in constant pain and undergoing constant surguries. The father ended her life by asphyxiating her in the garage w/ the car fumes (coulda picked a more humane way). This went to court and the jury found him not guilty however it then the Supreme Court intervened and sentenced him to 25 years in prison.

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:33 PM

PrimaFacia said:
I'm not sure if I can ever have an answer for this kind of question. However I thank you for posting it, I’m going to print it out and bring it to my 'Contemporary moral problems' class, we'll have fun talking about it wink

Another case that we just got finished looking over, involved a father who killed his 12-year-old daughter w/ an extreme case of cerebral palsy (sp?) she only weighed 40 lbs and had the mental capacity of a 3-month-old baby. She was in constant pain and undergoing constant surguries. The father ended her life by asphyxiating her in the garage w/ the car fumes (coulda picked a more humane way). This went to court and the jury found him not guilty however it then the Supreme Court intervened and sentenced him to 25 years in prison.



Wasn't that in Sask. Canada? ...I totally forget his name...been an on going battle for something like 5-10 yrs now

Kittie

Kittie

Stow, OH
August 2003

AUG 29, 2005 08:35 PM

my god, that poor child.
miao!!

joshof13thfloor

joshof13thfloor

Cookeville, TN
January 2003

AUG 29, 2005 08:35 PM

Perhaps someone should find someone who was in a position/condition such as this and ask them their opinion on the subject?

I wonder if they would agree with the "put 'em out of their misery" approach to the subject.

I mean, personally I tend to agree, just sayin'.

Manchester_Black

Manchester_Black

Edmonton, AB
March 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:36 PM

Wow, thats a tricky moral question... I dont think any answer for that question would be the right one

FridgeMagnet

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL
November 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:36 PM

if there is hope that she can live a somewhat agony free life, you have to let her live. That's just my opinion.

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:36 PM

thorr74 said:

PrimaFacia said:
I'm not sure if I can ever have an answer for this kind of question. However I thank you for posting it, I’m going to print it out and bring it to my 'Contemporary moral problems' class, we'll have fun talking about it wink

Another case that we just got finished looking over, involved a father who killed his 12-year-old daughter w/ an extreme case of cerebral palsy (sp?) she only weighed 40 lbs and had the mental capacity of a 3-month-old baby. She was in constant pain and undergoing constant surguries. The father ended her life by asphyxiating her in the garage w/ the car fumes (coulda picked a more humane way). This went to court and the jury found him not guilty however it then the Supreme Court intervened and sentenced him to 25 years in prison.



Wasn't that in Sask. Canada? ...I totally forget his name...been an on going battle for something like 5-10 yrs now




found it.........is this what your were talking about??

" Saskatchewan farmer, Robert Latimer, was tried for the mercy killing of his severely disabled daughter in 1997-OCT. He was found guilty of second degree murder which, under Canadian law, requires a 10 year minimum jail sentence. The jury recommended that he be eligible for parole after one year. The sentence has been appealed through various courts."

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:38 PM

FridgeMagnet said:
if there is hope that she can live a somewhat agony free life, you have to let her live. That's just my opinion.



I agree...but there is NO WAY you could "let her live" without major medical interventions.....she should have died within days......just to contribute again

Gwendolyn

Gwendolyn

SUICIDEGIRL

Indiana, USA

AUG 29, 2005 08:41 PM

Was it this little girl? I remember watching a news report about her online a while ago.

PrimaFacia

PrimaFacia

Edmond, OK
December 2003

AUG 29, 2005 08:41 PM

thorr74 said:

thorr74 said:

PrimaFacia said:
I'm not sure if I can ever have an answer for this kind of question. However I thank you for posting it, I’m going to print it out and bring it to my 'Contemporary moral problems' class, we'll have fun talking about it wink

Another case that we just got finished looking over, involved a father who killed his 12-year-old daughter w/ an extreme case of cerebral palsy (sp?) she only weighed 40 lbs and had the mental capacity of a 3-month-old baby. She was in constant pain and undergoing constant surguries. The father ended her life by asphyxiating her in the garage w/ the car fumes (coulda picked a more humane way). This went to court and the jury found him not guilty however it then the Supreme Court intervened and sentenced him to 25 years in prison.



Wasn't that in Sask. Canada? ...I totally forget his name...been an on going battle for something like 5-10 yrs now




found it.........is this what your were talking about??

" Saskatchewan farmer, Robert Latimer, was tried for the mercy killing of his severely disabled daughter in 1997-OCT. He was found guilty of second degree murder which, under Canadian law, requires a 10 year minimum jail sentence. The jury recommended that he be eligible for parole after one year. The sentence has been appealed through various courts."



Yep thats the one from my text book. That case is quite a bit diffrent though atleast moraly because of the age of the subject. Also in the Latimer case the girl was not going to get any better nor was she ever going to develop into anything more then a drooling thing that had to be hand fed. This baby that you're speaking of sounds like she's got all the right gears and cogs to live a life, however god thought i'd be fun to leave the oven on too long. So this does not sound like a case of mercy killing just a horrible story of what this child will have to go through at such a young age.

The scary part of these questions comes when you ask "Who judges the quaity of life, or my life" Find anyone that is severly disabled and i'm sure they have a very strong opinon on this subject.

It should also be noted that most of what is pain and suffering atm for this child she will not remember assuming they can get her in a better condiiton before two or three years. All of the suffering currently atleast long term is on the parents.

thorr74

thorr74

Sylvan Lake, AB
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:42 PM

Gwendolyn said:
Was it this little girl? I remember watching a news report about her online a while ago.



thats her....her face in the pic is after either 3 or 4 surgeries already

Manchester_Black

Manchester_Black

Edmonton, AB
March 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:43 PM

thorr74 said:

PrimaFacia said:
I'm not sure if I can ever have an answer for this kind of question. However I thank you for posting it, I’m going to print it out and bring it to my 'Contemporary moral problems' class, we'll have fun talking about it wink

Another case that we just got finished looking over, involved a father who killed his 12-year-old daughter w/ an extreme case of cerebral palsy (sp?) she only weighed 40 lbs and had the mental capacity of a 3-month-old baby. She was in constant pain and undergoing constant surguries. The father ended her life by asphyxiating her in the garage w/ the car fumes (coulda picked a more humane way). This went to court and the jury found him not guilty however it then the Supreme Court intervened and sentenced him to 25 years in prison.



Wasn't that in Sask. Canada? ...I totally forget his name...been an on going battle for something like 5-10 yrs now




I believe that was Robert Latimer. (Death by the car fumes is actually one of the most pinless ways to go, your body just goes to sleep and you dont wake up, its not like being gassed)

Maxx

maxx

Los Angeles, CA
July 2002

AUG 29, 2005 08:44 PM

PrimaFacia

PrimaFacia

Edmond, OK
December 2003

AUG 29, 2005 08:44 PM

Invincible said:

thorr74 said:

PrimaFacia said:
I'm not sure if I can ever have an answer for this kind of question. However I thank you for posting it, I’m going to print it out and bring it to my 'Contemporary moral problems' class, we'll have fun talking about it wink

Another case that we just got finished looking over, involved a father who killed his 12-year-old daughter w/ an extreme case of cerebral palsy (sp?) she only weighed 40 lbs and had the mental capacity of a 3-month-old baby. She was in constant pain and undergoing constant surguries. The father ended her life by asphyxiating her in the garage w/ the car fumes (coulda picked a more humane way). This went to court and the jury found him not guilty however it then the Supreme Court intervened and sentenced him to 25 years in prison.



Wasn't that in Sask. Canada? ...I totally forget his name...been an on going battle for something like 5-10 yrs now




I believe that was Robert Latimer. (Death by the car fumes is actually one of the most pinless ways to go, your body just goes to sleep and you dont wake up, its not like being gassed)



I geuss your right, just sounds grusome.

FridgeMagnet

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL
November 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:45 PM

Maxx said:



Jesus that's wrong. And I realize I made a Billy Idol joke in this thread.

Lemonkid

Lemonkid

Canada
May 2003

AUG 29, 2005 08:46 PM

Since intervention in a premature status is why my sister is alive, I find it a touchy subject, although I do believe that there are times when it's best not to intervene. Of course who has the right to make that decision becomes the real question? Even more difficult when the person involved doesn't later grow to have enough mental capacity to have a say in it one way or the other.

syrvyxyn

syrvyxyn

I'm lost
November 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:50 PM

I would not force somone else to endure an existance I would refuse for myself.

ChezGeek

ChezGeek

Port Orchard, WA
January 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:51 PM

Maxx said:


fucking tasteless, asshole.

ragdoll96923

ragdoll96923

Southern Pines, NC
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 08:55 PM

this is all so sad frown
PrimaFacia put my feelings into words though: The scary part of these questions comes when you ask "Who judges the quaity of life, or my life" Find anyone that is severly disabled and i'm sure they have a very strong opinon on this subject.

and Hexe said:I think they should really end her suffering.
which I agreed to until I looked at the links. It seems a little too late now. I mean she seems to be thriving (but only with assistance I believe) I do feel it a little cruel to Kill her. but how many more surgeries will this take. and how many life threating ones? and how much pain will she be in the majority of the time.
frown


Helly

Helly

Australia
December 2004

AUG 29, 2005 09:02 PM

frown

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