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Goldnmember

Goldnmember

Australia
June 2005

JUL 07, 2005 09:09 AM

Sure I broke it off with my girl . But I miss her so much and I get SO down about being alone.......... i just wanted to get it out....... This thread may go no where but its good to talk frown frown frown

billyfivecrows

billyfivecrows

Roswell, GA
July 2005

JUL 07, 2005 09:59 AM

Yeah...I called it of w/ my ex about 4 months ago...it's rough. It's like all your chemical/emotional reactions are based around another persons presence, their chemistry triggering yours....even when they're not there, they affect your life in some way. Its like going through withdrawals from your own brain and body drugs!

For me, the split was for the best. I felt stiffled and held back, unable to be myself in ways that I needed. Case in point: she would shit a brick if she saw this website, very uptight, pedantic older hippie goddess lady...she just don't dig alot of the things that I do. Sure, I missed her like crazy, and still do from time to time, special place in my heart etc. But I can breathe easier now. Actually breathe my own air.

There's someone out there with similar lungs, I'm sure! Hope this helps some...

r.

Ryan_Dipietro

Ryan_Dipietro

Naples, FL
April 2004

JUL 07, 2005 10:07 AM

She found out you were whacking it in her car?

Cadyne

cadyne

Laurel, MD
May 2005

JUL 07, 2005 10:09 AM

I'm not even sure if I've been dumped, but I've been fighting back tears all week anyway.

He moved home to West Virginia last Friday. His voice got more and more distant with each call. Then one night I called, and he was out with Megan (who the fuck is she?!?).. so I decided to just call the next day. By the next day, his family's phone line had been disconnected, and he hasn't called me from a friend's house or anything to let me know what's going on, so I don't know if he is just hoping I'll disappear or what.

I don't know how to feel.

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

JUL 07, 2005 10:13 AM

That's too bad.

This would go in the Sex talk forum, by the way.

Wren

Wren

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

JUL 07, 2005 10:18 AM

Cadyne said:
I'm not even sure if I've been dumped, but I've been fighting back tears all week anyway.

He moved home to West Virginia last Friday. His voice got more and more distant with each call. Then one night I called, and he was out with Megan (who the fuck is she?!?).. so I decided to just call the next day. By the next day, his family's phone line had been disconnected, and he hasn't called me from a friend's house or anything to let me know what's going on, so I don't know if he is just hoping I'll disappear or what.

I don't know how to feel.



What an asshole! Is he in fifth grade or what?!

[Edited on Jul 07, 2005 by Wren]

hoisin

hoisin

United Kingdom
April 2004

JUL 07, 2005 10:35 AM

time. though having said that, it;s almost 2 years to the day since I last saw my one true love. think about her everyday...but its not as painful as it was.

TessAbbie

TessAbbie

Portland, OR
March 2005

JUL 07, 2005 10:38 AM

Cadyne said:
I'm not even sure if I've been dumped, but I've been fighting back tears all week anyway.

He moved home to West Virginia last Friday. His voice got more and more distant with each call. Then one night I called, and he was out with Megan (who the fuck is she?!?).. so I decided to just call the next day. By the next day, his family's phone line had been disconnected, and he hasn't called me from a friend's house or anything to let me know what's going on, so I don't know if he is just hoping I'll disappear or what.

I don't know how to feel.



im getting the same feeling from a guy right now. different situation, but same feelings. and i have come to the conclusion that he is being a total douchebag, and have been just trying to forget about him. people that are going to treat you like that are not worth getting upset about. even though it may be very hard at first.

Riva

Riva

Apopka, FL
May 2005

JUL 07, 2005 10:42 AM

I feel you guys.

[Edited on Jul 07, 2005 by Minuette]

Cigarette

Cigarette

Cleveland, OH
April 2004

JUL 07, 2005 10:43 AM

I recently hooked up with an ex-girlfriend who'd recently broken up with the guy she'd been dating for the two years since dating me. It was weird but really nice. Now she's in the Adirondacks working at a summer camp (with the other ex-boyfriend, no less, tho I know that she'd rather not be) and I can't leave my dogs to go visit her. And then she moves to Kalamazoo for nine months. It's weird and I don't know what to do.

FridgeMagnet

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL
November 2004

JUL 07, 2005 10:48 AM

I really don't know if I have it in me to fall in love anymore. I haven't had my heart broken often, but the two times it's happened, it's been crushing.

Tiffanylynn

Tiffanylynn

Philadelphia, PA
May 2004

JUL 07, 2005 10:54 AM

Goldnmember said:
Sure I broke it off with my girl . But I miss her so much and I get SO down about being alone.......... i just wanted to get it out....... This thread may go no where but its good to talk frown frown frown




I broke it off too. I also miss him but know that he was no good for me. I also get VERY DOWN about being alone.

It'll get better though. Right?

*hug*

StarBelliedBoy

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA
December 2003

JUL 07, 2005 11:00 AM

I broke up with my ex almost two months ago. I was keeping really busy for the first few weeks, and talking to a new girl, but since then, I've fallen apart. I think about her all the time, everywhere I go, everything I do, there's always something that reminds me of her and ruins whatever good mood I might have been in. I saw her for the first time since the breakup last weekend, and it was awful. I got so drunk I slept with some other girl(whom I didn't even like) and didn't even remember it. I miss her so much and I want her back, and I feel so pathetic for it. We weren't even right for each other...

The_Happy_Pig

The_Happy_Pig

United Kingdom
December 2004

JUL 07, 2005 11:07 AM

We broke up about a month ago. To think that the future I once envisioned has now evaporated, and now I have no one to share my life with anymore. I've done a whole bunch of really hateful things since then, and the worse thing is, I don't care that I've done them.

robosagogo

robosagogo

State College, PA
September 2004

JUL 07, 2005 11:08 AM

It used to be I was fallin' in love,
Now I'm just fallin' apart.

Total eclipse of the heart.

Ryan_Dipietro

Ryan_Dipietro

Naples, FL
April 2004

JUL 07, 2005 11:11 AM

robosagogo said:
It used to be I was fallin' in love,
Now I'm just fallin' apart.

Total eclipse of the heart.



Rhythym is a dancer,
it's a soul's companion,
you can feel it everywhere

Lift your hands and voices
free your mind and join us
you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, ooh, ooh, oh

FridgeMagnet

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL
November 2004

JUL 07, 2005 11:18 AM

RyanDipietro said:

robosagogo said:
It used to be I was fallin' in love,
Now I'm just fallin' apart.

Total eclipse of the heart.



Rhythym is a dancer,
it's a soul's companion,
you can feel it everywhere

Lift your hands and voices
free your mind and join us
you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, ooh, ooh, oh



Check this out
Let the rhythm ride you guide you
Sneak inside you set your mind to move
To this pulsation
Bass vibrations
Sense sensation

Nothing to lose
Everything to win
Let it control you hold you mold you
Not the old, the new
Touch it taste it
Free your soul let it invade you
Be what you wanna
If the groove don't get you the rhyme's gonna
I'm serious as cancer when I say
Rhythm is a dancer

Ryan_Dipietro

Ryan_Dipietro

Naples, FL
April 2004

JUL 07, 2005 11:25 AM

FridgeMagnet said:

RyanDipietro said:

robosagogo said:
It used to be I was fallin' in love,
Now I'm just fallin' apart.

Total eclipse of the heart.



Rhythym is a dancer,
it's a soul's companion,
you can feel it everywhere

Lift your hands and voices
free your mind and join us
you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, you can feel it in the air
Ooh, it's a passion
Ooh, ooh, ooh, oh



Check this out
Let the rhythm ride you guide you
Sneak inside you set your mind to move
To this pulsation
Bass vibrations
Sense sensation

Nothing to lose
Everything to win
Let it control you hold you mold you
Not the old, the new
Touch it taste it
Free your soul let it invade you
Be what you wanna
If the groove don't get you the rhyme's gonna
I'm serious as cancer when I say
Rhythm is a dancer




You're the Fridgemagnet beneath my wings.

COOPS

coops

Arlington, TX
March 2005

JUL 07, 2005 11:34 AM

Things will start to look up soon.
Everything happens for a reason.
If it's meant to be, you guys will find eachother in the future.
In the mean time, do something to keep your mind occupied...
When you sit and ponder on the situation, whether you were happy or not, it will drive you insane.

Riva

Riva

Apopka, FL
May 2005

JUL 07, 2005 11:57 AM

COOPS said:
Things will start to look up soon.
Everything happens for a reason.
If it's meant to be, you guys will find eachother in the future.
In the mean time, do something to keep your mind occupied...
When you sit and ponder on the situation, whether you were happy or not, it will drive you insane.



You are absolutely, 100% right!! That's terrific advice. love biggrin kiss

[Edited on Jul 07, 2005 by Minuette]

Cigarette

Cigarette

Cleveland, OH
April 2004

JUL 07, 2005 12:31 PM

If everything happens for a reason, does that mean that life is predetermined and there is no free will?

Wren

Wren

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

JUL 07, 2005 02:26 PM

Cigarette said:
If everything happens for a reason, does that mean that life is predetermined and there is no free will?



The idea that "everything happens for a reason" is treacly nonsense that people believe when they don't want to admit that things JUST HAPPEN.

BlackHive

BlackHive

Philadelphia, PA
January 2004

JUL 07, 2005 03:06 PM

It's harder being on my side.. when you're the one who was dumped and you still wanted to be with them... and you were dumped for someone else.. and you have to see them together and happy. Ugh...

Eero

Eero

USA
August 2003

JUL 07, 2005 03:18 PM

the girl that i was hanging out with for a while and really interested in is now dating the guy who lives across the street from me.

i see her car out front and i get so excited, then my heart gets all heavy and i make myself sad...

Crim

Crim

HOPEFUL

Portland, OR

JUL 07, 2005 03:38 PM

Wren said:

Cigarette said:
If everything happens for a reason, does that mean that life is predetermined and there is no free will?



The idea that "everything happens for a reason" is treacly nonsense that people believe when they don't want to admit that things JUST HAPPEN.


You said that, for a reason.

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