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Jeff_Fries

Jeff_Fries

Humptulips, WA
September 2003

APR 13, 2005 01:00 AM

Olivia said:
I guess that's why gorgeous ex-Playboy Bunny Gloria Steinem never got taken seriously, eh?


No freakin way. I got to get a catalogue.

Olivia

Olivia

STAFF

Oakland, CA

APR 13, 2005 01:19 AM



Yup. Schwing.

xokatyxo

xokatyxo

United Kingdom
December 2004

APR 13, 2005 01:46 AM

Seconding that schwing. biggrin

Though it should be noted that Gloria Steinem only posed as a Bunny to write an expose on the injustices of it for Esquire magazine. She worked as a bunny cocktail waitress at one of the Playboy clubs in NYC in order to gain a first hand perspective on the lives of the bunny girls for a subsequent article. She was an undercover bunny.

(Ahem. I'd get a black mark from Andrea for saying this but I so covet those original Playboy bunny outfits...)

tech29

tech29

I'm lost
July 2004

APR 13, 2005 06:32 AM

Never seems to amaze me on this site if your a man and you question any I

MistressMissy

mistressmissy

Grand Rapids, MI
March 2003

APR 13, 2005 06:39 AM

RaaF said:
Never seems to amaze me on this site if your a man and you question any I



question any what? females that have been raped and molested and tortured?
im still mad at you.
you should just hold your tongue.

[Edited on Apr 13, 2005 by MistressMissy]

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

APR 13, 2005 07:49 AM

RaaF said:
Never seems to amaze me on this site if your a man and you question any I



Question any l? Yeah, I wouldn't question that letter if I were you. "L" can be a real bitch, even in lowercase.

HenryTMensch

HenryTMensch

New York, NY
December 2004

APR 13, 2005 08:00 AM

RaaF said:
Never seems to amaze me on this site if your a man and you question any I



As far as I can tell, there is no gender bias on this site w/r/t landing on offensive bullshit with two feet.

Why don't you just quit while you're ahead.

amaz0nmatchu

amaz0nmatchu

I'm lost
December 2004

APR 13, 2005 11:09 AM

jake_lex said:
The problem I have here is that even though I find Susie Bright's reading of Dworkin as leading to more pro-woman porn to be compelling, when you look at how Dworkin herself applied her own work in the realm of politics, it's a much less benign influence. To give a prime example, I suggest you read this article about the travails of Little Sisters Bookstore in Canada, which had a good deal of its inventory seized as pornography under the terms of an anti-porn law very heavily influenced by the work of Dworkin (along with Catherine McKenna.)



It's an unfortunate myth that McKinnon and Dworkin had anything directly to do with the Canada ruling - in fact, Dworkin spoke out against it publically and McKinnon served as legal counsel for the case, only to advise against the law. You can find more information here:

http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/OrdinanceCanada.html

I don't doubt that a misreading of some of Dworkin's work was used to market the law. However, that certainly doesn't implicate her personally.

bgrrrr

bgrrrr

Portland, OR
November 2004

APR 13, 2005 01:53 PM

Olivia said:
I guess that's why gorgeous ex-Playboy Bunny Gloria Steinem never got taken seriously, eh?



Gloria was taken seriously for a while, but now it seems like the self-appointed 'femenist' leadership is kinda like the self-appointed black leadership: Same people, only 30 years older giving same speeches to the same audiences.

At least that's all that I see of them on TV and in the USA Today newspaper. And I listen to alot of public radio and I literally NEVER hear mention of the 'femenist movement'. In fact, I just searched for 'dworkin' on the NPR.ORG site and got 3 results, the most recent of which was from November '03! That's how irrelevant she and the movement have become to the even relatively well-educated masses.

DebraJean

DebraJean

SUICIDEGIRL

Egypt

APR 13, 2005 02:26 PM

I'm glad that because you listen to the raido I can get all the information I need on the "femanist movement" from you and feel very well educated.
I never wanted to do any real work myself, like read books or look at websites or any of that shit anyway.
Thanks for never turning off the radio even when when you are sleeping or jerking it so I can be lazy!

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

APR 13, 2005 02:32 PM

Wow, TV and USA Today! You are SO well-informed!

Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

APR 13, 2005 02:38 PM

How can anyone be an active member of Suicidegirls and still think that attractive women can't be serious feminists? They would have to be willfully ignorant.

bgrrrr

bgrrrr

Portland, OR
November 2004

APR 13, 2005 07:26 PM

Sadly for feminism, I'm just representin' the mainstream.

Feminism, if it is different from the caustic rhetoric and extremist views espoused by Andrea D needs better PR if it wants to be understood by the reasonable middle. (Red staters = lost cause for this generation at least, imho)

As I see it, one of the main problems is the perceived inconsistencies. For example, how can you support Andrea's views on fashion and then dress fashionably? Again, I'm not picking a fight but representing the conventional wisdom as I experience it.

Now, my idealized 'femenist' is Ani DiFranco. Love her albums, love her in concert, think she's hot. She is about real empowerment. Do your own thing and don't get boxed in by either side. She refuses to be owned by male-dominated corporate recording interests or by feminists who want her as their poster child. Ani speaks/sings her truth and doesn't care about opinions.

And as Forrest Gump liked to say "That's all I have to say about that".


p.s. RIP, Andrea. You chose a tough path out of even tougher circumstances, as I have been so informed by this board. You spoke your truth, and probably to the extreme so as to garner attention and make something, anything happen for your cause. I would not have wanted your life.

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

APR 13, 2005 08:07 PM

bgrrrr said:
Sadly for feminism, I'm just representin' the mainstream.

Feminism, if it is different from the caustic rhetoric and extremist views espoused by Andrea D needs better PR if it wants to be understood by the reasonable middle.



If you're representing the mainstream, the mainstream ain't reasonable. Sorry.

bgrrrr said:
As I see it, one of the main problems is the perceived inconsistencies. For example, how can you support Andrea's views on fashion and then dress fashionably?



Who here said they agreed with everything Dworkin said? What I saw was people saying that we should respect her past work and her impact on feminism, as well as her strength, even if we don't agree with all of her core statements.

bgrrrr said:
Now, my idealized 'femenist' is Ani DiFranco. Love her albums, love her in concert, think she's hot.



Yeah, 'cause the ideal feminist should be hot. whatever How does that even make sense, as you said earlier that people who are attactive shouldn't be taken as seriously?

bgrrrr said:
RIP, Andrea. You chose a tough path out of even tougher circumstances, as I have been so informed by this board. You spoke your truth, and probably to the extreme so as to garner attention and make something, anything happen for your cause. I would not have wanted your life.



Does that mean you're taking back that BS about how anti-porn people are ugly?

bgrrrr

bgrrrr

Portland, OR
November 2004

APR 13, 2005 09:08 PM

Please oh please show me where I said that attractive people couldn’t be feminists! I said that Andrea would not have been taken as seriously by her core constituency if she was gorgeous. And I stand by that particular statement: You cannot be the standard-bearer for radical feminism and be a babe at the same time any more than a short thin balding weenie could be the face of ‘Promise-Keepers’ or Skinheads of America.

And yes, I still believe that most (not all, mind you) anti-porn people, both male and female are of less than average attractiveness. Kinda like how it was an impotent Pope that first instituted celibacy for Catholic Priests! It’s the ‘If I can’t get none, then no one can’ mentality.


[Edited on Apr 13, 2005 by bgrrrr]

humberthumbert

humberthumbert

HOPEFUL

Greenland

APR 13, 2005 09:41 PM

even if most anti-porners were ugly, like, what is your point? that their opinions are less valid?

on another note, it seems like feminists (especially radicals) are often seen as either too pretty or too ugly to be taken seriously; you kind of can't win.

HenryTMensch

HenryTMensch

New York, NY
December 2004

APR 13, 2005 10:30 PM

Thistle said:
How can anyone be an active member of Suicidegirls and still think that attractive women can't be serious feminists? They would have to be willfully ignorant.



Psssh. Feh. Naked women can't be femmynasts! DUH.

whatever

jonasgrumby

jonasgrumby

Portland, OR
April 2004

APR 19, 2005 06:18 PM

amaz0nmatchu said:
It's an unfortunate myth that McKinnon and Dworkin had anything directly to do with the Canada ruling - in fact, Dworkin spoke out against it publically and McKinnon served as legal counsel for the case, only to advise against the law. You can find more information here:

http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/OrdinanceCanada.html

I don't doubt that a misreading of some of Dworkin's work was used to market the law. However, that certainly doesn't implicate her personally.


They didn't support that particular law, but the type of anti-pornography statute they authored and supported painted with such a broad brush that any porn, no matter how pro-woman, could be cause for fines and confiscation, depending on who's doing the interpreting.

To the extent that Andrea Dworkin's career spotlighted the injustice of sexual abuse and a culture of systematic sexual oppression, I salute her. But I'd be hard-pressed to think of a single social good that's worth the price of outright coercive censorship.

[edited to change "statue" to "statute"... yeesh]

[Edited on Apr 21, 2005 by jonasgrumby]

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