Why do girls not like me?

Seriously. Girls really don't seem to dig me around here. I don't know what my problem is. All these other guys have ladies jump to them like moths to a lightbulb. I recently did have a girlfriend,but I sometimes think she was desperate or settling. I just want to know why. Am I ugly,lame,etc?

Does it really matter because I think you are among the coolest

popularity in any form is so overrated

just ask the axis--he knows everything

It's not popularity really at all. I don't care what anyone thinks of me. I just tend to wonder.

And i'll change my display picture to answer gwendolyn's picture.

I don't think it's a bad post.

Women don't find me sexually attractive.

I have the same problem. I don't think it's really one of looks though (even though I'm not a looker). For me, personally, it's my lack of confidence with women I'm attracted to.

There was this guy at the bar the other day, who wasn't a looker at all, but girls were flocking to him left and right. The more girls came, the more other girls flocked to him. What I think they were drawn to, was his confidence more than anything. But it's kind of a catch-22 though, because if you don't have confidence, most girls will ignore you, and how can you build confidence that way?

I think it comes down to the cliche of getting to know yourself first, and building up yourself that way. Be the best person you can, and excel at all the things you try to do. Build those pieces of your confidence, and hopefully the rest will follow. In my case, I have dropped the ball on building myself into my ideal person, so I can't be surprised that women aren't flocking to me.



[Edited on Apr 06, 2005 by theSpotlessMind]

Because you are not made of teh sex...like myself.

It's all about the vibe you give off. If you're really self conscious you'll come off as anti-social or snobbish. It's happened to me.
And what theSpotlessMind said

who knows maybe it's all of the above

Her sentiments are dead on, and sadly, this is the death knell in many of the relationships I've been in. I have somewhat of a penchant for getting myself into situations where I'm a social worker or nurturer to my partner. The shit part of these relationships is that regardless of how dependent they are on the situation, as soon as I try to show them that I thrive off them (much as they often do moreso than me) to a great deal, they get cold feet and take off.

Lesson learned? I don't deal with women with baggage anymore. It sucks because I've had some terrific relationships for a time with them -- but I simply won't take the double standard anymore.

women are whores

men are assholes

if you're not one of the exstremes you will DIE ALONE

You said I had a delightful musk.

I've never liked the word "musk" something dirty about it

HAHA if you dropped the ball then do what I'm doing.
Break down your ENTIRE Self as you know it...and rebuild it, better FASTER STRONGER. Its hard a fuck though..

I'm currently working on this.

I think subconciously this was a "fishing for compliments" thread...but thanks for all the help. and criticism

LOL...yeah I do that sometimes

girls like confidence
attitudes like this make them hate you. thats just how it is


(esspecailly texas girls)

First of all, make sure your cologne isn't called something like "Eu de Chum". You might also want to try being in a band, or hang around crowded places and affect an air of conspicuously not caring. If that doesn't work, just get hammered and take what you can get.

Seriously, though - you have to have an adequate opinion of yourself. If you've got that, and can talk to people, you've got as good a chance as anyone. Well, except for dudes in bands.

Ouch.

She's right you know.

This is a method I only recommend to experts. But eventually it will get you all of teh laydeez.

This jerks right

just look at his avatar....freaking Spike acts like he don't like ANY GIRL, and he gets them all. Of course he's fucking georgous as well