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Blossom

Blossom

Riverside, CA
May 2004

JUL 24, 2005 12:58 PM

EnfantTerrible said:

Manchester_Black said:
The reasoning behind the objecting isn't that a long lost love can speak out against it, it's in place as a way to check if either person cannot actually be married, such as having other spouses and so on.



No...it was so a master or lord can stop it and screw the woman if she is good looking


That was what happened on the wedding night. The objection part is so that if there happens to be another husband or wife around; or say perhaps there is proof that one of the people is certifiably crazy and getting married there would be a time for people to be able to speak up and warn. There is also the fact that in Catholic marriages there can be impediments to that marriage which are not known to more than a few people and at that time; because they have not heard the bans of marriage announced the three Sundays before; they can now make it known to the Church what they know that would cause an impediment to the marriage. The impediment has to be something that goes against Canon law, it can't just be something like "I don't like them together" and therefore is generally known as a Canonical Impediment.

Admiral_Pants

Admiral_Pants

Austin, TX
May 2004

JUL 24, 2005 01:04 PM

I also wonder what would happen if someone actually did object.

How would the person performing the service handle it?

Any clergy on SG care to respond?

Koleeta

Koleeta

Los Angeles, CA
May 2003

JUL 24, 2005 01:16 PM

ClearBrightFire said:
a bunch of my friends all coughed at the same time during that part of my wedding, we found that amusing, the registrar did not and now her dissaproving look is captured for all time on the video...aaah, magic moments


oh man. I'm going to make my friends do that.

MrStitches

MrStitches

Brooklyn, NY
November 2003

JUL 24, 2005 01:40 PM

thaddeusmutton said:
I also wonder what would happen if someone actually did object.

How would the person performing the service handle it?

Any clergy on SG care to respond?



I'd probably ignore it and hope they went away. It's seems to work for most things.

JJ_R0x0rz

JJ_R0x0rz

I'm lost
October 2003

JUL 24, 2005 01:54 PM

unravled said:

MisterSatan said:
Also, if anyone does this at my wedding, I'll have to rush down there and stab them right in the fucking heart.

Sorry, grandma.




Fuck your grandma. I'm good enough for her grandson whether she likes it or not, goddamnit.



it seems like your wedding will be fun to watch

GammaRat

GammaRat

Seattle, WA
January 2005

JUL 24, 2005 02:01 PM

Um.. I was trying out the google toolbar spellcheck feature. It bent me over.

[Edited on Jul 24, 2005 by GammaRat]

hermetica

hermetica

Cook Islands
January 2004

JUL 24, 2005 02:10 PM

Koleeta said:

ClearBrightFire said:
a bunch of my friends all coughed at the same time during that part of my wedding, we found that amusing, the registrar did not and now her dissaproving look is captured for all time on the video...aaah, magic moments


oh man. I'm going to make my friends do that.


Heh.. my Dad did that at my sister's wedding. Glad the priest had a sense of humour, cause the whole church just cracked up. So much for solemn ceremony. biggrin

hotcurry

hotcurry

Los Angeles, CA
June 2004

JUL 24, 2005 02:14 PM

I have a friend that were he to marry his girlfriend I would defiantely object. He is a rampant cheater and she has no idea. I wish I could tell her now as he is putting her life in danger, but we're not that close and I know it would cause quite the uproar in our circle of friends. However, I would take every possible oportunity to object to the union before ruining a ceremony. It's stupid, selfish and rude to pretend to go along with a wedding until you burst out as an attention whore at the last minute during the ceremony.

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