Coping with a broken heart

Sure I broke it off with my girl . But I miss her so much and I get SO down about being alone.......... i just wanted to get it out....... This thread may go no where but its good to talk

Yeah...I called it of w/ my ex about 4 months ago...it's rough. It's like all your chemical/emotional reactions are based around another persons presence, their chemistry triggering yours....even when they're not there, they affect your life in some way. Its like going through withdrawals from your own brain and body drugs!

For me, the split was for the best. I felt stiffled and held back, unable to be myself in ways that I needed. Case in point: she would shit a brick if she saw this website, very uptight, pedantic older hippie goddess lady...she just don't dig alot of the things that I do. Sure, I missed her like crazy, and still do from time to time, special place in my heart etc. But I can breathe easier now. Actually breathe my own air.

There's someone out there with similar lungs, I'm sure! Hope this helps some...

r.

She found out you were whacking it in her car?

I'm not even sure if I've been dumped, but I've been fighting back tears all week anyway.

He moved home to West Virginia last Friday. His voice got more and more distant with each call. Then one night I called, and he was out with Megan (who the fuck is she?!?).. so I decided to just call the next day. By the next day, his family's phone line had been disconnected, and he hasn't called me from a friend's house or anything to let me know what's going on, so I don't know if he is just hoping I'll disappear or what.

I don't know how to feel.

That's too bad.

This would go in the Sex talk forum, by the way.

time. though having said that, it;s almost 2 years to the day since I last saw my one true love. think about her everyday...but its not as painful as it was.

im getting the same feeling from a guy right now. different situation, but same feelings. and i have come to the conclusion that he is being a total douchebag, and have been just trying to forget about him. people that are going to treat you like that are not worth getting upset about. even though it may be very hard at first.

I feel you guys.

[Edited on Jul 07, 2005 by Minuette]

I recently hooked up with an ex-girlfriend who'd recently broken up with the guy she'd been dating for the two years since dating me. It was weird but really nice. Now she's in the Adirondacks working at a summer camp (with the other ex-boyfriend, no less, tho I know that she'd rather not be) and I can't leave my dogs to go visit her. And then she moves to Kalamazoo for nine months. It's weird and I don't know what to do.

I really don't know if I have it in me to fall in love anymore. I haven't had my heart broken often, but the two times it's happened, it's been crushing.

I broke it off too. I also miss him but know that he was no good for me. I also get VERY DOWN about being alone.

It'll get better though. Right?

*hug*

I broke up with my ex almost two months ago. I was keeping really busy for the first few weeks, and talking to a new girl, but since then, I've fallen apart. I think about her all the time, everywhere I go, everything I do, there's always something that reminds me of her and ruins whatever good mood I might have been in. I saw her for the first time since the breakup last weekend, and it was awful. I got so drunk I slept with some other girl(whom I didn't even like) and didn't even remember it. I miss her so much and I want her back, and I feel so pathetic for it. We weren't even right for each other...

We broke up about a month ago. To think that the future I once envisioned has now evaporated, and now I have no one to share my life with anymore. I've done a whole bunch of really hateful things since then, and the worse thing is, I don't care that I've done them.

It used to be I was fallin' in love,
Now I'm just fallin' apart.

Total eclipse of the heart.

Rhythym is a dancer,
it's a soul's companion,
you can feel it everywhere

Lift your hands and voices
free your mind and join us
you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, ooh, ooh, oh

Check this out
Let the rhythm ride you guide you
Sneak inside you set your mind to move
To this pulsation
Bass vibrations
Sense sensation

Nothing to lose
Everything to win
Let it control you hold you mold you
Not the old, the new
Touch it taste it
Free your soul let it invade you
Be what you wanna
If the groove don't get you the rhyme's gonna
I'm serious as cancer when I say
Rhythm is a dancer

You're the Fridgemagnet beneath my wings.

Things will start to look up soon.
Everything happens for a reason.
If it's meant to be, you guys will find eachother in the future.
In the mean time, do something to keep your mind occupied...
When you sit and ponder on the situation, whether you were happy or not, it will drive you insane.

You are absolutely, 100% right!! That's terrific advice.

[Edited on Jul 07, 2005 by Minuette]

If everything happens for a reason, does that mean that life is predetermined and there is no free will?

It's harder being on my side.. when you're the one who was dumped and you still wanted to be with them... and you were dumped for someone else.. and you have to see them together and happy. Ugh...

the girl that i was hanging out with for a while and really interested in is now dating the guy who lives across the street from me.

i see her car out front and i get so excited, then my heart gets all heavy and i make myself sad...

You said that, for a reason.