Clara said:
I've done this to man before. I can promise you that she's not really sure why either. Take care.
*ringing bells and flashing lights* We have a winner here!
Thank you, Clara. From my experience, I would wager that most women are in this very same boat. They don't really know why they need to break up with a guy, but they feel it must be done.
In happy-generalization-land, it's important to remember that most men respond logically and most women respond emotionally. You can ask a woman for logical reasons for why she said "It's not you, it's me." But she probably can't articulate it logically.
What is it about love that makes it hurt so badly when they leave you?
How can you stop the pain?
Makes it worse because I got the whole, "Is not you, its me. I just needtime to be single. Your the best boyfriend I ever had and it scares me."
If thats the case why did she have to leave me?
Sorry, im just in a lot of pain and need sympathy even if it is from people who I dont know. I just want to be told its okay.
Dude, just give it time. She might come back to you, she might not. Maybe she sees you as the One, and that's a scary thing. How old are you? Young? Just chill, don't go out and try to date, just relax, and try to focus on you. I've been in yours AND her position, DON'T do anything sudden.
chronoszero
San Francisco, CA
February 2005
MAR 31, 2005 07:18 AM