bring on the bi-sexualism.

maybe some gene re-sequencing pour moi?

if only i were bi-sexual...a whole new world of opportunity would open for me.

met this guy tonight would looked like a young Angel (yes, of Buffy origin).

or maybe i was just envious of the fact that he was a dj and new all the girls in the club...

suddenly the idea of buying the 1220's again doesn't seem so bad...

meh

I like my own grass just fine.

totally meh

Though I've never had an experience with another man, I think I would if he were femme, damn cute, and didn't behave like a "guy."

I wanna dom most of the time, 'cept in the sack, where I wanna sub a good half of the time.... hell, I dunno, get me drunk and horny (drunk=horny for me) and I'll prolly go for it.

-t.

Ive stopped at hard kissing and heavy petting anything after that and my interest in my team fades, guess I just love playing away games.

I couldn't shag a guy, men are just too... manly. I like boyish women though.

i fucking hate being bisexual. i've ranted about this several times before, but oh well, one more time couldn't hurt.
bisexuality (at least for girls) is so fucking trendy right now, it totally trivializes the experience of people who are actually bisexual and aren't just doing it to be cool. a good friend of mine told me this quote, i think it's from her sister (paraphrased): "all these girls are saying they're bi, but if a girl sat on their face, they'd cry." that always makes me smile.
but anyway, yeah, bisexuality sucks. oh! and then there are the monsters that are bi just because they want to do anyone or anything that will let them.
i so wish i was a lesbian (one time when i said that, someone played a terribly annoying song for me called "i wish i was a lesbian" and whoever it was, i hated them so much at that moment). but boys are so cute, it's fucking annoying. and girls don't hit on me because i'm too femme. but that's another story.
ah, late-night posting...

Girl's don't hit on me either
Spike

let's make a club, spike. and we can have pity parties. i'll bring ice cream and cigarettes.

i'm just way too fucking scared to approach girls in that way. i've had girls throwing themselves at me and i just get sooo fucking shy. girls are just so intimidating. plus i'm so inexperienced when it comes to them that i just wouldn't know what to do. plus the fact that most of this happens in a party setting makes me feel weird also. i guess when it comes to a girl i'd rather it be mutual for sure rather then thinking that she's all over me just for sex or just because she's drunk and it's trendy [like eve said] to throw yourself at girls these days. i could continue this rant but i will stop now.

Sounds good to me, I'll bring the booze and dvds
Spike

I think that's Loudon Wainwright, you really do have to be in the mood to hear that guy.

I have to empathize with you, it seems as though there are a lot of women in the dating pool who are likely to decide sooner or later that they're straight. More than being annoying, that would have a lot of potential for heartache for a woman who loves women.

I don't think I'm bi. While it's not out of the question for me to be attracted to a guy, I'm not into recreational sex and I don't think I could ever be in an intimate relationship with one. It's all that mothering when I was a kid, I guess. I just automatically feel tenderness and warmth for people who are mommy-shaped, not to get all Freudian and gross people out.

amen!

you're butcher then me!
I'm not even sure what its like to be hit on... not in the traditional sense anyway

I guess even being bi is a "grass is greener" situation. I'd love to be fully bi, by which I mean 50/50 attraction and no hang-ups about either sex or intimacy. As it is, I'm only about 80/20 sexually straight and the idea of romance with another guy doesn't do it for me. Oh well.

well, for all of you who believe that you are at a loss in the being hit on department, i provide for your edification, amusement, and whatever the hell else you can take from it the two experiences in my life that are the closest i have ever come to being hit on. the first stems from my senior year of highschool:

Jen - "It's not that your not cute, cause you are... its just that you're cute like little kids and puppies. Everybody responds to little kids and puppies, but no one wants to sleep with them. Well, not unless they're real fucked up."

and the second was from my sophomore year of college. i keep hoping that the girl involved was just really, really drunk and didn't show it:

random girl - "I'm so sorry. So, whats it like?"
me - "Whats what like?"
random girl - "You know, like knowing you're gonna die and shit."
me - "Excuse me?"
random girl - "I mean I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude or anything, but you've got like what, cancer or aids or something right?"
me - "Um, no."
random girl - "You mean you really just look like that? Like all the time?"
me - "I guess so."
random girl - "Oh... I gotta go."

i really wish i was making those up.
as for bi-sexuality, i don't know. i always assumed there was just sexuality, that its not trendy or categorized, it just is and you do whatever it is that makes you happy. i've been attracted to girls, i've been attracted to boys. i have had experiences with both that i really enjoyed, and was sad when they ended. why should we care about anything outside of that?

that's funny, that reminds me of when renee sent me a lnk to some sort of 'what's your sexual appeal?' or something quiz, and it told me i was a tomboy. and when i told her that, she said something along the lines of "you? a tomboy? you make travis [our homo friend] look butch. hell, you even make hans look butch!"

my friend girl used to make fun of me cause i am really attracted to girls with short hair and no makeup. said they were little boys. lol. but ew, the thought of kissing another man makes me ill to my stomache. it would be fun if it werent true, but it is.

i've always been attracted to girls as well as guys, and it drives me MAD when i hear people trivialize bisexuality. How is it that if you say "homosexuals aren't real, they're just confused" you will get your ass kicked, but if you say :bisexuality isn't real, they're just confused" that people will get serious looks on their faces and nod... true true, you're one or the other, you can't be both!!

yeah fucking right! i don't like saying that i'm "bisexual" for the above reason, and yeah, somehow it's "trendy" right now... which is so rediculous i can't even think about it or my brain might explode. I am attracted to whomever i am attracted to, and all i can hope for is the courage not to let love (or lust or want or attraction or whatever) pass me by due to gender, race, etc etc....

plus, as i once heard... "one of the best things about being bi is that you can look at a really hot couple and wonder if they're looking for a third"

-v-

yeah that bugs the hell out of me when girls don't see that when they have a boyfriend its not right to date someone else even if its a girl. Monogamy is monogamy.

uuughh... but... yeah i didnt really come clean with myself that i was attracted to peopl of both genders until about 2 years ago... I was raised in a religious household and i don't think i accepted that fact until this one incident and poof it was all over...

I am in the point now where i am pretty comfortable with it except a few of my friends and my family has no clue... but most everyone else knows because ive either told them or ive made it obviously clear...

Although all growing up I was asked by friends and such if i was lesbian... haha I guess they knew i liked girls before i did... hahahaha

~Blayne