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dem_z

dem_z

United Kingdom
June 2004

MAY 30, 2005 05:28 AM

A mother who hired a stripper for her 16 year old son's birthday has been indicted by a grand jury.

"I tried to do something special for my son," [Anette Pharris, 34] said. "It didn't harm him."

About 10 people under the age of 18 were at the birthday party in September, including minors who were not related to the family, authorities said.


Maybe the boy enjoyed the show and wasn't harmed, but there are laws and the laws are obvious; don't mix sex and minors. A good idea for people committing criminal acts is "don't take photographs".

Anette Pharris took photos at the party and tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store. Drug store employees notified authorities, police said.


The Mother seems defiant, or maybe just stupid.

"Who are they to tell me what I can and can't show to my own children?" the mother said.

Mallory

Mallory

SUICIDEGIRL

Connecticut, USA

MAY 30, 2005 06:02 AM

this is gross

PlanNine

PlanNine

Orlando, FL
January 2005

MAY 30, 2005 06:06 AM



"Who are they to tell me what I can and can't show to my own children?" the mother said.


And all the neighbors children. whatever

Twwly

Twwly

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

MAY 30, 2005 06:07 AM

Could she not have waited two more years?

Geez.

Cruorem_Angelus

Cruorem_Angelus

Denver, CO
June 2004

MAY 30, 2005 06:08 AM

I agree but I suppose it's better than the typical underage drinking followed by car wrecks.

inchiki

inchiki

Japan
August 2002

MAY 30, 2005 06:19 AM

Personally, when I was 16, I could barely watch a movie love scene with my mom in the room without getting antsy...

PlanNine

PlanNine

Orlando, FL
January 2005

MAY 30, 2005 06:21 AM

inchiki said:
Personally, when I was 16, I could barely watch a movie love scene with my mom in the room without getting antsy...


Well, if you click the link you'll see it was in Nashville TN. It's a whole 'nother world there.

dvsskunk

dvsskunk

Westminster, CO
December 2003

MAY 30, 2005 06:31 AM

Is that illegal in Tennesse?

Cigarette

Cigarette

Cleveland, OH
April 2004

MAY 30, 2005 06:52 AM

So you can fuck your cousin but can't look at boobies at 16?

hijames69

hijames69

Sacramento, CA
April 2004

MAY 30, 2005 07:15 AM

It's illegal to fuck your cousin?

Perdy

Perdy

United Kingdom
October 2004

MAY 30, 2005 07:20 AM

Even regardless of the age issue, if I was a mother I wouldn't be interested in playing that big a part in my sons sexual awakening. There are some things that just aren't parent/child activities for me.

Gravelord81

Gravelord81

Richmond, KY
October 2003

MAY 30, 2005 07:25 AM

could of drove two hours and had the party up in KY where 16 is legal

gut666

gut666

Moreno Valley, CA
April 2005

MAY 30, 2005 07:43 AM

what a retard. hasnt she ever heard of digital cameras . oh wait this is nashville tennessee. nevermind

DocAlcoholiday

DocAlcoholiday

USA
March 2005

MAY 30, 2005 07:44 AM

Bah, it woulda been legal if the other kids there had their parents. And mabey if she didnt photograph. What you do on your property is your business, but she got stupid.

skull

hillbillyjoe1842

hillbillyjoe1842

Cincinnati, OH
March 2005

MAY 30, 2005 07:51 AM

I have 2 kids, both boys, one is 5 and the other is 1....when the time comes for them to be "sexually awakened", I think that's how it was put, the only part that I want to have in it is that they think about the things I have taught them and make the right decision to be safe, and happy. The idea of sitting with my teenage sons while they watch a stripper is, well, it just doesn't seem right to me. When they get older, meaning 25+, then I might be alright with as a bonding experience with them as men...but teenagers??? Come on....there is no way to rationalize that being ok.

DD

Leanimal

Leanimal

Gainesville, FL
February 2005

MAY 30, 2005 08:24 AM

when will parents learn? they card you at the door of the strip club for a reason - I mean, what was this mother thinking? Besides just the negative idea of presenting your child (who may not even have the right to drive in some states) with a naked chick for his birthday, the fact that there were other kids there, who did NOT have permission should have tipped her off. And I can't even believe the kid was into it - I'm sorry, but I enjoyed my sexual exploration without my mom there - and I would think this kid would want that too.

Not to mention - what does this give the kid to look forward to? Does he get an actual prostitute for his 18th birthday? This trend is just becoming more and more common. A family in my hometown got busted for serving kegs at a sweet 16 - it just worries me - I left home and went to college and experimented - with sex, liquor - whatever - if it had been presented freely to me by my parents, I'm not sure if I wouldn't have bothered experimenting, or if I just would have experimented with things that were even harder...

semyaza

semyaza

Wildomar, CA
December 2004

MAY 30, 2005 09:12 AM

Hell... I'm gonna go against the grain on this one.

I'd have LOVED to gotten a stripper for MY 16th birthday. love

On a related note: I was watching Larry The Cable Guy on TV yesterday and he said something like:

"Yeah, I went to go visit a friend of mine but when I got there, things weren't so good. Seems his 10 year old son had sex with his school teacher. Unfortunately, his son is homeschooled."

tongue

NinjaTech

NinjaTech

Minneapolis, MN
November 2003

MAY 30, 2005 09:14 AM

God hicks are awesome.

EarthFreak

EarthFreak

I'm lost
April 2004

MAY 30, 2005 10:22 AM

I'm not usually big on feminism, but doesn't it seem as if this is NOT a healthy way to grow a 16 yr old's sexuality? I mean, it sounds damn cool, but it seems to just be furthering the principle of objectifying women. Bleck.

-As for the photography, that woman is seriously stupid. Can this be considered natural selection?

Rosscoe

Rosscoe

I'm lost
March 2005

MAY 30, 2005 10:42 AM

She's 34 so that means she got pregnant at 17.. 18.

Now i'm not saying there's anything wrong with that i'm just saying its a young age.
It was an interesting idea to show him a stripper at 16... people...

Ems

Ems

United Kingdom
July 2004

MAY 30, 2005 11:17 AM

What's stupid is that the law in the UK says you have to be 16 to have sex, but 18 to buy porn or apparently see a stripper? Dumb.

Freakchef

Freakchef

Surrey, BC
January 2004

MAY 30, 2005 11:18 AM

Note to the mother! Get yourself a Digital Camera biggrin tongue

Gwendolyn

Gwendolyn

SUICIDEGIRL

Indiana, USA

MAY 30, 2005 11:34 AM

Haha. Oh wow. How special.

I remember when I was in middle school this annoying boy who was in my band class came to school one day wearing a Hooter's shirt signed by all the waitresses that he had just gotten during his 13th birthday dinner there. I heard him bragging to one of the boys that his dad had urged the waitresses to shove their breasts in his face. The boy in question has approximately three kids by different mothers now. I guess women have gladly been shoving their breasts in his face ever since.

Anyhow, I'm not really surprised by this story... especially coming out of Tennessee. (My dad grew up there and he is the most backwards person I know.)

robosagogo

robosagogo

State College, PA
September 2004

MAY 30, 2005 12:24 PM

I'm not shifting the blame, or anything, but why would somebody agree to strip for a bunch of 16 year olds?

pavlovsdog

pavlovsdog

Asheville, NC
May 2004

MAY 30, 2005 08:00 PM

Like no one's ever thought of sex at 16. Alot of the people on this site claim to have lost their virginity before that age. I sure many of you had viewed porn by that age too. I hear this said about other things, so I'll say it here as well: I'd rather have my kids do it under my supervision than elsewhere.

Also some parents want so much to be that "cool" parent that they will do stupid things in order to gain their childrens acceptance. This was one case.
The pictures were a bad idea though. As well as inviting the neighborhood kids.

It also must have been kind of embarassing for the stripper. Maybe she should have thought twice about the situation.

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